here im with another big problem please some help

[M&M2674 0]

My wife was offer a job in NY 24 hrs away from where we live and she is planning on leaving next friday and tsking our daughter with her , even if i dont agree with that , she says because of problems we were having and her family lives there and they are painting her a nice picture cuz is her brother who is offering the job. i dont want her to go because i love her and my little girls are my life. im still under GC conditional and she told me that if i dont let her go the only way i can stop her is if i divorce her , so i really need some advice of what can i do about the whole thing? i love my wife and kids so much that i cant imagine living without them , i dont want to loose her and i dont want to be deported either , what can i do please . she just told me that she is planning on leaving next friday march 22 i feel like every hour that goes by im dying is so horrible . what can i do please someone out there.

can i just file for legal separation ? she told me if i let her go she wont divorce me and we can try to make it work long distance , we have been together for 5 yrs and married for 2 yrs 3 months . please some help!!

[Inky 1,111]

Why cant you move with her and get a job there? Its not clear as to why you cannot go with your family.

[Pinkrlion 2,724]

Why cant you move with her and get a job there? Its not clear as to why you cannot go with your family.

[M&M2674 0]

she is telling me that she needs time away because of problems we have had in the past , her mom has always been wanted us to move there . we did for 2 months back in 2008 and we could not find jobs there so we sold everything back then got there and came back really broke. and this time she is her brother offering a 20 dlrs an hour job but i know that i wont find no job there plus she says she loves me but wants to go byherself. im willing to go there cuz i dont want to loose my family my kids , but she doesnt want me there cuz she even said that maybe she is not meant to be married that way she doesnt have to consult with anyone what she does or wants to do. and she says she wants to claim her independence back .

[OZ62 17]

I hate to tell you this, but from experience, your marriage looks like a done deal. This is no different than she telling you she needs space. Those things that happened, looks like it put your marriage in danger. You both, if both want to be together, may need marriage counseling to solve your differences.

If all ends, like my mother said to me, you are not the only one and not the last one that something like this happens. Just be a man and move on...