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[hart143 1]

It seems that you have enough suggestions as to what to do in order to remain in the US, but one thing that was not said is that if you have no family, money or reason to stay in this country you can also leave and go back home. I do not mean it in a ill-spirited manner, but as an option pure and simple. I hope you don't take it the wrong way.

Good luck whatever your course of action!

the reason i want to continue to stay here even though my marriage didnt work out i really wanted to start a new life here to help my family back home once i will have a work specially when my family dont have a home to live we lost our little home because of the storm heavy rain and floods i didnt ask my husband for a help even a small amount or anything to help since he dont want me to talk anymore with my family. that is why i ask my husband if i could work while i wanted to finish my study too so i could help him to pay my own bills so that he wont get angry how much money he used for me to live with him and my family too. my father is only a fisherman and we are 7 children no mother she died when i was 2 so i grew up in baptist church then the minister introduce me to my husband i feel inlove with him because i really thought he was a very nice man and he knows my background and my family too. before i leave to the house of my husband here in us we talk seriously and we both agree i told him that i know i dont have no where to go now that you want a divorce and i know i dont have any paper work or anything with me i am not leaving because of that i am leaving because of your attitude the way you treated me is enough of course little bit scared because i dont want to be punch by him. but i told him that i am going to stay at my friends house and babysit her baby till i could get a real job outside. and get to know with some other people i wanted to know whats the outside looks like since i never been out of his house when i was with him because he dont want me to go out or go anywhere or talk to any people or go to work or study or if i want to work with my own paper work needs he dont want too. i maybe dont have enough money yet here in us because i still cant go to work but i did tried my best to survive with the help of my friends who knows everything with my marriage life i taking care of their babies then they pay me alittle and let me stay to their house and i do the house work while they are working i have no more problem about my living rightnow except that i wanted to be not scared going outside and thinking that maybe my husband send a person again to look what i been doin or i dont know what his plan or thinking. i dont want to bother him or anything i serve him when i was with him as his wife he just very strict and control my everything and he just do whatever he wants to do like his not married or anything. if his not making me scared or nervous when he gets angry and yells and controls me like robot or dont have a life i would never left him if his been nice to me and let me feel that i once his wife.

[JohnR! 5,495]

the reason i want to continue to stay here even though my marriage didnt work out i really wanted to start a new life here to help my family back home once i will have a work specially when my family dont have a home to live we lost our little home because of the storm heavy rain and floods i didnt ask my husband for a help even a small amount or anything to help since he dont want me to talk anymore with my family. that is why i ask my husband if i could work while i wanted to finish my study too so i could help him to pay my own bills so that he wont get angry how much money he used for me to live with him and my family too. my father is only a fisherman and we are 7 children no mother she died when i was 2 so i grew up in baptist church then the minister introduce me to my husband i feel inlove with him because i really thought he was a very nice man and he knows my background and my family too. before i leave to the house of my husband here in us we talk seriously and we both agree i told him that i know i dont have no where to go now that you want a divorce and i know i dont have any paper work or anything with me i am not leaving because of that i am leaving because of your attitude the way you treated me is enough of course little bit scared because i dont want to be punch by him. but i told him that i am going to stay at my friends house and babysit her baby till i could get a real job outside. and get to know with some other people i wanted to know whats the outside looks like since i never been out of his house when i was with him because he dont want me to go out or go anywhere or talk to any people or go to work or study or if i want to work with my own paper work needs he dont want too. i maybe dont have enough money yet here in us because i still cant go to work but i did tried my best to survive with the help of my friends who knows everything with my marriage life i taking care of their babies then they pay me alittle and let me stay to their house and i do the house work while they are working i have no more problem about my living rightnow except that i wanted to be not scared going outside and thinking that maybe my husband send a person again to look what i been doin or i dont know what his plan or thinking. i dont want to bother him or anything i serve him when i was with him as his wife he just very strict and control my everything and he just do whatever he wants to do like his not married or anything. if his not making me scared or nervous when he gets angry and yells and controls me like robot or dont have a life i would never left him if his been nice to me and let me feel that i once his wife.

In that case, look for legal help in the city where you live so you can explore your legal options. Hopefully you will be able to get your residence and make a living for yourself here while being able to help your family back home. Good luck!

