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[SingleDad2usc 71]

The only way you'll get over him is if he agrees to some final payment. If you just let him out on his terms, you may never really get rid of him

what do you mean urgency for quickest settlement? i dont really understand it and we i am now 3 years married to him and he give me a divorce paper already but since i dont really understand about it so i give it to the lawyer to let me understand what it was saying and she ask me if i want something from my husband and when i said that i am not really interested on what he has i just need to get over him so that he wouldnt threat me anymore and saying that i couldnt say no on what ever he wants cause i am still his wife....so i dont know how the divorce will work or how to talk about it..

[suny25 0]

I think You can void the pre-nup or some part of that. Also you can ask to get alimoney.

You need to ask your attorney clearly how you can get spousal support or alimony.

Edited June 18, 2013 by suny25

[belinda63 3,041]

It would be a long, hard road to invalidate the pre-nup, not saying it's impossible just long and hard. Everyone seems to be forgetting SHE MOVED OUT. She moved out months prior to her USCIS interview. She never contacted the police. She has no proof of abuse. She obtained a restraining order against her husband months after she left him and only when she began hearing about VAWA. Her whole abuse story started only after she heard about VAWA. If she was so afraid of him and her friends were so afraid of him why didn't anyone do anything prior to her failed AOS interview. If she wants to fight him in court she will need PROOF, not just her word since she has already lied.How can anyone who (according to her) fled from her husband in fear of her life and hid at a friend's house, said friend also being in fear for her life, and then misunderstand at the interview "are you and your husband currently living together?" Since she willingly moved out why would she be entitled to support?

She really needs to obtain assistance with the VAWA filing. I don't know who this "immigration judge" she keeps talking about is, it is probably just a customer service rep at the local USCIS office or a rep on the phone. She needs guidance as to what to do, what proof to obtain, etc.

[hyuna 0]

It would be a long, hard road to invalidate the pre-nup, not saying it's impossible just long and hard. Everyone seems to be forgetting SHE MOVED OUT. She moved out months prior to her USCIS interview. She never contacted the police. She has no proof of abuse. She obtained a restraining order against her husband months after she left him and only when she began hearing about VAWA. Her whole abuse story started only after she heard about VAWA. If she was so afraid of him and her friends were so afraid of him why didn't anyone do anything prior to her failed AOS interview. If she wants to fight him in court she will need PROOF, not just her word since she has already lied.How can anyone who (according to her) fled from her husband in fear of her life and hid at a friend's house, said friend also being in fear for her life, and then misunderstand at the interview "are you and your husband currently living together?" Since she willingly moved out why would she be entitled to support?

She really needs to obtain assistance with the VAWA filing. I don't know who this "immigration judge" she keeps talking about is, it is probably just a customer service rep at the local USCIS office or a rep on the phone. She needs guidance as to what to do, what proof to obtain, etc.

