HELP!!!!! SOOO STRESSED OUT AND FRUSTRATED :(

[apple21 953]

medical expired within 1yr (philippines) not sure at your country!!!

wow i have nothing to say. but honey i offer u my prayers. may god be with u guys!!!

For Philippines, medical exam is only valid within 6 MONTHS.

[Cathi 5,795]

5 times over a year 2 years????? Again if I were you I would of already been in touch with my senator. I have seen my wife 5 times in 4 months and am leaving again in 3 weeks. We are actually meeting in another country this time. This will be the first time she will be in an airplane. I am trying to visit as many times as I can to leave no doubt in the counselor official mind that this is a bonafide relationship.

do you have any idea what AP is? It is additional background checks done after the interview at the embassy. She can visit once a week if she wants, it won;t make a difference once the case is in AP, the background checks need to be complete before the visa is issued, end of story.

[RosyAgramonte 0]

sweetie, hang in there. After your husband's case has been in AP for 6 months you can contact your senator and their office can inquire on his behalf. The senator cannot get him out of AP, but as my senator's office told me, at east the embassy will know that someone is following your case. Good luck.

Okay I will keep all that in mind, Thank you for all the info..

Trying to stay positive and hopefully soon we will get that email or call that we have been waiting for over 5 months..

Thanks

[LaVegano 12]

do you have any idea what AP is? It is additional background checks done after the interview at the embassy. She can visit once a week if she wants, it won;t make a difference once the case is in AP, the background checks need to be complete before the visa is issued, end of story.

You are misunderstanding my post. I was curious how many times she has visited him. And contacting a congressman or senator DOES HELP in some cases. I have seen this first hand with a good friend of mine.

[Chuck & Chay 0]

Thank you Hopefully this nightmare is over soon.

I have a friend who was under Administrative Processing..but it only took 60 days. Her fiance keeps on having a follow-up call..i think it would be better for you to do the same. Who knows it might help..

[together4evr 360]

You have to know that they embassy gets money from congress votes and senator votes.

You need to understand a lite bit of politcs to understand why some embassys do notwant a strong congressman on their butts.

So it will not get him out of AP but it will make the CO complete the process quicker when it is at the embassy level because they do not want to get funds denied due to angry congressmen.

And asking for a congressional inquiry NEVER hurts your case

Do it!!

[glinda123 2]

So stressful!! Thinking of you and sending prayers that you'll hear good news SOON!!

[KelComman2 1]

Rosy,

Cojelo suave tiguera...yo se que no es facil y muy frustrante la situacion, pero bueno te deseo suerte y espero en Dios k salga toda bien y rapido.

Los suegros mios estan en AP hace ya dos meses y nada. My wife petitioned for them and everything went well (up to), her mom was told at the clinic that they were going to send her medical results to the embassy prior to the interview, and guess what, they did not; her visa was approved, but had to go back, pick up the medical results herself and turned them in the very next day. 'til this date (a little over two months now), still waiting, to add to my wife's agony, her father's case is in AP as well as both cases were processed together. Crazy and frustrating.

Cannot understand the deal behind this and why it takes so long for them to do whatever it is that they do during the so call "Administrative Processing", especially if/when the cases were/are approved.

Hang in there, I wished I could offer more help, but just be a little extra patience as this is what seems to be the only option we have. I'll try to update as I can as I myself have a post on the same issue.

Best of Luck.

Kel

[LaVegano 12]

Rosy,

Cojelo suave tiguera...yo se que no es facil y muy frustrante la situacion, pero bueno te deseo suerte y espero en Dios k salga toda bien y rapido.

Los suegros mios estan en AP hace ya dos meses y nada. My wife petitioned for them and everything went well (up to), her mom was told at the clinic that they were going to send her medical results to the embassy prior to the interview, and guess what, they did not; her visa was approved, but had to go back, pick up the medical results herself and turned them in the very next day. 'til this date (a little over two months now), still waiting, to add to my wife's agony, her father's case is in AP as well as both cases were processed together. Crazy and frustrating.

