Why are so many American men

[KarenCee 3]

American women are too greedy all they want is your pocket book lol and they like digging for gold lol

Surely you don't assume that ALL American women are that way? I can positively assure you that I didn't marry my beloved for money, nor did he marry me for money (or a GC). Schoolteachers do NOT make big bucks. At least not here in the Deep South.

[CarolineM 0]

Well I'm sorry that he decided to answer a question with insults...it's sad when the best someone can do is to insult weight, or looks...but hey - if it's all he can come up with - that's fine.

I really could care less what he said about me, I put my pics out there KNOWING ppl will see them, and being secure enough in myself, and my relationship to not care what a stranger on the internet says about them

Schoolteachers do NOT make big bucks. At least not here in the Deep South.

Ain't that the truth!

[mrc 0]

I took it personally, because it's none of your business. Obviously, you didn't see everything else that happened after you decided to go off topic and discuss what my fiance knows or doesn't know (which is none of your business). Again, I got defensive, because IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. Are you seeing a pattern here? Sure, it's a public forum, but does that mean you want me to comment on personal matters about you and make comments towards you? It's none of my business. Obviously, you've never seen lingerie before either. That's the last I'll say on this. I'm not even going to fart in your general direction...kindly leave me alone. If you do feel the need to direct anymore comments towards me, send me a private message or keep them to yourself. Thanks.

If it was none of anyone's business, it shouldn't have been on here you made it everyone's business and you invited comment. Please don't try to claim the high road about how highly personal it is when you shared private pictures on an internet forum.

You seem to be lashing out at Caroline cos she's the one who mentioned it, but there were many who were thinking it. Don't shoot the messenger!

I made it everyone's business and invited the comment? I suppose a woman invites being raped because she wears tight clothes too? You know how ignorant that sounds? And, if someone had thought that (which I never looked at that picture as "provocative", all I saw was a pretty woman with a beautiful smile), why not just send me a private message rather than getting FOUR WOMEN pulling all this net ninny horsecrap? You wonder why I got defensive? Because I was being attacked and comments were being made towards me like I was some horrible person who is whoring out pornographic smut about my fiance. You really need to take a look at how all that happened and then you'd see why I got defensive. I've NEVER commented negatively towards anyone or even acknowledged any of you before yet personal comments were being directed towards my pesonal business.

I am lashing out at Caroline because she won't let it go. Alright, I changed the picture, now you grannies can please leave me alone and mind your own business.

[KiKi 0]

No,

Caroline, me, a few other women who said the pic was innapropriate .....

[CarolineM 0]

guilt implies you were doing something wrong. Your issue, not ours.

What happened to not even farting in my direction, btw?? Just couldn't resist??

If you knew, in your heart, that having that photo up was FINE - then who CARES what we say?? If you truly believed there was NOTHING WRONG WITH IT - then why do you give a ####### what us "fat" "Granny" "Ninnies" have to say about it???

Honestly.

Edited November 12, 2006 by CarolineM

[mrc 0]

guilt implies you were doing something wrong. Your issue, not ours.

What happened to not even farting in my direction, btw?? Just couldn't resist??

If you knew, in your heart, that having that photo up was FINE - then who CARES what we say?? If you truly believed there was NOTHING WRONG WITH IT - then why do you give a ####### what us "fat" "Granny" "Ninnies" have to say about it???

Honestly.

Please, if I had answered your original question with a "yes," do you honestly think you would have let it go?