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dear CSC...my biological clock is ticking....

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pachacuti   154

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I'm 37 and I have no kids. I don't consider myself old at all. Young at heart and body.... with an extra grey hair.

You'll be fine.

That said, it sucks CSC is taking too long. Keep the faith and patience. Everything will be ok.

My fiancee had our little dude at 41. Not even CSC can take that long for you :)

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I'm 37 and I have no kids. I don't consider myself old at all. Young at heart and body.... with an extra grey hair. You'll be fine. That said, it sucks CSC is taking too long. Keep the faith and pat

AJG & ESD
AJG & ESD

Why only ladies can have a biological clock ticking??? I'll be 40 in June, and unfortunately life has been such that I don't have children yet. I don't want to be 60 years old with a 3 year old!

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My fiancee had our little dude at 41. Not even CSC can take that long for you

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My fiancee had our little dude at 41. Not even CSC can take that long for you :)

I always said babies will come at 40, not before. Education first alongside stability. Sprinkle that with some adventurous traveling and bad miss-behavior.....

I disgress....

Don't ever do anything you're not willing to explain the paramedics.

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Tigre&Tigresa   11

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I feel the same, trust me, we ladies share your pain! :(

09/25/2012: Sent I-129F
10/02/2012: NOA1
12/11/2012: Touched - alien registration number changed
04/01/2013: Touched - not sure what happened here, only the date changed
04/05/2013: Touched - petitioner's address was changed

05/26/2013: RFE - letter of intent was not signed by beneficiary

05/14/2013: I-129F Approved

06/03/2013: Case forwarded to Consulate

08/27/2013: Interview - Approved!

09/05/2013: Visa in hands

11/01/2013: Moved to the US (POE Miami)

12/03/2013: We got married!! heart.gif

01/06/2014: AOS package sent to Chicago Lockbox

01/17/2014: NOA1

02/13/2014: Biometrics appointment

03/13/2014: EAD and AP approved

04/22/2014: Case touched, change of address

04/30/2014: Notice of potential interview waiver case received

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We too want to have at least one child together but first have some time to be just us. I will be 40 this summer so I hear that clock too. Now we only just filed, so the wait is only just beginning.

I hope your turn comes soon.

K1 - Complete
05/01/2011 - Met online
09/15/2011 - Met in person
11/12/2011 - Became engaged
07/09/2012 - Finally got to put His Ring on my finger
02/04/2013 - Mailed off my documents to my fiance
02/13/2013 - Fiance received my documents
03/30/2013 - I-129F sent
04/05/2013 - NOA 1
07/10/2013 - File Transferred to Texas
07/24/2013 - NOA 2
08/23/2013 - USCIS-NVC - Case number received
08/27/2013 - NVC-Consulate
09/03/2013 - Packet 3
09/04/2013 - Packet 4
09/10/2013 - Medical (Passed)
09/12/2013 - Interview (Approved)
09/17/2013 - Visa in hand
11/02/2013 - Border crossing at Sweetgrass completed
11/05/2013 - Arrived in San Antonio
11/16/2013 - Married in San Antonio

Adjustment of Status

04/25/2014 - AOS packaged mailed to Chicago Lock Box.

05/15/2014 - NoA1 received for Aos and EA. AP rejected.

06/16/2014 - Biometrics appointment

07/07/2014 - EA card now in production.

07/10/2014 - EA Card received. YAY JOB HUNTING

08/13/2014 - Letter received staging possible interview waiver and no action for antoher 6 months

03/03/2015 - Apparently we are still within normal processing times and need to wait 87 days

04/27/2015 - RFE - Renew medical, Send some other documents

05/04/2015 - Medical redone

05/07/2015 - RFE request sent back to USCIS

05/08/2015 - RFE request received at USCIS

05/11/2015 - Green card IN PRODUCTION!!!!

05/11/2015 - Welcome letter Mailed!

05/14/2015 - Welcome Letter Received

05/18/2015 - Green Card Received!! FINALLY!!!!

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AJG & ESD   6

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Why only ladies can have a biological clock ticking??? :D I'll be 40 in June, and unfortunately life has been such that I don't have children yet. I don't want to be 60 years old with a 3 year old!!! Hello...men can have biological clocks too!!! :P:rofl:

The saddest part is that life is much too short, and every day that USCIS lets go by, it's a day in the life of your loved one that you can never have back, all because we've managed to meet someone in a country different from ours, and our GOVERNMENTS have rules and regulations. I guess we should be happy USCIS didn't exist when our families came off the boat to begin with...well most of us anyways. ;)

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i would love to have a child with my fiance once we are married and some time to enjoy our "just us time" before bringing in a new baby

BUT I'M GETTING OLD CSC!! AT THIS RATE I'M GOING TO BE TOO FLIPPIN OLD TO HAVE ANOTHER CHILD...i'm 34..........

