So many Philipinos

[Alex+R 0]

Seriously, if you think that one picture of my fiance wearing shorts and smiling on a webcam is provocative, you really need to search the net a bit. HEAVEN FORBID YOU LOOK AT A SPORTS ILLUSTRATED SWIMSUIT ISSUE! OMGZORZ...THE EVIL PR0n

You think of your fiance as being in the same category as women who pose for stuff like that? You WANT other men to look at her like that? I think that's why people are confused. I wouldn't want a photo of someone I love to be covered in man-juice. Just sayin'.

[sarah and hicham 3]

Why should someone apologize to you? We were genuinely worried that your fiancee didn't know you posted those and they might be seen as provocative to some people on VJ. Also like William said you don't know who's looking at them. You came back with insults when no one insulted you. Relax a little we were just reminding you that everyone can see them. Why are you so defensive?

Thanks for being so interested in my life and well being but I really don't care.

If you don't care then don't be so defensive about it. You can't insult people and get your panties in a bunch then say you don't care. Well, you already did do that so who knows.

I was getting defensive because I have three females commenting about my fiance's pics and making comments towards my business when they don't even know me. That's like me making comments about your fiance or you for no reason. I'm sure you would get defensive.

I don't post pictures of him showing his cleavage, sowy.

[KiKi 0]

There is absolutely NOTHING worng with looking at Sports Illustrated or MORE whatever floats your boat, but this is a public forum...it's the VENUE not the content...

anyhow......

I said the men wouldn't complain, I said she was a pretty girl/woman....just thought it was a bit much. But whatever....you have something to prove obviously.

[mrc 0]

"Fat chicks"? "FAT CHICKS"?

Whoa there now. What, if we think you're gross, we must be fat? Do explain.

Translation (on behalf of MRC):

Only women are offended by it (not a single man so far) =>

they would never post their own pictures online =>

they are either ugly or fat.

Ah, I see. I would post topless photos on VJ--even add them to my signature--if it weren't for me being ugly and fat. It has nothing to do with dignity or respect...

God, topless photos are one thing...I fail to see anything wrong with that one pic in my signature.

[Jenn! 918]

Edited November 12, 2006 by jenn3539

[I'm Gone 60]

I don't see Filipina women as subservient . And I really don't like that term. I would say non-confrontational is a much better description. As a whole both men and women in the Philippines are non-confrontational, it's just part of their culture. If they are unhappy with you they will certainly let you know, but they will do it quietly and not make a scene. A filipina would never get in to an argument with her husband in public even if you were being a total ###.

At home it's OK that the wife will go along with things to avoid an argument, but it also mean whenever something gets delivered to the house or a repairman comes I have to be there, because she would never open her mouth to complain about something that's not right to a stranger.

Wife cooks dinner about every week night and keeps the house spotless, but don't sit something down and turn your back, because it won't be there It will be, washed, folded, hung up or moved in someway. Wife folds my t-shirts and acts pissed if I don't take the one off the top or mess up the drawer in anyway. Still all in all in think I made a good choice.

[sarah and hicham 3]

Does the other girl in the picture on the top right know she's on VJ?

Edited November 12, 2006 by sarah and hicham

[mawilson 2,133]

I wouldn't want a photo of someone I love to be covered in man-juice.

That's because you're not a man - and they don't do that with "woman-juice"

[Oliver and Lisa 0]

I don't see Filipina women as subservient . And I really don't like that term. I would say non-confrontational is a much better description. As a whole both men and women in the Philippines are non-confrontational, it's just part of their culture. If they are unhappy with you they will certainly let you know, but they will do it quietly and not make a scene. A filipina would never get in to an argument with her husband in public even if you were being a total ###. But, when you get home it will be clear she is pissed at you. Then you have to brace for tampo. I don't get it very often, but every once in awhile I'm an ####### and I get the 8,000 mile version of tampo over the webcam.

I would like to add comment about tampo issue i can realte with this,i think me and my fiance always deal with it...i didn't say much if im having a bad day with him but he can tell it if he saw my lips is more pointed than to my nose at first he don't understand what tampo means, but now he oftentimes have tampo than I ,but definitely he can't do what i can do because obsiously he has a very pointed nose

[mrc 0]

There is absolutely NOTHING worng with looking at Sports Illustrated or MORE whatever floats your boat, but this is a public forum...it's the VENUE not the content...

anyhow......

I said the men wouldn't complain, I said she was a pretty girl/woman....just thought it was a bit much. But whatever....you have something to prove obviously.

I have nothing to prove...merely have pictures of my fiance, the woman I love. I thought they were all cute pictures. Nothing more.

Again, how I became the focus of this thread is unbeknownst to me. If you really were interested in my fiance's "well being" then shoot me a private message about it, don't throw out comments and attack my integrity or disrespect my fiance and say things like "you are sorry for my fiance for having to marry me"...that's just plain wrong and totally disrespectful. I really think you guys need to take a look back at your comments in this thread. And you wonder why I get defensive.

Does the other girl in the picture on the top right know she's on VJ?

Shut up already. Does your husband know you're nosey? You really don't know when to let it go.

[sarah and hicham 3]

hahahahaha you shut up!

[one...two...tree 2,762]

I wouldn't want a photo of someone I love to be covered in man-juice.

That's because you're not a man - and they don't do that with "woman-juice"

This thread has officially gone south.

p.s. ...and that's no ordinary carrot.

Edited November 12, 2006 by Steven_and_Jinky