The Rant

[The Mean Lady 604]

kdh is on facebook?

barely. but yes.

I AM SO OBSESSED WITH WORLDS WORST TENANTS

[Ban Hammer 13,149]

barely. but yes.

I AM SO OBSESSED WITH WORLDS WORST TENANTS

i guess that means you don't play castle age or mafia wars.

[The Mean Lady 604]

i guess that means you don't play castle age or mafia wars.

Nah. no games.

I just remembered my husband was giving me a back massage in the middle of the night.

I don't know if this was his way of saying 'sorry' for pissing me off earlier,

or trying to get sex

[Caryh 5,206]

lmao using the example 'who do you think the men cheat with' means nothing.

You are implying that married men cheat with married women then lmao

I'm not saying women don't cheat.

But i'm STILL saying that it doesn't matter WHO is cheating it's STUPID.

If you feel the need to cheat, then you DONT belong in your current relationship.

You can't blame a 'bad spouse' on why you cheated.

You can blame them for the URGE to cheat, sure, but then you get your a$$ out of the relationship.

Being that I WAS the person that emotionally cheated on my ex, I'm not talking out of my behind here.

I should have gotten out of the relationship.

And I sort of did, but, lots of really complicated ####### there, not going to get into.

I think you get the impression I condone cheating, I don't. I'm just aware its pretty darn common. When I said a marriage made in he11, that's in terms of being made in he11 for both parties. Its not that common where its he11 for one and not the other. I guess you didn't go to the link I included, which shows women cheat as often as men. And yes married women and men cheat with married women and men as well as single women and men. Both men and women cheat at the same rates, their reason for cheating might differ, but both sexes cheat and at pretty high rates to. I'm getting the impression by your comments that you think women rarely cheat, so its time to bash the man in general whenever the subject of cheating comes up. Probably not the case, but since you had a husband that cheated, you're probably a bit sensitive to the topic.

[The Mean Lady 604]

I think you get the impression I condone cheating, I don't. I'm just aware its pretty darn common. When I said a marriage made in he11, that's in terms of being made in he11 for both parties. Its not that common where its he11 for one and not the other. I guess you didn't go to the link I included, which shows women cheat as often as men. And yes married women and men cheat with married women and men as well as single women and men. Both men and women cheat at the same rates, their reason for cheating might differ, but both sexes cheat and at pretty high rates to. I'm getting the impression by your comments that you think women rarely cheat, so its time to bash the man in general whenever the subject of cheating comes up. Probably not the case, but since you had a husband that cheated, you're probably a bit sensitive to the topic.

hell.

Also, I never said I had a husband that cheated..................

[Caryh 5,206]

i guess that means you don't play castle age or mafia wars.

I was hooked on games on facebook for a while. Then they got more and more where you needed to play multiple times per day, and required you to constantly annoy your friends with posts. I just decided I don't have time for this and returned to my old computer games. I pick up and play an occasional game on my phone, mainly because the wife puts me on to it, but it rarely lasts that long and I'm bored with it.

[JTB11 1,079]

It hurts my feelings.

I tell him, if you feel the need to make more than (1) joke about it, then deep down, you're serious.

omg i missed this part of your post and that is exactly my point. One time even two times, I understand but if its 4th or 5th...you mean it so man up and at least tell me don't beat around the bushes, if you must complain.

[The Mean Lady 604]

omg i missed this part of your post and that is exactly my point. One time even two times, I understand but if its 4th or 5th...you mean it so man up and at least tell me don't beat around the bushes, if you must complain.

Exactly.

My husband will keep saying 'i'm just joking!!!!' but i'm like NO! You KEEP saying it so you OBVIOUSLY mean it deep down.

I can't remember what it was he was saying to me recently or I'd give it as an example.

I'm not afraid to admit I'm a woman and my feelings are hurt when you make the same joke over and over.

[The Mean Lady 604]

My friend's divorce is a hot topic on facebook.

Every time I go, there's a new comment (so of course I have an alert since I commented myself).

Every time I read another comment I get angry all over again.

I want to punch this kid in the face.

I hope I never have to see him again.

I mean it's not even that he just CHEATED on her.

He had an all out lengthy AFFAIR.

WHAT. THE. HELL.

[oohpartiv 484]

RANT: I know that interviews being scheduled depends on how busy the respective embassy/consulate is, but DAMN, I get so jealous every time I see someone who's case got completed after mine getting an interview date!

[N-o-l-a 7,167]

RANT: I know that interviews being scheduled depends on how busy the respective embassy/consulate is, but DAMN, I get so jealous every time I see someone who's case got completed after mine getting an interview date!

It'll come soon. What is the average wait time on an interview there?

*hides case complete of a day earlier*

[oohpartiv 484]

It'll come soon. What is the average wait time on an interview there?

*hides case complete of a day earlier*

I'm not really sure - there are only a handful of other Ecuadorian IR-1/CR-1 cases on VJ, and most have either incomplete timelines or are seriously outdated (from '08 - '10). The only recent one there is had about a month and a half between case complete and interview, which makes me think they probably scheduled the interview two weeks or so after case complete, giving them a month to prepare? This is me guessing. I'm just going stir crazy.

And what makes it worse is that I just sat on hold on Skype for 25 mins waiting for someone at NVC to pick up, and when they finally did my stupid internet connection failed and dropped the call. Sitting on hold AGAIN...

[JensJrny2Ray 367]

Nah. no games.

I just remembered my husband was giving me a back massage in the middle of the night.

I don't know if this was his way of saying 'sorry' for pissing me off earlier,

or trying to get sex

Both.

[Operator 1,927]

I cant stand being sick!

If you lay out of work people think you are on vacation.

If you come to work people bltch because they think you're going to infect them.

Maybe it's not being sick that's the problem...it's people!

I can't stand people!

[JensJrny2Ray 367]

I cant stand being sick!

If you lay out of work people think you are on vacation.

If you come to work people bltch because they think you're going to infect them.

Maybe it's not being sick that's the problem...it's people!

I can't stand people!

You know, sometimes it's nice just having a sick day. You don't have to do anything because you're sick! I have an excuse for staying at home watching marathons of Duck Dynasty or Say Yes to the Dress. I'm sick!