8 months and still no NOA2!!!!!!!!

this is just ridiculous

i would like to move on with my life and be productive citizen but cant....

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habibi11   16

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I HEAR YOU ON THAT ONE I WILL BE 37 AND WE ARE APPROACHING OUR 9 MONTH MARK AND STILL NO WORD AT THE RATE WE ARE GOING ILL BE PUSHING 39 AND PUSHING OUT MY FIRST CHILD.... BUT WE HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO WAIT :(:whistle:

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i would love to have a child with my fiance once we are married and some time to enjoy our "just us time" before bringing in a new baby

BUT I'M GETTING OLD CSC!! AT THIS RATE I'M GOING TO BE TOO FLIPPIN OLD TO HAVE ANOTHER CHILD...i'm 34..........

8 months and still no NOA2!!!!!!!!

this is just ridiculous

i would like to move on with my life and be productive citizen but cant....

rant over I know how you feel me and my fiancee want to have a baby too and im 40 lol it took us over 8 months to get our NOA2 Good Luck and Best wishes

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well i just had our baby 4 weeks ago and YES it sucked so bad not having my husband next to me and he has missed her first 4 weeks of life but i'm over it now...i am so happy the baby is here and healthy..and we still don't have any answer pn our i-130 and we applied july 2012 :( 8 months and no answers plus now we have a baby girl :( thanks csc for not caring about real families

meet Sept 2008 in Chicago
He left back to Palestine Aug 2010
I went to Palestine May 30,2012
6/13/2012 Married in Palestine
7/04/2012 arrived back in Chicago
7/25/2012 mailed in I-130
7/26/2012 NOA 1 arrived. to be serviced in California
3/3/2013 our baby was born !!!!

6/17/2013 Case transferred to Local city

11/13/2013 interview at Chicago

1/27/2014 RFE DNA test

3/7/2014 RFE completed and mailed in

5/12/2014 **I-130 APPROVED** !! 652 days

6/3/2014 NVC received case

7/11/2014 choice of agent signed

7/19/2014 pay AOS bill, send aos packet

7/22/2014 NVC received AOS papers

8/20/2014 send IV packet

8/25/2014 NVC received IV papers

8/27/2014 pay IV bill

9/9/2014 DS-260 completed

9/15/2014 AOS checklist

9/24/2014 NVC scanned aos

10/29/2014 "paid" turned to "n/a"

10/31/2014 called NVC and confirmed case complete

11/4/2014 email with interview scheduled

12/15/2014 INTERVIEW

02/20/2015 I-601 waiver received @ Nebraska

07/14/2015 I-601 waiver APPROVED

8/10/2015 ceac changed from refused to ready

8/12/2015 visa was issued !!!!!!

8/25/2015 POE Chicago, no questions asked about waiver

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Bayareaguy   156

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I just want to be able to try making one. Hard to do from 6000 miles away.

The CSC vs VSC K1 data

Did your congressman help you?

How to buy a ticket for your fiance(e) using AA mileage flying out of Manila

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pachacuti   154

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she looks way younger! i though she was in her early-mid 30`s.

I relayed that to her :) Made her day. Thanks.

I just want to be able to try making one. Hard to do from 6000 miles away.

Dude! I thought we were a super power!! What's the matter? Man up :)

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Why only ladies can have a biological clock ticking??? :D I'll be 40 in June, and unfortunately life has been such that I don't have children yet. I don't want to be 60 years old with a 3 year old!!! Hello...men can have biological clocks too!!! :P:rofl:

The saddest part is that life is much too short, and every day that USCIS lets go by, it's a day in the life of your loved one that you can never have back, all because we've managed to meet someone in a country different from ours, and our GOVERNMENTS have rules and regulations. I guess we should be happy USCIS didn't exist when our families came off the boat to begin with...well most of us anyways. ;)

But women`s biological clock runs out before a mans. Most men mature later in life, and are more ready for children by their late 30`s - 40`s. For women, some go through menopause as early as their late 30`s, some in their early 40`s.. some late 40`s... just depends.

our 1st baby was born last February, and my fiance is 43. I am 32 (i gave birth to our son in the U.K. while he was U.S. he was unable to be there for the birth). You still have plenty of time :)

Our son was about 10 months old when i was finally able to travel to the U.S. Its extremely demanding and tiering looking after a baby 24/7 without him! So hopefully this visa will not take forever. As i dont have anyone to babysit or help out much with the baby, so i do not get to go out anywhere.. like the gym or meeting friends for an hour in the day. Its extra depressing being away from my fiance. Definately our lives are on hold.. and its impossible for me to work from home.. as i cant be with my fiance on his days off work when he would be able to look after our little boy. Hurry up CSC!! :(

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