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Caryh
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You're one smart cookie Rimpz. Your explainations really make arranged marriages sound good and sensible, even to us from a love match marriage based system. There's definitely advantages to both ways

Harpa Timsah
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I think arranged marriages can work fine if both parties are committed to it as a real marriage and willing to give eachother respect and understanding (as this is how it has been done for a long time

Rimpz
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if you love someone you shoudn't get arranged marriage. Talk to you parents if they don't agree, rebel. :| The final is say is parents but if you really love someone, you do what you have to. More and

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In a former life. I was the Emperor of China, and I arranged to have 22,395 concubines......:)

Wow that is a lot of headache to worry about :devil:

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So, if I love a woman, and she's not in the same caste as me, but my parents and Aunties (Lord, how they work so hard on this!) find a lass within my caste - who has the ultimate decision for 'rectitude' and 'normalcy' ?? Is it the Uncles ???? That's what I remember...

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This story can be used in this thread for reference. I read it in the NY post this morning. A father kidnapped his daughter and sent her to Pakistan to get married...and threatens to kill her if she escaped.

http://www.nypost.com/p/news/local/brooklyn/arranged_marriage_threat_bust_0P4pJv41TKWa3TWBFIOwcN

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So, if I love a woman, and she's not in the same caste as me, but my parents and Aunties (Lord, how they work so hard on this!) find a lass within my caste - who has the ultimate decision for 'rectitude' and 'normalcy' ?? Is it the Uncles ???? That's what I remember...

if you love someone you shoudn't get arranged marriage. Talk to you parents if they don't agree, rebel. :| The final is say is parents but if you really love someone, you do what you have to. More and more parents are agreeing to love marriages out of caste.

This story can be used in this thread for reference. I read it in the NY post this morning. A father kidnapped his daughter and sent her to Pakistan to get married...and threatens to kill her if she escaped.

http://www.nypost.com/p/news/local/brooklyn/arranged_marriage_threat_bust_0P4pJv41TKWa3TWBFIOwcN

dude that is pakistian. I can't comment on their weddings. I have no clue about them and they scare me. sorry

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This story can be used in this thread for reference. I read it in the NY post this morning. A father kidnapped his daughter and sent her to Pakistan to get married...and threatens to kill her if she escaped.

http://www.nypost.com/p/news/local/brooklyn/arranged_marriage_threat_bust_0P4pJv41TKWa3TWBFIOwcN

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That story from Pakistan falls more under the category of forced marriage rather than arranged marriage.

And so sad. I think at the British embassy in Pakistan and some other countries, they actually make an effort to track down British girls who are being forced into marriage. They get tips from friends or the girls themselves....just ridiculous in this day and age. :angry:

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Basic human rights are not basic

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That story from Pakistan falls more under the category of forced marriage rather than arranged marriage.

It looks like first it was arranged, then the arrangement failed. Then it was forced. But good thing the father was collared. With a large Pakistani population here, we see an "honor killing" every now and then.

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