I-129f

[juju ^_^ 1]

I need your opinion

I met my fiancee last year August 2011 when he was on delployment. We become friends and later become a couple, month goes by i keep asking him if he is married? And i always end up with an answer that his not married. As a couple i can say that i feel blessed, happy, and contented with my partner. Middle of 2012 i was suprise when he told me that he is married i break up with him and stop seeing him, i dont even listen to his explanation what are the reason behind why he lied to me, i was hurt! Month pass by our path crosses again he expalin to me everything and he told me that their marriage is over and he is about to file a divorce to her wife but since his on deployment he cannot proceed on the application. I ask lot of question why? Why? Why? And why me?? After all the drama our relationship countinue, he meet my family and showed the sincerity to marry me. July 2012 he went back to US as his deployment is over... August 2012 my fiancee and her wife sign and filled a divorce... Dec. 2012 divored filled finally over.

now my is question...

My fiancee file our I-129 K1 Jan 2013, it would be a red flag for our k1? I know were not the only couple whose having same issue.

[Bayareaguy 156]

There are relationship red flags in your post, but filing an I-129F a month after being divorced is not a red flag to USCIS. It might be something asked about in the Visa interview.[quote name=juju ' timestamp='1361308756' post='5990648]

I need your opinion

I met my fiancee last year August 2011 when he was on delployment. We become friends and later become a couple, month goes by i keep asking him if he is married? And i always end up with an answer that his not married. As a couple i can say that i feel blessed, happy, and contented with my partner. Middle of 2012 i was suprise when he told me that he is married i break up with him and stop seeing him, i dont even listen to his explanation what are the reason behind why he lied to me, i was hurt! Month pass by our path crosses again he expalin to me everything and he told me that their marriage is over and he is about to file a divorce to her wife but since his on deployment he cannot proceed on the application. I ask lot of question why? Why? Why? And why me?? After all the drama our relationship countinue, he meet my family and showed the sincerity to marry me. July 2012 he went back to US as his deployment is over... August 2012 my fiancee and her wife sign and filled a divorce... Dec. 2012 divored filled finally over.

now my is question...

My fiancee file our I-129 K1 Jan 2013, it would be a red flag for our k1? I know were not the only couple whose having same issue.

[carton025 38]

There are relationship red flags in your post, but filing an I-129F a month after being divorced is not a red flag to USCIS. It might be something asked about in the Visa interview.

I agree with the above post. I know that for you coming to the USA would be a dream come true... But, would it also be the beginning of a "lifelong" nightmare? Once a liar, always a liar... The first lie is always the toughest, but the lies come much easier after the first. And, if he has done this, starting a relationship with you, to his existing wife, will he do it to you also? If he does, it will be much easier for him the next time. Just my opinion.

Best of luck!

[Tahoma 2,292]

The timing of his divorce and his I-129F petition should not be a problem other than having to answer questions about it at your interview.

On a personal note, I would never marry a liar.

[X Factor 1,112]

Once a liar alway a liar

[biaobiao 40]

The timing of his divorce and his I-129F petition should not be a problem other than having to answer questions about it at your interview.

On a personal note, I would never marry a liar.

true. it wont affect your petition.

they are actually correct, its so hard to marry a liar. what next, he will tell you he has 5 kids after you got married.

but his intentions were clear, he meet you family. try your instincts. one probable reason he may not have told you is that he was afraid you would leave him the moment he knew he was married. but know he is divorced. he is free to marry you, just be careful though, people from deployment change behavior once they are back to US. they may not be the same person you met. just saying.