Cannot understand the deal behind this and why it takes so long for them to do whatever it is that they do during the so call "Administrative Processing", especially if/when the cases were/are approved.

Hang in there, I wished I could offer more help, but just be a little extra patience as this is what seems to be the only option we have. I'll try to update as I can as I myself have a post on the same issue.

Best of Luck.

Kel

For how long were these cases in AP?

[bigdog 377]

Hang in there, good luck.

[RosyAgramonte 0]

I have a friend who was under Administrative Processing..but it only took 60 days. Her fiance keeps on having a follow-up call..i think it would be better for you to do the same. Who knows it might help..

Thanks but trust me I can every week to find out on any updates and all they say is you are still under AP and have to wait once this is cleared out we will contact you or your husband. But thanks anyways

[RosyAgramonte 0]

You have to know that they embassy gets money from congress votes and senator votes.

You need to understand a lite bit of politcs to understand why some embassys do notwant a strong congressman on their butts.

So it will not get him out of AP but it will make the CO complete the process quicker when it is at the embassy level because they do not want to get funds denied due to angry congressmen.

And asking for a congressional inquiry NEVER hurts your case

Do it!!

Thank you for the advice I think I might just give it a try.. What the heck.. got nothing to lose right?

So stressful!! Thinking of you and sending prayers that you'll hear good news SOON!!

Yesss very stressful and thank you so much for your prayers

[RosyAgramonte 0]

Rosy,

Cojelo suave tiguera...yo se que no es facil y muy frustrante la situacion, pero bueno te deseo suerte y espero en Dios k salga toda bien y rapido.

Los suegros mios estan en AP hace ya dos meses y nada. My wife petitioned for them and everything went well (up to), her mom was told at the clinic that they were going to send her medical results to the embassy prior to the interview, and guess what, they did not; her visa was approved, but had to go back, pick up the medical results herself and turned them in the very next day. 'til this date (a little over two months now), still waiting, to add to my wife's agony, her father's case is in AP as well as both cases were processed together. Crazy and frustrating.

Cannot understand the deal behind this and why it takes so long for them to do whatever it is that they do during the so call "Administrative Processing", especially if/when the cases were/are approved.

Hang in there, I wished I could offer more help, but just be a little extra patience as this is what seems to be the only option we have. I'll try to update as I can as I myself have a post on the same issue.

Best of Luck.

Kel

Thank you soo much Kel..

I'm really sorry that your suegros are in all this Bullshit as well I totally feel your wife's agony. And you're right all we can be is stay strong be patient and hang in there..

Best of luck to you and I will keep your suegros in my prayers and hopefully your wife and parents will be reunited very soon as well as my husband and I

Rosy A.

Hang in there, good luck.

Trying, doing my best and thanks

[Olakunle39 11]

Awww, your story breaks my heart. This is just so wrong and the timing is way off. Your doing good by trying to wait and remain calm but shoot sometimes that gets frustrating. You sit back and ask why is this happening to me, what did I do to deserve this. If you feel like venting by all means go right ahead. You have every right to. I pray you get a decision very very very soon. Jesus is with you.

[RosyAgramonte 0]

Awww, your story breaks my heart. This is just so wrong and the timing is way off. Your doing good by trying to wait and remain calm but shoot sometimes that gets frustrating. You sit back and ask why is this happening to me, what did I do to deserve this. If you feel like venting by all means go right ahead. You have every right to. I pray you get a decision very very very soon. Jesus is with you.

Thanks exactly how I feel Sometimes I just blame myself for all this that is happening Thank you so much for your prayers and for everyone else's. I hope God listens to them and brings my hubby here soon.

I know things happen for a reason I really do believe that and that when it is time for him to come he will.. I just hope that time comes soon because I don't think I can take this much longer