hey relax your heart cant you understand i was just sharing what really happens here at its up to people if believe it or not and i just shared what happen to every papers i have done jeezzzz your too much who are u to tell me like you knew me so much you dont even know what i have been working rightnow cant you understand that we are done talking about immigration cause i am done filing it and i am just waiting for the result if they would give me a card or what your not the immigration so dont f...ckin tell me that just because i was left my husband months and hide to my friends doesnt mean my life is that easy if you are the one in my situation you came here without knowing anything and not even thinking about whats really gonna happen because you dont have family and friends to tell you that what should i need to know about my rights as a wife... i am just a victim i was so innocent back then if you been lock up to the apartment or the basement and just always follow your owner to tell you what he wants you to do and not even know whats the outside looks like in the place where you live and he just always rape you and not even letting you eat enough food what you think you just f...ckin love what he been doing to you till you die of being so malnourished and being sick of hardly breath because of f.ckin dirty place because of all trash around you with rats and cockroach and not even let you talk to your family and talk to other people.... so even if its just my words because of my neighbors scared to talk and stand up for me even know what really happen when they secretly give me food to eat i want you to know that what i have been through is not just making up cause if i did why i would fight for my own safety... why i would hide my self if i just knew how to talk to the police if i just i knew the laws of every people here in this country i didnt know about it all because my husband didnt tell me about it that oh the police station is just near in this place oh you can have your own paper work i f..ckin dont have all what you been saying belinda63... you make me mad of what you have comment for me i dont really know about vawa or what so ever papers in this country or there laws i dont even have any idea about it thats why i keep hiding but when i know that my husband is really always threaten of course i google to computer of what do i need to do cause i am scared and i dont know anything and i am scared to talk to the police cause someone tell me that it was normal for a husband and wife and that it is embarrassing to tell them and belinda if your smart of telling me those comments you should know that i am only 18 years old when i got married my husband here in us and we have been bf and gf since i was 16 and that was back in my country so its really shock me when i came here and he change so much of course i would get trauma of what happen because he is the only person i cared so much that i was doing anything for him because he is my husband... you are not the judge of the immigration you are just just an applicant too so dont judge cause you are not.... you dont even really understand what we have been talking about for your information we been talking now about how to work in my divorce paper and you know what if i just known all the laws here about my rights and how to work for it i maybe not hiding and not scared if my husband would find me and threaten me if i just knew that it is not ok and that i have rights to put report him even he is my husband.... clear that in your mind belinda63 you are not a judge that signing my my OFP and you are not even the immigration to decide my own will if i will stay here or not i dont even know so dont decide that easy you need to read carefully and understand things before you act like you knew everything.....about whats gonna happen or what really happen ok

Edited June 18, 2013 by hyuna

[hyuna 0]

It would be a long, hard road to invalidate the pre-nup, not saying it's impossible just long and hard. Everyone seems to be forgetting SHE MOVED OUT. She moved out months prior to her USCIS interview. She never contacted the police. She has no proof of abuse. She obtained a restraining order against her husband months after she left him and only when she began hearing about VAWA. Her whole abuse story started only after she heard about VAWA. If she was so afraid of him and her friends were so afraid of him why didn't anyone do anything prior to her failed AOS interview. If she wants to fight him in court she will need PROOF, not just her word since she has already lied.How can anyone who (according to her) fled from her husband in fear of her life and hid at a friend's house, said friend also being in fear for her life, and then misunderstand at the interview "are you and your husband currently living together?" Since she willingly moved out why would she be entitled to support?

She really needs to obtain assistance with the VAWA filing. I don't know who this "immigration judge" she keeps talking about is, it is probably just a customer service rep at the local USCIS office or a rep on the phone. She needs guidance as to what to do, what proof to obtain, etc

such a slow catching.... your not going to be a lawyer or a judge because you dont even understand things yet before you say something.... dont be such an a..s..s just because you been approve to be a citizen doesnt mean you knew everything.... cause your not helping at all.... if you know what i mean....

Edited June 18, 2013 by hyuna

[belinda63 3,041]

I am trying to help. There is a lot more to VAWA than sending the I-360 and proof of good moral character. You have to prove you were abused. You have to prove you entered the marriage in good faith. What proof do you have of either abuse or good faith marriage? FYI I am a native Texan, not an immigrant.

Edited June 18, 2013 by belinda63

[Soapz 14]

Eligibility Requirements for VAWA Self-petitioners:

• The intending self-petitioner must prove that s/he is a spouse, child (unmarried and under age 21)/parent of an abused child (unmarried and under age 21), or parent who was physically battered and/or subjected to “extreme cruelty” by a U.S. citizen or lawful permanent resident spouse, parent or adult child. Such abuse may include evidence of:
  • physical abuse, violent acts or threats of violence, sexual abuse or exploitation, verbal abuse and degradation, emotional abuse, isolation, intimidation, economic abuse, coercion or threats to take away children or have one deported

[hyuna 0]

