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[AngelK96 0]

MK that looks gross.

Looks like turds to me

Welcome to the Kufta Roast!

Beware you might get roasted alive

Edited November 17, 2006 by angelk96

[cbd2cai 0]

Finally things are quieting down in here!

Time to go to sleep . . . . .

[Jenn! 918]

Finally things are quieting down in here!

Time to go to sleep . . . . .

Goodnight!

[PalestineMyHeart 1,897]

MK that looks gross.

Looks like turds to me

Welcome to the Kufta Roast!

Beware you might get roasted alive

Turds ???? No no no it's the real deal kifta sheesh....

Well.... if you insist on sending that one back to the kitchen.... we just happen to have another style on special today.... perhaps you would prefer this one....

[aussiewench 9]

I just sat here and read this entire thread and I gotta say, that many of you are a waste of time, energy and space on this board.....period I don't get my knickers in a knot easy but this thread has managed to do it.

[Sofiyya 1,687]

Reading 170 posts in one sitting isn't a waste of time and energy? Me thinks you have also earned a place in the waste of time line.

Nice hearts, sis.

[jordanianprincess 0]

MK that looks gross.

Looks like turds to me

Welcome to the Kufta Roast!

Beware you might get roasted alive

Turds ???? No no no it's the real deal kifta sheesh....

Well.... if you insist on sending that one back to the kitchen.... we just happen to have another style on special today.... perhaps you would prefer this one....

Now this is Atkins Friendly!

[sarah and hicham 3]

Well well well!

Hicham I'm sorry but I will not under any circumstances congratulate you.

I know your intentions, you have made them 100% clear to me- get the Visa and get to the states. If it doesn't happen fast enough with Judy then divorce her and try again a different way. I cannot believe you think people don't see through you. One can read Judy's threads and posts saying that you were divorcing her because the process was taking too long. It's clear what your intentions are and you expect us to congratulate you? Do you know how many times Judy said you are divorcing her if you didn't get approved by x date? I am appalled that you actually had the nerve to come back here and tell us your story. I hope people will learn from couples like you that there are clear warning signs of bad intentions that can't be ignored in the visa process from people like you.

Judy I feel bad for you that you are so desperate to believe these man's words. When someone says "I am divorcing you if I don't get approved soon" doens't that make a light go on upstairs? If he really wanted to be your husband and if he really loved you then he would be patient and you would get through this together with eachother's support.

I seriously hope that you rethink him coming here. There are several people who have said this to you here and I hope you are not blinded by your need of a man in your life. Please think carefully before you proceed with this person. We are looking out for you here and I hope you take our advice and observations into consideration. His intentions are not what you think- he has fooled you.

Good luck to you Judy.

Deeshla- I love you.

Edited November 17, 2006 by sarah and hicham

[Sofiyya 1,687]

According to some of you, the woman being older is a clear sign that the ME/NA man is only in it for a visa. People have said that again today. If we all knew who was going to make it and who wasn't, Vegas would go broke.

I was married nearly 30 years, at age 18. We said and did many terrible things to each other before we settled down and matured. No one gave us a chance at making it last. They were wrong. Don't say congatulations if you don't feel good about doing so, but understand that your venom is not the cure for what ails anyone.

Edited November 17, 2006 by szsz

[jordanianprincess 0]

According to some of you, the woman being older is a clear sign that the ME/NA man is only in it for a visa. People have said that again today. If we all knew who was going to make it and who wasn't, Vegas would go broke.

I was married nearly 30 years, at age 18. We said and did many terrible things to each other before we settled down and matured. No one gave us a chance at making it last. They were wrong. Don't say congatulations if you don't feel good about doing so, but understand that your venom is not the cure for what ails anyone.

This has nothing to do with age. I did see the age comment today but it was not in this thread and it was not directed at the OP.

[Sofiyya 1,687]

According to some of you, the woman being older is a clear sign that the ME/NA man is only in it for a visa. People have said that again today. If we all knew who was going to make it and who wasn't, Vegas would go broke.

I was married nearly 30 years, at age 18. We said and did many terrible things to each other before we settled down and matured. No one gave us a chance at making it last. They were wrong. Don't say congatulations if you don't feel good about doing so, but understand that your venom is not the cure for what ails anyone.

This has nothing to do with age. I did see the age comment today but it was not in this thread and it was not directed at the OP.

So? Do I need to agree with you that it is not relevent to this thread where people are making judgments about someone's marriage? I do think it's relevent because it goes to how some folks think. I know you won't say yes, we must all agree, and so, we don't.

[jordanianprincess 0]

According to some of you, the woman being older is a clear sign that the ME/NA man is only in it for a visa.

So? Do I need to agree with you that it is not relevent to this thread where people are making judgments about someone's marriage? I do think it's relevent because it goes to how some folks think. I know you won't say yes, we must all agree, and so, we don't.

You don't need to agree at all. I was simply pointing out to you that people here are not concerned about the age which is what you impled in your first statement. To be quite honest I dont know how old either one of them is.

[Sofiyya 1,687]

Age was not the point. It was simply used as an example of how fast and loose judgements here can be made.

Perhaps this is an opportunity for a refresher because some of us soon forget . . .

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=38838

Edited November 17, 2006 by szsz

[jordanianprincess 0]

Age was not the point. It was simply used as an example of how fast and loose judgements here can be made.

The same judgements are made about young couples. As a matter of fact people make judgements about couples with age differences (either way), religious difference, cultural differene, etc.....

I have listened to some "fast and loose" judgements here about many things, some of which hit close to home for myself.

[Sofiyya 1,687]

Age was not the point. It was simply used as an example of how fast and loose judgements here can be made.

The same judgements are made about young couples. As a matter of fact people make judgements about couples with age differences (either way), religious difference, cultural differene, etc.....

I have listened to some "fast and loose" judgements here about many things, some of which hit close to home for myself.

Most of us have a reason to think before we post, if for no other reason than because something that hits close to home affects us too. We do need to be kinder and more supportive of each other because we need to treat others as we wish to be treated.