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Khushi81   1

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hey guys, i am posting this post for a friend...

A friend of mine married to a US citizen who is her relative from Pakistan. she has a two years green card which expires March 2014. the problem is that her mother in law took everything from her green card, state ID, and even social security card. She and her husband always treated her like sh**. she is still married to her and one week earlier they have sent her back to Pakistan. they told her to go and visit the parents for a month and then come back but now she is even calling me and they are not picking up the phone call. Now she has started to worry about her future. please help.

My questions are:

what are her options to come back to the country since:

1.I have no green card because my green card is with the in laws.

2. i do not even know my alien registration number.

3. I do not have my state ID and social security card but i do know my social security number.

please help in any way you can.

thanks

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Khushi81   1

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hey guys, i am posting this post for a friend...

A friend of mine married to a US citizen who is her relative from Pakistan. she has a two years green card which expires March 2014. the problem is that her mother in law took everything from her green card, state ID, and even social security card. She and her husband always treated her like sh**. she is still married to her and one week earlier they have sent her back to Pakistan. they told her to go and visit the parents for a month and then come back but now she is even calling me and they are not picking up the phone call. Now she has started to worry about her future. please help.

My questions are:

what are her options to come back to the country since:

1.I have no green card because my green card is with the in laws.

2. i do not even know my alien registration number.

3. I do not have my state ID and social security card but i do know my social security number.

please help in any way you can.

thanks

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NigeriaorBust   4,087

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She files a police report for the theft of her green card listing the mother in law as the person who stole the card. A replacement will cost 450 or so .

She asking the embassy for a travel document to the US based on the fact her MIL stole her green card.

She files for divorce.

This will not be over quickly. You will not enjoy this.

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Contact USCiS immediately!!!! http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/menuitem.eb1d4c2a3e5b9ac89243c6a7543f6d1a/?vgnextoid=ddce0b89284a3210VgnVCM100000b92ca60aRCRD&vgnextchannel=ddce0b89284a3210VgnVCM100000b92ca60aRCRD

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Your female friend is in Pakistan right now and her mother in law (also in Pakistan) is keeping her GC, SS card and State ID. Right?

If that's the case, she should go to the police NOW and make a complaint report that her mother in law stole her personal ID cards! Or better yet she can ask for a police escort to come with her to her mother in law's house to get back the IDs.

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Khushi81   1

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Your female friend is in Pakistan right now and her mother in law (also in Pakistan) is keeping her GC, SS card and State ID. Right?

If that's the case, she should go to the police NOW and make a complaint report that her mother in law stole her personal ID cards! Or better yet she can ask for a police escort to come with her to her mother in law's house to get back the IDs.

Mother is law is in the US.

thanks guys for help

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She files a police report for the theft of her green card listing the mother in law as the person who stole the card. A replacement will cost 450 or so .

She asking the embassy for a travel document to the US based on the fact her MIL stole her green card.

She files for divorce.

agree agree agree... get back at the mother in law. file a case against her. police report whatever you can do to get back :D

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Does she want to come back to the US?

Seems a bit odd.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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Does she want to come back to the US?

Seems a bit odd.

Not really. She is from a country where divorce is stigmatized and women aren’t valued.

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what was her transit date into the USA?

I ask, because on a CR-1 or IR-1 visa, the visa plus the first POE stamp acts as a temporary green card, 1 year I-551 document.

If it's been more than a year, then it can't be used as an I-551 document.

IIRC, the A # is also in the visa stamp.

As to her future - what does she want to do ? I think if she wants to divorce, then is best to come into the USA , get all her documents through the police, and file herself. Then file the ROC after she has the divorce finalized.

If she wants to remain in Pakistan, then she can simply remain there, do nothing more except file for divorce there.

The MIL is an asshat.

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Not really. She is from a country where divorce is stigmatized and women aren’t valued.

So she is more interested in moving to the US than without support than dealing with an abusive Husband and Mother in Law?

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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So she is more interested in moving to the US than without support than dealing with an abusive Husband and Mother in Law?

If she went back to the US she could possibly work things out with her husband or not. Depends a lot on the meddling MIL.

I’ve just read and seen documentaries on what life is like there for women and it’s not easy even without the stigma of divorce. Women have been killed for divorcing there - by their own relatives. She may not have support at home either.

Staying in Pakistan may not be a positive choice for her and the US with or without her husband could be what is best for her. It would most likely be a hard road but it could be what is needed.

If she was from somewhere else, then yes, it would make no sense to go back to the US other than to get her divorce so she can move on.

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Insufficient data.

Impossible to make assumptions.

You can not paint a whole country by limited exposes. Just read foreign media stories about the US.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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It’s easy to say “it’s a bit odd” to want to come back to the US when there hasn’t been enough data presented.

I just wanted to point out that there could be reasons as to why.

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