Pics on VJ

[JaJo 1]

... I feel like most of the uproar is because most of the women are jealous when a guy's lady looks better than them in underwear or a bikini. Which is probably why most of you don't have pics anyway. I don't see the men complaining. Get a grip or hit the gym!!! Cheers!!!

Uling,

I'm from a country where you can see women far less covered than the pics posted walking on the streets, so I don't see them as inappropriate;but, I don't have or want to please every man on VJ. I please my fiancé, and that's enough, so why would I want to have my pics posted here is beyond me.

Until this nonsense began, I thought nothing of it, but after some of you guys began "screaming" about it, it began to feel like some of you are posting those as "trophies"...

[aussiewench 9]

I remember it wasn't too long ago that there was a mini female lynch mob that was mad at Gary for posting pictures of himself with his shirt off showing off his tattoos. OOOH, provocative.

LOL! Cheers!

awwwwwwww damm, I missed that

[Caladan 19]

Oh whatever. Wondering if you've bothered to ask the love of your life whether it's okay with her that you're posting her lingerie shots on the internet has nothing to do with being jealous.

What's to be jealous of? Seriously. We're jealous of your fiancée, for what, landing you?

Well, it's one thing to ask someone to remove some pictures because you think they may be much, but it's another thing to ask someone if their "fiance knows you're posting provocative pictures" on this forum. Provocative is in the eye of the beholder, that's all Uling is saying.

I remember it wasn't too long ago that there was a mini female lynch mob that was mad at Gary for posting pictures of himself with his shirt off showing off his tattoos. OOOH, provocative.

LOL! Cheers!

Bra and panty shots are borderline. I don't much care, though my favorite pic of your fiancé is the one with her making a silly face, since it seems to express her personality. Still, if my fiancé were posting bra & panty shots of me without my knowledge, I'd be pretty annoyed, especially if it seems like a bragging contest.

[garya505 2]

even if i had a drop dead body i still wouldnt want my husband sharing it with anyone else. kinda like im his and only his thing i guess.

im not jelous of anyone but just think its a personal thing. we dont go outside in our undies to show ourselve off to our neibors so why should we do in online?

would u like it if ur fiance/wife went out to get the mail in her sexy nighties?

i know men in general are show offs so thats why u like showing ur woman off but i think its more respectible to keep her for ur eyes only.

Ah, but you're assuming that you know the woman's attitude on this. For example, my fiance is more modest than I am, so of course I would use her judgement for posting photos. But I know plenty of women who are less modest than me, so ...

[Sheriff Uling 3]

I haven't attacked you personally any more than you've attacked me.

But seriously, what are we supposed to be jealous of? Being jealous of the girl doesn't make any sense. Being jealous of the guy makes even less sense, as most of us have male fiancés and thus aren't gay.

You need some quiet time to reflect... and I'm not saying that anyone is jealous of little old me. Cheers!!!

[Aymerlu 3]

First of all my body isn't for the world wide web to see. If my husband put pics of me sleeping, in undies, etc I would be pissed! You can be proud of what your fiance/husband looks like without exploiting them. And as far as being jealous.......for what?????

[mrc 0]

For those of you that haven't seen the "provocative" picture in question, here it is. I'm really sorry, but I fail to see anything wrong with this picture. So you see some of her legs? What's the problem? She's in shorts. All I see is a beautiful woman with a gorgeous smile. Damn right I'm proud of her. She's great and she's beautiful.

I've seen a few female members photos on here and they have their arms flabbing in the wind while they wear tank tops...I find that appaling. I never said anything about that.

Anyway, I've said my piece...Thanks for those that have sent me messages telling me not to worry about it. I appreciate the support.

Edited November 12, 2006 by mrc

[Sheriff Uling 3]

It appears that most of you ladies are projecting your own sense of morality and standards. None of us are you. In fact, there is no set standard on pics and if you had it your way. We'd be posting nun pics of our significant others. Get a grip!!! Cheers!!!

