HUSBAND HAVE WOMEN BACK HOME

[Shiobhan 235]

darnell i thought that only happens in jasper texas lol

LOL LOL Texas motto " Don't mess with Texas"

[Blue Bianchi 77]

Collect evidence meticulously. Plan on your life without him. Seek support from trusted friends and family. Call the number and report him. Truly sorry that this is happening to you

[destiny64 222]

Are you still around Atlanta?

For a small fee, a quick castration followed by a truck dragging can be arranged.

:thumbs:Best advice yet!

Edited March 28, 2013 by destiny64

[verysadguy 170]

Take a record of everything that proves he's been fraudulent. Copy it and send it to the USCIS and ICE. Be proactive about this! If you want you can wait until the 2 year mark and present it at an interview but why put yourself through that. You can divorce on fraud. When you divorce you claim FRAUD as the reason for the divorce. I highly doubt the USCIS is going to grant him a 10 year green card when he's been divorced because of fraud. He obviously did NOT enter your marriage in good faith. Get everything you need to prove that.

I did all that and nothing helped. He'll just claim VAWA. ICE hung up the phone without taking my name or her name. USCIS never acknowledged any of my letters.

[NikLR 13,232]

He's going to claim the OP abused and battered him? Really? ####### is the GD world coming to?

Edited March 29, 2013 by NikiR

[Sveta & Ron 23]

has anyone seen the op? I not see any more replies or updates from her

[Jawaree 718]

Lets hope he didn't sweet talk her back into his scam, he has not found her plotting & harmed her

or she did not fall into depression and give up., its a hard thing when you're deceived by a person

who is suppose to be your other half....OP don't do anything stupid, just try to cope, if this kid

was conceived during your courtship or after marriage there's another proof the marriage was fraud

Try to move on and best wishes.

[Sandra G. 5,057]

I am not saying it's her case, but i exchanged some emails with at least 10 scammed women that posted here in the VJ,their husbands had just the 2 years GC, and suddenly they changed their mind after posting in the visa journey and decided to forgive their husbands, and after 1 year six of the scammed women emailed me and told me the husband vanished for good after receiving the 10 year GC and they wanted to know how to deport the guy...well it was too late!

Edited March 29, 2013 by sandranj

[Karee 4,191]

I am not saying it's her case, but i exchanged some emails with at least 10 scammed women that posted here in the VJ,their husbands had just the 2 years GC, and suddenly they changed their mind after posting in the visa journey and decided to forgive their husbands, and after 1 year six of the scammed women emailed me and told me the husband vanished for good after receiving the 10 year GC and they wanted to know how to deport the guy...well it was too late!

Not surprising. People wonder why ICE or USCIS never takes this fraud stuff seriously.

[Hollyday 122]

What a horrible situation to find yourself in. You've already been given a lot of good advice (such as keeping evidence in a safe place where he wouldn't be able to reach and destroy it), but i also want to stress the personal safety aspect. When you come out with it, make sure he can't hurt you physically. Noone knows what it could be like when he finds his scheme had been discovered.

[evanstwist 1]

Ok this wat some of the ghanaian men do intact they have brought disgrace to we the ghanaians here fighting to break the long separation between our family in the states i think u can talk to a lawyer so that wat ever u have lost and the time wasted he should pay for it in the court of law am a ghanaia and i will advise u guys out there to be very careful about some of these Ghanaian guys they have nothing to offer to u but disappointments so becareful get him arrested and he must pay for all the losts

[REM4ever 0]

Yes, get the evidence and then send his @$$ packing! So sorry this happened to you. This is why it is hard for legitimate cases. Do it ASAP!

Edited April 23, 2013 by REM4ever

[Jawaree 718]

Hannah R U OK , did U go back to him...update us.

[Deb R 0]

I am so sorry to hear this Hannah. I too had a similar incident. I married my husband back in Dec 2008 in Ghana. I could not go back to visit him because of finances. He was finally approved for his visa like May 2012. Arrived in the USA on Sept. 3, 2012 only to find out a few months while he was here he has a girlfriend back home for how long I have no clue and also a few emails that i saw that were exchanged between him and his uncle stating me as THAT WOMAN OR THAT LADY HELPING HIM..... and he never had intentions of staying here with me very long I have proof in the emails...He could not find work here so he moved away to where his cousin lives and said she has a job already for him....but to make a long story short.....I showed him all that I found out about him but of course denies it all and it means nothing.....he moved away Jan 15, 2013 to Maryland. I will be filing for divorce very soon.

Just keep your head up Hannah and all will work out for the best....I sure know how you are feeling. Praying for you!!!!

[verysadguy 170]

I am so sorry to hear this Hannah. I too had a similar incident. I married my husband back in Dec 2008 in Ghana. I could not go back to visit him because of finances. He was finally approved for his visa like May 2012. Arrived in the USA on Sept. 3, 2012 only to find out a few months while he was here he has a girlfriend back home for how long I have no clue and also a few emails that i saw that were exchanged between him and his uncle stating me as THAT WOMAN OR THAT LADY HELPING HIM..... and he never had intentions of staying here with me very long I have proof in the emails...He could not find work here so he moved away to where his cousin lives and said she has a job already for him....but to make a long story short.....I showed him all that I found out about him but of course denies it all and it means nothing.....he moved away Jan 15, 2013 to Maryland. I will be filing for divorce very soon.

Just keep your head up Hannah and all will work out for the best....I sure know how you are feeling. Praying for you!!!!

People can be mean and hurtful. I know.