[hart143 1]

In that case, look for legal help in the city where you live so you can explore your legal options. Hopefully you will be able to get your residence and make a living for yourself here while being able to help your family back home. Good luck!

thank you. my big mistake is when i believe and trust my husband words and never even think that i been in such a difficult situation and now i tried to open my eyes and ask what i have done to him to treat me like this sometimes when i saw him and he wants to talk to me and convince me to go back to him he promise to much and so much nice words but ididnt know that was all lies too when it happens that i have done lie to my interview in immigration for my green card it has written there all when he was talking to them before me i know i did lie to the interview and yes i always admit it even i didnt mean too but i did because of my feelings that i was scared and didnt know about vawa or womens center or someone that could tell me how to say my situation to the interview. i didnt know what to do but it happens already i lied that i was still together with my husband even though i been away from him for how many months. i couldnt tell the truth to anyone i cant open my situation i feel scared and my friend got scared too when they meet my husband. he is good in words and act but when your not around he is a very smart guy to make u believe that his a good guy that you are his friend but you cant tell that his just acting for the whole time. but still i did trust him because he is my husband i was still in love with him i was been sick and always think if he was ok or what. but my mind too is keep showing the pictures of how he treated me it so much pain to me when i thought that the man i chose to be with and trust is not a man that i thought he would be. and now when i was not with him for how many months i dont know i feel so scared thinking about him in my whole life i never did fight back to him or talk to him in bad ways like he did to me i didnt do it back to him i just cant believe why me he choose to hurt so much when i been doing nothing and just do whatever he wants or tell me to do so. why not his ex wife or ex girlfriends that he been hit or punch or have fight with him. even though how many times i want to give up and feel so scared all i been wish for is when everything will be ok i hope that he would remember how much i did care and love with trust i give it all to him. i just cant believe he would want me to feel that i was just alone and that this is his place and that there is nothing i can do because i have no family here no money at all nothing as in no power to stand up in front of him while he got it all.

[belinda63 3,041]

You need to find legal assistance to help you file for the VAWA. Writing letters to USCIS will not do any good, you must follow proper procedures. Try Catholic Charities or your local domestic violence center.

[hart143 1]

You need to find legal assistance to help you file for the VAWA. Writing letters to USCIS will not do any good, you must follow proper procedures. Try Catholic Charities or your local domestic violence center.

yes thank you people i have tell my family in my situation here and they support my decision to stay here and not coming back home yet till my problem is not solve so they are now finding some pictures that i have left there when me and my husband been dating and been engage and some letters that i got from my husband till i got here in us i have ask my friends that have save some picture of me and my husband here when we dating here too and got married since i dont have left because my husband got all my papers and pictures that i have keep for my self. and also my friends who has known and have conversation with my husband when threaten them if they gonna meet me or bring me anywhere and also they will write a letter about me when i was with them when they were helping me and about what my personality to them or did for them too. i have faith in GOD whos been there when i was nothing and no where to go with lots of confusion in my self and being scared to anyone he send some people to understand my situation and willing to help even for a prayers or for my needs i am very thankful even though i am in such a big problem i wasnt been afraid anymore nor shy to talk or scared to tell the truth. thank you guyz i will let you know when i have done it and have a result godbless

[hart143 1]

can i ask people i have lots of printed conversations with me and my husband before when he was filing my k 1 visa so i printed it all do i need those to one of my prof that we been serious to our relationship or i only needs some pictures from dating to marriage pictures because my family has it too only a little but they can send it to me if it needs

[k man12 4]

can i ask people i have lots of printed conversations with me and my husband before when he was filing my k 1 visa so i printed it all do i need those to one of my prof that we been serious to our relationship or i only needs some pictures from dating to marriage pictures because my family has it too only a little but they can send it to me if it needs

Obama and congress might pass a bill this year to legalize people with no papers, i hope you can qualify for that. Good luck.

[hart143 1]

Obama and congress might pass a bill this year to legalize people with no papers, i hope you can qualify for that. Good luck.

really i hope that will happen it will be such a bless year for me if i will be qualify so i wont be feel so down to my self that there is nothing i can do or chance to win my situation. someone told me here that if i will vawa people i will be still denied just because i dont have papers from my husband like joint account or his tax return with my name on it too. i dont know how my husband work with his taxes because when i secretly look at it the status of his tax return is single i saw his tax return in 2012 before while i was cleaning and arrange the room that is why i dont have any bills that shows my name and my husband. but his been sending it to the immigration before to file the permanent resident for me. and because one of his friend tell him that we need a joint account he goes to the bank and make one that has my name and his name but he is the only one who has put a money there 50usd and i dont have because he said its just for my green card if they will interview me and need it so does it mean that even i file a vawa you been so sure that i wont be approve because i dont have bills or taxes that has my name and my husband on it. wow its depressing me again and feel so down then still telling me to file a vawa even though telling me that in my case is very weak and no chances at all. hmmm im thinking and confuse if i will still file a vawa or not when someone telling me here that i wont have chance to be approve and that i will be denied. i dont understand now if i still do it or not or what should i do. my case is really that weak just because i dont have bills and anything from my husband properties that says my name on it too argggggg i dont know i finally study and learning about vawa and now telling me that i wasnt have chance for it. i will just pray harder and believe that with GOD all things are possible

[Darnell 8,479]

psssssssst - contact Catholic Charities office today, via telephone, asking for legal assistance with immigration matters.