Can't wait to see you LOL and Cheers your way out of this one, Uling. LOL!

There is nothing for me to get out of... I'm simply posting what I have seen... If that makes me wrong then I'm guilty... but I'm not going to apologize for it...

[Caladan 19]

Well, you're wrong. Didn't object to the original pic, found it a little off, and it sure isn't because I'm jealous of a cleavage shot.

[Sheriff Uling 3]

I've seen a few female members photos on here and they have their arms flabbing in the wind while they wear tank tops...I find that appaling. I never said anything about that.

Dahamn right!

[kitkat1 5]

mrc - I must have missed the hooplah. I like the pics of your fiance - I think the sleepy one is especially cute.

Uling, way to go, stirring up more trouble as usual. Couldn't you have just left it alone?

[Fandango 1,439]

I have noticed that some of the ladies are complaining about pics that fiances or spouses are posting. It's relative about what is appropriate an inappropriate as long as private parts are not showing. Anyone ever heard of art. I feel like most of the uproar is because most of the women are jealous when a guy's lady looks better than them in underwear or a bikini. Which is probably why most of you don't have pics anyway. I don't see the men complaining. Get a grip or hit the gym!!! Cheers!!!

Trust me, I look fine in what I wear....not fine as in so-so but fiiiiiiiiiiiiiine

However, you either started this thread to stir the sh!t, or you truly don't understand why some people are curious as to why someone's fiancee is wearing bra and panties and on her hands and knees on a bed. MOST people would want to keep that stuff private. It's a respect issue...and since the poster in question removed it, you have to wonder whether he secretly agrees to what was pointed out to him.

I can't defend what was said last night as the thread's gone...but an innocuous question as 'does your fiancee know?' is hardly anything to start blathering and name calling at.

But I wonder why you have now posted a 2nd follow up thread. Do you not get the hint? Why start stuff for controversy?

[Sheriff Uling 3]

Well, you're wrong. Didn't object to the original pic, found it a little off, and it sure isn't because I'm jealous of a cleavage shot.

Then why mention it!!! Just let it go!!! Cheers!!!

[mrc 0]

Oh whatever. Wondering if you've bothered to ask the love of your life whether it's okay with her that you're posting her lingerie shots on the internet has nothing to do with being jealous.

What's to be jealous of? Seriously. We're jealous of your fiancée, for what, landing you?

Well, it's one thing to ask someone to remove some pictures because you think they may be much, but it's another thing to ask someone if their "fiance knows you're posting provocative pictures" on this forum. Provocative is in the eye of the beholder, that's all Uling is saying.

I remember it wasn't too long ago that there was a mini female lynch mob that was mad at Gary for posting pictures of himself with his shirt off showing off his tattoos. OOOH, provocative.

LOL! Cheers!

Bra and panty shots are borderline. I don't much care, though my favorite pic of your fiancé is the one with her making a silly face, since it seems to express her personality. Still, if my fiancé were posting bra & panty shots of me without my knowledge, I'd be pretty annoyed, especially if it seems like a bragging contest.

Well I can understand that. And that's your opinion. I'm more likely to listen to what you have to say when you respect other people's feelings rather than attack someone and making assumptions. Your point is perfectly clear and well stated, thanks for being cordial. It isn't a bragging contest though...I merely just made a collage of some of my favorite pics of my fiance. We've been together for a year now and we spent almost five months straight with each other when we first met. I just miss her. So seeing pictures of her smiling face makes me feel better while I'm trying to figure out this immigration process. I honestly thought that since we have so much in common on this forum, people were a little more understanding of things, but I felt like I was attacked. Regardless of what some of the females may say, that's what I felt was happening. Again, there is a way to talk to people and get your point across without coming across as disrespectful, that's all i'm saying.

[garya505 2]

Uling, now you have me thinking about marrying a nun and the implications of that.