whata heck is taking soo freakin longggggggggg!!!!

[NikLR 13,232]

that is great for you, just like how u stated that you don't need to be scolded same goes for me, and your reply really didn't have any kind of indication of help, and to me personally I consider it disrespect to the fact that u don't even know me to reply to me in this kind of way and u basically just made me look like a whiny person lookin for pity and not doing what im supposed to do and I just post threads to whine like a child, which I totally do not highly appreciate and for that I replied in the same tone as ur reply!!!! and if you did read the previous reply that I had before niki u woulda seen that it clearly state that there have been an update for my case by me asking tomvan about my requested evidence which if you read was tellin me that they noticed that I got a RFE and actually congratulated me on the SAME Thread with a positive reply, so making me look like a whiny person searching for pity was also not nessecary.

No one can make you look like anything to which you have not made yourself look.

Anyhow, send away your reply to the RFE ASAP. Hopefully you'll get your NOA2 quickly. Perhaps request that mod close this thread as well since you no longer need help on this particular subject. You probably could start a thread on Tampa transfers and perhaps get an idea if there is anyone else on the board who was also transferred.

[Robinhood 13]

that is great for you, just like how u stated that you don't need to be scolded same goes for me, and your reply really didn't have any kind of indication of help, and to me personally I consider it disrespect to the fact that u don't even know me to reply to me in this kind of way and u basically just made me look like a whiny person lookin for pity and not doing what im supposed to do and I just post threads to whine like a child, which I totally do not highly appreciate and for that I replied in the same tone as ur reply!!!! and if you did read the previous reply that I had before niki u woulda seen that it clearly state that there have been an update for my case by me asking tomvan about my requested evidence which if you read was tellin me that they noticed that I got a RFE and actually congratulated me on the SAME Thread with a positive reply, so making me look like a whiny person searching for pity was also not nessecary.

I apologies for very unreasonable and unacceptable behavior from people. I my self have faced many harsh reply on my questions. I don't know what they are doing here but obviously not helping. We all are frustrated and we do ask question which may not be important to others but there are many who may want to ask same question, so rather raising doubts, shouting, insulting and mimicking I suggest you ignore our question and try not to reply.

We are new to VJ and we have rights to ask question in any form we may chose to. If you think you can help us, well then please help us and we will appreciate your help, but if you think you just want to scold, insult and make us feel that we are stupid to raise such a question then I am sorry but we do not need your help.

nonee1229, RFE is a sign that your case is moving and you can expect an approval soon. Congrats and please do raise your questions, if any. We all are here to help each other.

[NikLR 13,232]

I apologies for very unreasonable and unacceptable behavior from people. I my self have faced many harsh reply on my questions. I don't know what they are doing here but obviously not helping. We all are frustrated and we do ask question which may not be important to others but there are many who may want to ask same question, so rather raising doubts, shouting, insulting and mimicking I suggest you ignore our question and try not to reply.

We are new to VJ and we have rights to ask question in any form we may chose to. If you think you can help us, well then please help us and we will appreciate your help, but if you think you just want to scold, insult and make us feel that we are stupid to raise such a question then I am sorry but we do not need your help.

nonee1229, RFE is a sign that your case is moving and you can expect an approval soon. Congrats and please do raise your questions, if any. We all are here to help each other.

Everyone gets frustrated with the system. It's not transparent. We don't know what's going on. We have ZERO control over the process and a lot of people have a hard time dealing with that. I know I did. Especially so because I'm the beneficiary and could never call the USCIS. But it was a good thing not to call in our case, it wasn't needed. My husband works for the government and has since he was 18 either with the military and currently. He said to let them do their job for X amount of time. So we did.

By the way not everyone feels comfortable sharing everything with everyone on the internet (including which office is their local office etc...) Some people prefer their privacy. We need to respect that and ask politely for more information if we wish to help. They can always say no and no thank you to the help that requires the extra information.

Many people come on here, look at all the guides, all the wikis, and read posts regarding their subject before posting a thread or replying to one. I did my research before and after joining VJ. It's a self help site. If you can't do this on your own, then perhaps having professional help is the way to go.

No one can make you feel a certain way, it's your choice always. Should you find yourself feeling a certain way perhaps take a step back, reassess your feelings and figure out how to fix them. If I'm angry, I find the cause, then decide if it's really worth being angry about. Women in general have a harder time with logical thinking but this process often requires it, and a great deal of patience, which modern society lacks in spades.

But to make a post asking why everything is taking so long, then expect someone not to say, why are you whining? is a little silly. You get what you put out there. If you sound like a 2 year old having a tantrum, people will treat you as such. It works that way in the real world. There is a guy at my work that whines whenever he asks a question, goes about asking the question in a round about manner, is passive aggressive towards everyone unless he feels affronted and then decides to confront you when he's the one who's been reprimanded for making the mistakes, instead of accepting the consequences of his actions. No one likes him. It's not hard to figure out why no one likes him is it?

An RFE does not mean expect an approval soon. It means you are missing something they need to make a decision on your petition. It does mean it'####### someone's desk and it's being looked at so that is a good thing. However, that doesn't mean it's about to be approved, just that a decision will hopefully be made soon.