[Sandra G. 5,057]

har143 proving that you were subjected to domestic violence or mental abuse is not enough to have a Vawa approved, you must proof bonafide marriage, and as you said you don;t have any bills, joint bank account,joint tax return then they won't approve your case without proving bonafide marriage. We have in the thread vawa part 3 several women and they had a child with their husband and despite that they have their Vawa denied. Without proof of commingling finances and commune residence your chances are almost non existent.Good luck.

[hart143 1]

hello everyone remember me about my having difficult about my topic here that green card denial and marriage problem GOD is so GOOD because i finally have protection for 2 years from the court that my husband couldnt get near nor contact my friends or me and i am so happy with that because i no longer scared or fear to him, and the second news is my filing for green card is way easier because even though my friends are scared to stand up for me or witness for me GOD didnt make it difficult for me i have now people who been helping me to make strong and believe that i can do this. to clarify and prof that my marriage is true and they been telling me that my case is not that difficult because there is no saying that i would go to court and face to face with my husband and explain everything. its just the good thing is i did replied to them before 30 days end and my status in my green card is not close which is good so still process they said so i just need to send them nextweek soon the all paper work i have gathered to prove that my marriage to a us citizen is true. oh i am just so happy sorry for late update here godbless everyone all my paper work is doing well so far because GOD did hear all my prayers thanks to his people he sent for to look after me:)

[Eric-Pris 1,607]

Sorry, but I'm not buying this story. Here's why...

A young, naive woman from a poor country meets this American through her pastor and instantly falls madly in love with him. Presumably, he is much older than her, and promises her the world, and she decides to leave her life and family behind to move to the US. She admitted that she wasn't aware of how much paperwork was needed to become legal (green card). She (and possibly her family) figured that she could move here with some old guy and become legal quickly. She wanted a green card and he wanted a live-in servant and sex slave who he could control fully. When it didn't go as planned, he refused to follow through with the adjustment of status process and she started to panic. Notice, with her being young, naive, and not having any family or friends here, the normal first instinct would be go back to her home country to be with family and friends. But her first reaction is how can I adjust by myself, going as far as lying to CIS to try and get a green card. And now she got caught in a lie and now is scrambling to file a WAVA case (which are 95% fraud cases IMO) to be able to stay. But she did give us a reason for not wanting to go back. Her family's house was destroyed in a storm? So where is her family living if there's no house?

I have seen these type of stories from women in Central and South America too. Or maybe I'm just a cynic.

[SingleDad2usc 71]

OP, I'm not shutting you down. The reason you're getting cool reception above: you haven't explained how you got a 2y order of protection

[InHisTime 110]

hello everyone remember me about my having difficult about my topic here that green card denial and marriage problem GOD is so GOOD because i finally have protection for 2 years from the court that my husband couldnt get near nor contact my friends or me and i am so happy with that because i no longer scared or fear to him, and the second news is my filing for green card is way easier because even though my friends are scared to stand up for me or witness for me GOD didnt make it difficult for me i have now people who been helping me to make strong and believe that i can do this. to clarify and prof that my marriage is true and they been telling me that my case is not that difficult because there is no saying that i would go to court and face to face with my husband and explain everything. its just the good thing is i did replied to them before 30 days end and my status in my green card is not close which is good so still process they said so i just need to send them nextweek soon the all paper work i have gathered to prove that my marriage to a us citizen is true. oh i am just so happy sorry for late update here godbless everyone all my paper work is doing well so far because GOD did hear all my prayers thanks to his people he sent for to look after me:)

Hi there, I'm not sure from where you are...but reading your story makes me feel sad....anyhow, it's good to hear that you are now doing well and feeling better....I'm glad that you tried to stand firm and know your rights. I see that you have God in your heart, and that you keep trusting in Him in all your needs --- I know how so difficult it is for you especially you are away from your family, but you are very right ---with God you will never be alone. Yeah, please keep your faith higher than ever -- God can move things quickly -- in God's mysterious ways, no doubt -- our God is bigger than any problems we have. There are things in life that only God knows best for us. His ways are higher than our ways. Important is you are honest, sincere, and truthful in your intentions. God will never fail you. God will use good servants / people to help you out in your situation --- and things will be better. Just continue to pray and trust on His will. And may you harvest the good outcomes later --- don't forget to be humble always and help your family back home, be good, learn your lessons, and take care of yourself always. God bless you.

Edited May 12, 2013 by InHisTime

[belinda63 3,041]

Trying to get the timeline straight. You came on a K-1, married around June 2010 or did you marry in 2011?, filed the paperwork to adjust status around October 2011, left him in May 2012 knowing you had an interview June 2012. You rescheduled the interview for October 2012 at which time you lied to immigration and stated you and your husband were still living together as husband and wife, You received a denial letter in March 2013 because he had already cancelled his affidavit of support. And April 2013, after not living with him for more than a year, you obtained a protective order. Is this all correct? and which year did you marry?