It would be a long, hard road to invalidate the pre-nup, not saying it's impossible just long and hard. Everyone seems to be forgetting SHE MOVED OUT. She moved out months prior to her USCIS interview. She never contacted the police. She has no proof of abuse. She obtained a restraining order against her husband months after she left him and only when she began hearing about VAWA. Her whole abuse story started only after she heard about VAWA. If she was so afraid of him and her friends were so afraid of him why didn't anyone do anything prior to her failed AOS interview. If she wants to fight him in court she will need PROOF, not just her word since she has already lied.How can anyone who (according to her) fled from her husband in fear of her life and hid at a friend's house, said friend also being in fear for her life, and then misunderstand at the interview "are you and your husband currently living together?" Since she willingly moved out why would she be entitled to support?

She really needs to obtain assistance with the VAWA filing. I don't know who this "immigration judge" she keeps talking about is, it is probably just a customer service rep at the local USCIS office or a rep on the phone. She needs guidance as to what to do, what proof to obtain, etc.

are you surprise why the judge give me a protection for 2 years me too its the most happy day in my life that i feel safe to get out and not even feeling like crazy thinking that my husband is been following me and what if he will do something to me i wasnt scared anymore to get out and go to a store and able talk to other people.... because i am always holding my OFP isnt that great..... because belinda63 you are so slow thinker you dont really understand things you just decide so quickly without thinking and asking what really happens or how to know whats the reall truth..... look at your comments from the very first to here not even helping or making any sense at all its just all words with full of craps and trash.... cause you dont really get it...

[hyuna 0]

Eligibility Requirements for VAWA Self-petitioners:

• The intending self-petitioner must prove that s/he is a spouse, child (unmarried and under age 21)/parent of an abused child (unmarried and under age 21), or parent who was physically battered and/or subjected to “extreme cruelty” by a U.S. citizen or lawful permanent resident spouse, parent or adult child. Such abuse may include evidence of:
  • physical abuse, violent acts or threats of violence, sexual abuse or exploitation, verbal abuse and degradation, emotional abuse, isolation, intimidation, economic abuse, coercion or threats to take away children or have one deported

i have send them i file I-360 send them marriage certificate and some letter that says my name and his name to proves that i been living with him before with violent acts or threats of violence, sexual abuse,physical abuse by record from hospital that i been going there for being so sick of not eating good and being dehydrated and malnourished and other parts of my body that need to be treated and have medicine for it.., verbal abuse,emotional abuse, and threats to be deported and if they need some more why they just send me a notice that all i need is a good moral character from past 6 months that i need to get from police clearance and say its for immigration because thats the only one i have not submitted

Edited June 18, 2013 by hyuna

[belinda63 3,041]

Come back in about 8-10 months when they finally review your case and let us know how it is going.

[hyuna 0]

Come back in about 8-10 months when they finally review your case and let us know how it is going.

dont know about it or how long it will take but i just submitted all my papers for filing I-360 MAY 22,2013 and JUNE 7 got a notice that i could check my status online and that they have receive my papers june 10 i got a notice again saying that they request for evidence and they check below that they need only a good moral character from my past 6 months in 3 years of living in us... and june 17 morning i receive the letter about my brackground check from police department or something and we sent it right away to mailbox for immigration...

[Hypnos 6,578]

It will take about a year.

[SingleDad2usc 71]

Focus. What will you tell divorce attorney?

[belinda63 3,041]

Give up on the divorce attorney. She has already said she doesn't want anything. Her chances of getting anything are extremely small in light of the pre-nup and her moving out. Why drag it out?

[Eric-Pris 1,607]

while divorce attorney can't force you to act business-like, you have to put your divorce settlement in perspective. You stated numerous times that husband mistreated you over a long period of time, enslaved you and also that he neglected to sponsor your immigration. Now, he has obsolved any financial responsibility for you before the state; but you insist that you don't want him to pay you anything. All you're seeking is to expedite divorce decree. What's your urgency for quickest settlement?

Why are you trying to talk her into going after the guy if she's happy to just get away and move on? Why do feel she deserves something? What exactly does he owe her for? Had she worked and contributed to something?