Hopefully you find my post enlightening, if not, then by all means feel free to put me on ignore and not read my posts again. That is always an option. Have a lovely Sunday.

[nonee1229 1]

Everyone gets frustrated with the system. It's not transparent. We don't know what's going on. We have ZERO control over the process and a lot of people have a hard time dealing with that. I know I did. Especially so because I'm the beneficiary and could never call the USCIS. But it was a good thing not to call in our case, it wasn't needed. My husband works for the government and has since he was 18 either with the military and currently. He said to let them do their job for X amount of time. So we did.

By the way not everyone feels comfortable sharing everything with everyone on the internet (including which office is their local office etc...) Some people prefer their privacy. We need to respect that and ask politely for more information if we wish to help. They can always say no and no thank you to the help that requires the extra information.

Many people come on here, look at all the guides, all the wikis, and read posts regarding their subject before posting a thread or replying to one. I did my research before and after joining VJ. It's a self help site. If you can't do this on your own, then perhaps having professional help is the way to go.

No one can make you feel a certain way, it's your choice always. Should you find yourself feeling a certain way perhaps take a step back, reassess your feelings and figure out how to fix them. If I'm angry, I find the cause, then decide if it's really worth being angry about. Women in general have a harder time with logical thinking but this process often requires it, and a great deal of patience, which modern society lacks in spades.

But to make a post asking why everything is taking so long, then expect someone not to say, why are you whining? is a little silly. You get what you put out there. If you sound like a 2 year old having a tantrum, people will treat you as such. It works that way in the real world. There is a guy at my work that whines whenever he asks a question, goes about asking the question in a round about manner, is passive aggressive towards everyone unless he feels affronted and then decides to confront you when he's the one who's been reprimanded for making the mistakes, instead of accepting the consequences of his actions. No one likes him. It's not hard to figure out why no one likes him is it?

An RFE does not mean expect an approval soon. It means you are missing something they need to make a decision on your petition. It does mean it'####### someone's desk and it's being looked at so that is a good thing. However, that doesn't mean it's about to be approved, just that a decision will hopefully be made soon.

Hopefully you find my post enlightening, if not, then by all means feel free to put me on ignore and not read my posts again. That is always an option. Have a lovely Sunday.

that's great for you as well, and I have done my research and no thank you I don't need help with my anger, its just funny how ppl can reply to a post that have negative stuff posted in it and some how miraculously have a come back to say, and have a full mouth to say but don't have a short simple some what hopeful reply even if it doesn't mean much to u or might not help, but showing some what of a hopeful support to a person who might be frustrated about the same exact situation that ur in or u might off been through already u don't know how it might make that frustrated person feel, but unfortunately I guess ppl don't have that kind of sense anymore, and they just have something to say back to either back others up or just wanna show how wise they really are, which either way doesn't help the ppl that are in need for help, then I just suggest for ppl out there that might not like the topics frustrated ppl post or don't like what is in it,then save ur little fingers a typing and do ur self and the other person a favor and go on with ur life, and let others that might just might have some what a positive reply shed some light on someone else's day or maybe life!!!!!!!!!

[nonee1229 1]

I apologies for very unreasonable and unacceptable behavior from people. I my self have faced many harsh reply on my questions. I don't know what they are doing here but obviously not helping. We all are frustrated and we do ask question which may not be important to others but there are many who may want to ask same question, so rather raising doubts, shouting, insulting and mimicking I suggest you ignore our question and try not to reply.

We are new to VJ and we have rights to ask question in any form we may chose to. If you think you can help us, well then please help us and we will appreciate your help, but if you think you just want to scold, insult and make us feel that we are stupid to raise such a question then I am sorry but we do not need your help.

nonee1229, RFE is a sign that your case is moving and you can expect an approval soon. Congrats and please do raise your questions, if any. We all are here to help each other.

And robinhood I do wanna thank you for being a positive person even though u don't have much to offer as of right now or actually know me personaly but having positive ppl in this particular situation that most of the world go through is very little to find, and im glad ur around and hopefully when u finish ur journey you would be around to help others with their situations POSITIVLY , because im sure many more out there will go through what ppl on here go through and would definitely need the positive help and support even if it is as little as a simple simly face on the reply box!!!!! again thank you so much, and hopefully there are more of you out here I already found 3 or 4 ppl on this site that had quite helped me as much as they can and ur my 5th person, so glad to have u around (F)

[NikLR 13,232]

Don't take everything on the internet so personally. It's the internet.

To be honest, with your lack of punctuation and your shortened words, I'm not going to bother to read all of that. But you have a great day.

[nonee1229 1]

Don't take everything on the internet so personally. It's the internet.

To be honest, with your lack of punctuation and your shortened words, I'm not going to bother to read all of that. But you have a great day.

then you can simply ignore the thread and don't enter it or reply to it again!!! please and thanks and you have yourself a good day as well :thumbs:

[Darnell 8,479]

what news of the infopass appointment ?