I- 134 affadavit of support and tax returns

[lennie 0]

Ladies and Gentlemen,

I filed a K-1 visa, but I do not want her to see my tax returns, and see my bank statements. Is there a process where I can send them ahead of time and immigration can take a look at them and decide. Call it being careful, but if by chance this does not work and she decides to stay on her own I do not want her using my money. I know in time she will find out , but I do not know her that well to leave financial records with her to take to the interview. Lennie

[payxibka 10,047]

Ladies and Gentlemen,

I filed a K-1 visa, but I do not want her to see my tax returns, and see my bank statements. Is there a process where I can send them ahead of time and immigration can take a look at them and decide. Call it being careful, but if by chance this does not work and she decides to stay on her own I do not want her using my money. I know in time she will find out , but I do not know her that well to leave financial records with her to take to the interview. Lennie

How will she get at your money unless you give her physical access and authorization ? Simply knowing bank account numbers without the appropriate permission does not provide access.

Edited November 15, 2006 by fwaguy

[aussiewench 9]

Why even file a fiance petition Looks like a try before you buy if you ask me. No wonder this process is so tough.

[kitkat1 5]

I do not know her that well to leave financial records with her to take to the interview. Lennie

But you know her well enough to MARRY her?

[payxibka 10,047]

I do not know her that well to leave financial records with her to take to the interview. Lennie

But you know her well enough to MARRY her?

Apparently not, but he knows her well enough to drag her @ss halfway around the world. I think the right answer is to stop the train and get yourself grounded in a relationship before it turns into a train wreck.

[joeyjoey 1]

Well, looks like ya'll just took him to school. There's no more that can be added on this post!

Tchau!

[felnfrank 1]

I do not know her that well to leave financial records with her to take to the interview. Lennie

But you know her well enough to MARRY her?

Apparently not, but he knows her well enough to drag her @ss halfway around the world. I think the right answer is to stop the train and get yourself grounded in a relationship before it turns into a train wreck.

precisely, u are not open to her. filing the petition will be in black and white. from personal to financial matters, these are to be known by each other. the embassy will show everything to the fiancee including criminal records and everything important to the girl, to let her have an idea who is she going to marry if in case the guy didnt reveal his real self. there's nothing wrong in showing or letting her know ur income. it will only prove if ur capable of having ur own family, if u can afford to have a wife and children. accessing ur money is out of the way. but u have to provide for ur family...cos it's ur responsibility.

nobody wants to use ur money, me either dont want to use my fiance's money for my comfort. it's up to the fince if he's willing to spend for the girl. my fiance loves me so much that he gives reasons for me to accept money from him, that i got lots of birthdays in a year just to accept gifts from him

so if it is the case, u better think first to continue this. or r u sure u love this girl or it's just another arranged relationship?sorry but it happens...that's why we have this strict screening...

God bless!

[sarah and hicham 3]

oh snap!

[cmboothe 0]

How long do you know her? Because if you cant trust her what are you doing marring her? Your only 16 days into your journey for the Visa and you've already got stuff you dont trust her with. I'd rethink the situation before you go any further.

[jc1b 0]

Why would you marry someone you can't completely trust? I'm sure there are ways you can tell or even test her intentions ahead of time.

[sunandmoon 450]

there's something you're suppose to have in a relatiomship. it's called TRUST.

[girlfrmoz 1]

lmao...mmm entertaining thread!!! sorry couldn't help myself.

[sarah and hicham 3]

lmao...mmm entertaining thread!!! sorry couldn't help myself.

Did you get this one mixed up with the "lol" poll? hahaha.

[JohnL 4]

No trust...... or trust the immigration officer before he would trust his wife.....sounds like a control freak and I hope that she is wise enough not to marry the guy......

[billrussell 0]

I cannot believe that you married somebody and you don't want to show her your income.

Doesn't sound like a marriage made in heaven to me.