Spouse Returned gift

[Dallas47 2]

Hello everyone,today I was wondering what would you guys think if your spouse returned your gift to the store??

Well for example in my case, my husband bought me a really nice Famous branded bag on my valentines,but it was huge on me,so I asked him if I can exchange .He said" of course"and gave me the receipt.i know it's bad,but I am now a mom, so I thought why keeping it if I can't use it? I went to the store to exchange the item.Unfortunately they don't have something I like. I love collecting all nice bags,but at that point I decided to get a store credit instead of getting something I don't like. Since I am now a mother I was thinking I can use the in-store credit towards the baby stuff. We have our Anniversary hubby bought me a flowers and a chocolate, I got him a nice wedding band that cost almost two grand. I don't want him to get anything for me,I told him prior to the celebration .

He got home and told me he felt bad because he don't get me anything,which I really don't care I wanted to spend the whole day with him though. But he said something that I felt bad quote" I don't get you anything because I am afraid you'd return it." Whoa I felt guilty now. What do you guys think if you were in my shoe.Share your thoughts.

Ps.i am not sure which category to post this,so please experts move this if I am wrong.thanks!!!

the gift was bought for you, not the baby, given the fact you didn't like it, you should have gotten something for yourself that you do like, if you returned it for the cash, then return the cash to your husband.

[Kiv 32]

After years of investing time and money trying to find the perfect christmas, birthdays aniversary etc gifts.

I started telling my husband, look what you got me! And he answered i am glad you like it, then he is using the same " this is what you are giving me as a present"

We left the surprise for ocassions not special, he sends me flowers just because, they are always welcome.

We both take care of our budget as much as we can, for me that is another gift.

[Apapaia 25]

It does depend on the person, but I figure, would he feel bad if You did no return it and never use it? But I agree with a previous poster that you should get "something" special you really like, for you, not the baby, so you can say, remember that bag I exchanged... Well look at this or these, I love them and am so happy, thank you!

And for Apapia... REALLY, he bought you a bra! Holy cow, I can't even find one myself that fits right let alone buying one for someone else... Its like a battle of me against my boobs to get the right one! My hubby knows comfy pajamas and a great bottle of wine are the way to my heart!

I was really in need for new bras because no one of the old ones would fit me anymore. So he took me to the store, I got measured and few days after he went to buy them knowing exactly what size I was. No excuses for him! I wear a 36D and he came back with a 34C. I don't know if he wanted to send some kind of message or he's really that special

[christeen 966]

I was really in need for new bras because no one of the old ones would fit me anymore. So he took me to the store, I got measured and few days after he went to buy them knowing exactly what size I was. No excuses for him! I wear a 36D and he came back with a 34C. I don't know if he wanted to send some kind of message or he's really that special