muslim marriage tips

[Jenn! 918]

Charles - SZSZ

I brought more popcorn for Nessa, if she wants some, sis.

I think the show is over...

[Sofiyya 1,687]

For example I read that if a muslim wife rejects her husband's come on for sex, the angels curse her from the time she sleeps until the morning. That isn't anything I've ever heard of in Christianity so things like that is what I was looking for.

PLEASE, do not read or apply ahadith until you understand the Quran. There is nothing to equate this in the Sunnah of Allah, nor will it validate it unless and until you have a proper context upon which to grasp its meaning. It ranks among the stuff about more women being in hell and how Allah prefers men to marry virgins rather than previously married women. Sorry, cultural interpretations have oozed into the texts, making Islam seem very female unfriendly. It takes time and study to discern how to incorporate ahadith and what of it is not in the manner of our God or the Prophet.

[Ban Hammer 13,283]

But again,,,this is what works for us. I should have learned by now to stay out of this thread but today I must be a glutton for punishment.

Jackie

amen to that. i guess i need to be more of a diversion?

[mawilson 2,133]

For example I read that if a muslim wife rejects her husband's come on for sex, the angels curse her from the time she sleeps until the morning. That isn't anything I've ever heard of in Christianity so things like that is what I was looking for.

Dude - I should get myself one of them Muslim wives - LOL

[Ban Hammer 13,283]

For example I read that if a muslim wife rejects her husband's come on for sex, the angels curse her from the time she sleeps until the morning. That isn't anything I've ever heard of in Christianity so things like that is what I was looking for.

Dude - I should get myself one of them Muslim wives - LOL

[mybackpages 0]

For example I read that if a muslim wife rejects her husband's come on for sex, the angels curse her from the time she sleeps until the morning. That isn't anything I've ever heard of in Christianity so things like that is what I was looking for.

Dude - I should get myself one of them Muslim wives - LOL

be careful what you wish for

[amal 4]

wow, I don't come on for 1 day and the thread falls to pieces. What a shame. I thought for once there was a debate that was remaining civil. I guess I was wrong. There is nothing wrong with disagreeing. Everybody has their own points of view and everybody should have the right to explain their own points of view until they have explained it to death OR they have the right to not comment anymore. I don't remember the last time I was so belittled for something I felt so strongly in. It seems no matter how hard I tried to explain myself...that I rode the fence on the subject, somebody had to come along and try to push my face in the mud. (excluding a couple of you ~ you should know who you are) I know it doesn't matter to any of you but I am really disappointed with how this ended up as I was quite enjoying the different ideas until the train wreck. I would really like to talk about this subject in real time (it is so much easier to explain yourself in real time.) I will be happy to talk about it over yahoo if anybody is interested. I will not be a part of the torment that is happening in this thread

amal

[Ban Hammer 13,283]

wow, I don't come on for 1 day and the thread falls to pieces. What a shame. I thought for once there was a debate that was remaining civil. I guess I was wrong. There is nothing wrong with disagreeing. Everybody has their own points of view and everybody should have the right to explain their own points of view until they have explained it to death OR they have the right to not comment anymore. I don't remember the last time I was so belittled for something I felt so strongly in. It seems no matter how hard I tried to explain myself...that I rode the fence on the subject, somebody had to come along and try to push my face in the mud. (excluding a couple of you ~ you should know who you are) I know it doesn't matter to any of you but I am really disappointed with how this ended up as I was quite enjoying the different ideas until the train wreck. I would really like to talk about this subject in real time (it is so much easier to explain yourself in real time.) I will be happy to talk about it over yahoo if anybody is interested. I will not be a part of the torment that is happening in this thread

amal

i believe the appropriate term is "par for the course" in regards to the consistent bashing in this thread (and many others). i'd liken it to french fries and hamburgers. one goes with the other.......

i do hope you return soon

[Together4ever 1]

This is the reason so many of the wonderful people who used to share here have stopped posting much, if at all.

[Jenn! 918]

I thought we were just discussing in here. I definitely didn't agree with Jackie's post, but we were still able to have our Bachelor chat and have a great time! I don't think we need to carry disagreements from one thread to another. Don't you all fight with sisters?

[Ban Hammer 13,283]

I thought we were just discussing in here. I definitely didn't agree with Jackie's post, but we were still able to have our Bachelor chat and have a great time! I don't think we need to carry disagreements from one thread to another. Don't you all fight with sisters?

btw. you better get with the program, i'm a heart ahead of you

[Jenn! 918]

I thought we were just discussing in here. I definitely didn't agree with Jackie's post, but we were still able to have our Bachelor chat and have a great time! I don't think we need to carry disagreements from one thread to another. Don't you all fight with sisters?

btw. you better get with the program, i'm a heart ahead of you

I think you will *always* be one heart ahead of me. It's a lost cause!

[~Jackie~ 30]

Survivor chat on Thursday night!

I think the more time we spend in 'real time' the better we get to know each other and can appreciate our differences. It also leaves the line of communication open for further discussion. I don't like to burn my bridges with anyone.

Jackie

[mybackpages 0]

Why is it when people disagree on here, everything turns personal? Strong personalities, strong opinions are just words. I thought it was just a passionate discussion. I didn't see a train wreck until everyone started to call it that. Sad really that people are taking all this way too seriously. it continues to amaze me what people want to see in these threads instead of what is there. Are we in HS all over again? jeeze I know I am going regret this post, but I'll just deny any responsibility for my reaction this morning and blame it on the major 6 car accident that I was in yesterday. That's real life and worth losing sleep over. Not this thread.

[Bosco 1]

Why is it when people disagree on here, everything turns personal? Strong personalities, strong opinions are just words. I thought it was just a passionate discussion. I didn't see a train wreck until everyone started to call it that. Sad really that people are taking all this way too seriously. it continues to amaze me what people want to see in these threads instead of what is there. Are we in HS all over again? jeeze I know I am going regret this post, but I'll just deny any responsibility for my reaction this morning and blame it on the major 6 car accident that I was in yesterday. That's real life and worth losing sleep over. Not this thread.

I see it the same as you MBP. It was a heated discussion, nothing more, until the trainwreck accusations entered. I think there are lots of sensitive skins here that think strongly expressing and defending your opinion is a fight, or when their opinion gets knocked down it is an attack on them rather than their opinion.

And I offer no excuses for this post. Hope you are not feeling too sore today You better be home resting or we are coming after you and dragging you home.