Post your negative comments here so we don't derail the sweetness & light in other threads!

[garya505 2]

I don't know why anything would be wrong with you, but I'm glad you're ok too, jenn. Should I read this ####### from the beginning?

Please say no . .

Don't worry, I was just in a little fender bender. Everyone's ok though!

i missed that .. glad to hear your ok.

ya, she got "rear ended"

[jordanianprincess 0]

I don't know why anything would be wrong with you, but I'm glad you're ok too, jenn. Should I read this ####### from the beginning?

Please say no . .

Don't worry, I was just in a little fender bender. Everyone's ok though!

i missed that .. glad to hear your ok.

ya, she got "rear ended"

because she didn't let Jesus take the wheel

[Jenn! 918]

I don't know why anything would be wrong with you, but I'm glad you're ok too, jenn. Should I read this ####### from the beginning?

Please say no . .

Don't worry, I was just in a little fender bender. Everyone's ok though!

i missed that .. glad to hear your ok.

ya, she got "rear ended"

because she didn't let Jesus take the wheel

Actually, I was the one doing the "rear ending".

[jordanianprincess 0]

Do you know what I hate?

I hate it when someone cuts you off on the road and doesn't acknowledge it.

I hate it when people drive the speed limit in the fast lane.

I hate it when there is a song I hate on the radio and all the stations play it at the same time.

As you can tell I just drove home

[garya505 2]

I don't know why anything would be wrong with you, but I'm glad you're ok too, jenn. Should I read this ####### from the beginning?

Please say no . .

Don't worry, I was just in a little fender bender. Everyone's ok though!

i missed that .. glad to hear your ok.

ya, she got "rear ended"

because she didn't let Jesus take the wheel

Actually, I was the one doing the "rear ending".

Oh ya? I'd like to see that!

[Sofiyya 1,687]

http://video.yahoo.com/video/play?vid=c860...469&cache=1

[cbd2cai 0]

http://video.yahoo.com/video/play?vid=c860...469&cache=1

dancing bananas!!!

Peanut Butter Jelly Time!

Oh, wait . . . this is supposed to be a negative comment thread . . . we aren't supposed to be laughing in here!!!

[Sofiyya 1,687]

Yea, cbd2cai! That was a test! What were you thinking, laughing and having fun?!

Get down on your knees and give us 50

Wipe that smile off your face, sister!

[sarah and hicham 3]

OK, you asked

I cannot believe the personal ####### people post on these boards and then act dumbfounded when people respond unfavorably.

I have been sickened in the past (here and in other groups) the way American women prop up the men from MENA countries while insulting the MENA women.

It disgusts me how some people infantilize their men, talking about them like proud momma's at their first steps. Pride in a husband is one thing, acting like he is a boy is another.

I hate the orientalism syndrome that goes one, where the men are like exotic possessions, while at the same showing disdain for the culture and/or religion.

Thank you for saying this. I agree. And then some. Kisses,

Sarah

[yemenslove 0]

i love my husband!!

[Ban Hammer 13,135]

Actually, I was the one doing the "rear ending".

uh oh my imagination is in overdrive now

[JenT 0]

I'm pissed because I had to work through lunch and didn't get my nooner today...

Welcome Back Jen. I am so glad you and David are together! I know what you mean about that nooner! Been sooooo long since I had one...very soon I hope!

Thanks! My online time has been limited these days but I do miss you guys! AOS is next.. ugh.

[CarolineM 0]

I love this thread.

oh wait...negative...negative...

I HATE this thread.

[frndly1 1]

I hate it when people come on here and ask questions that have been asked many tiime before. DO A DAMN SEARCH.

I hate being quoted what the Quran and/or the Bible says, I want to know what you think. I know God/Allah gave you a brain.

I hate coming on here and seeing all the back bitting.

okay I am going back to my corner.

[ya falaha! 0]

Another great one and spot on

OK, you asked

I cannot believe the personal ####### people post on these boards and then act dumbfounded when people respond unfavorably.

I have been sickened in the past (here and in other groups) the way American women prop up the men from MENA countries while insulting the MENA women.

It disgusts me how some people infantilize their men, talking about them like proud momma's at their first steps. Pride in a husband is one thing, acting like he is a boy is another.

I hate the orientalism syndrome that goes one, where the men are like exotic possessions, while at the same showing disdain for the culture and/or religion.

Is it any wonder that women infantilize their men when you see the vast age differences between them? This is especially poignant when the man is in his 20's - a time I think most Moroccan men (sorry! generalization!) are still living at home, watching soccer at cafes and taking pictures of themselves in muscle t-shirts while fraterniziing with hordes of ambisexual-looking cohorts.

I know the age difference topic has been beaten to death, but it really IS a big trend that contributes to what you are talking about. The "orientalism syndrome" too -- you are right on in saying that. It is compartmentalization, putting this marriage experience in a sort of box to bring out and show off to oneself. I see that this rarely has anything to do with whether the woman has converted or not.

This is why I have joined some groups thinking I would have something in common with other wives of Moroccans and found instead a group of scary people that seem to be sugar-mamas to a motely crue of Moroccan cyber-casanovas (albiet "really nice guys") 20 years and generally 100 pounds their junior.

Sorry, I am a rude cookie tonight.

Wow a Yemeni in our midst! Welcome aboard

Ok back to negativity

i love my husband!!