Denied at Dublin Embassy: 221(g)

[MeredythB 38]

i'm not a 'path of least resistance' kinda fella, alas.

Ultimately, it's your own choice for what to do. I feel semi-gobsmacked when I read your new path.

Why gobsmacked? Is it strange that I'd want to have the process finished as quickly as possible and yet still make certain that my concerns are heard so as to hopefully prevent a similar situation as mine from happening to anyone else?

Why do I feel as though I'm being shamed for this decision?

[SAT 9,609]

The inability to explain what the problem was is my biggest issue. If we're not meeting expectations, fine, we'll deal with that. But please be able to explain where the problem lies. All I was looking for was some clarification. You should be able to give specific information as to why an issue has risen.

Oh, and you should also not smirk and say "Have a nice day!" to me as I'm leaving. Clearly, I'm not having a good day, you tool.

Sounds like a "Rant" issue here. I hate it when someone can't specify what the objection is. At least if you have that, you can work on overcoming it.

that last sentence is funny

[MeredythB 38]

Sounds like a "Rant" issue here. I hate it when someone can't specify what the objection is. At least if you have that, you can work on overcoming it.

that last sentence is funny

It does sound like a "Rant" issue. I'm still peeved that the CO couldn't explain what the problem was. If you can't explain the reason for a denial, should there be one? That, of course, is why I'm going to speak to the VC after Hubs' visa comes through. And I'll be discussing the attitude given as well.

Always good to try to inject a little levity where you can.

[speedwell 224]

Why gobsmacked? Is it strange that I'd want to have the process finished as quickly as possible and yet still make certain that my concerns are heard so as to hopefully prevent a similar situation as mine from happening to anyone else?

Why do I feel as though I'm being shamed for this decision?

That's a excellent question. Why do you feel shamed because another trusted forum member says they might have proceeded differently?

I do absolutely hope your questions make the officials think a little harder about the lives their decisions are affecting, and I wish you the best luck in the world.

[MeredythB 38]

That's a excellent question. Why do you feel shamed because another trusted forum member says they might have proceeded differently?

I do absolutely hope your questions make the officials think a little harder about the lives their decisions are affecting, and I wish you the best luck in the world.

Speedwell, I agree that Darnell is a helpful member of this site. In fact, it was Darnell who suggested earlier in the thread that the path I am taking was, in fact, an option. It could be said that I'm taking both options, by providing a joint sponsor AND making an appointment to speak with the Vice Consul. My sponsor mailed their information to me this morning and I expect the embassy to have it in hand by Wednesday, a full week earlier than an available appointment.

I'm simply wondering why Darnell is surprised about our decision. It's the quickest way to resolve the issue. I am curious about what triggered the response. It doesn't in any way impact whether or not I feel Darnell is a trusted member....clearly he is.

Thank you for your good wishes. I hope that your own interview process goes smoothly and that life proceeds sweetly for you and yours.

Edited May 9, 2013 by MeredythB

[MeredythB 38]

Package is en route to Ireland as we speak, will be in my hands on Monday! At the embassy Wednesday, then just waiting for the visa in the post!

[SAT 9,609]

Package is en route to Ireland as we speak, will be in my hands on Monday! At the embassy Wednesday, then just waiting for the visa in the post!

That was easy...

[MeredythB 38]

Package delivered to embassy Wednesday morning at 8:20. Wonder how long it will take them to review? We'd love to hear something next week!

[Aball 3]

Hi Meredyth,

I'm just wondering how you got on, if you heard anything?

All the best.

[JonandMarie 0]

Wow! Thanks for sharing the story. Just goes to show the NVC needs to take some control and give us all some piece of mind on the I-864. Giving all the power to the CO just invites problems for all visas. I don't see how its possible they could ever call your case a public charge issue. It was ridiculous to say the least. Maybe the CO has something in it for him/her maybe a performance review or looking to get a promotion and didn't want to risk your case being approved without the i's dotted and the t's crossed. Good to see you got a joint sponsor. I'm in the same situation now at the Manila Embassy. It's absurd you ever got a 221g honestly.