Removing of Condition while separated

[Marleny 1]

First of all..I did not remember my username for the topic that I made couple months ago asking for help..anyway I will write a shortly review for anyone here that is going through the same situation that I was...I just want to say that keep faith that everything will happen for a good reason ..approvals or denials.

I got married in 2019 after 8 years of relationship..when I moved with my husband at the end of 2010 after my conditional green card was granted everything went down the hill. so I just live with him for 4 month..after that I return to my country with my family. I return couple of times because I was trying to forgive my husband for all that he did..but I never move back again with him.. I stayed in another city with an aunt..

my husband asked me to move back with him but first he need it to let his " ex " wife to live with him for a couple of month until she find a place to stay..that's when I decided I will never go back again with him...I asked for divorce and He said no, then my open window for removing of conditions comes.. it looks like he felt responsible for his behavior so he say that he will find the jointly petition...

in the month that I live with him he never add me to one the bills of the house all of them had the name of his " ex" wife...no insurance..anything...we only open a bank account..

so at the time of putting everything together I feel my case was really weak.

this is all i put in my packet:

the jointly form and the check

copy of my ID

3 letter from friend and coworkers of my husband

pictures..mostly old pictures

a copy of a sonogram of my pregnancy ( which I lost the baby when I was 4 months pregnant)

couple of bank statement

and that's it

I dont know if they look through the first I130 package that normally we sent when we first applied for the conditional green card ( because that one was way much better prepared ) but I dont know they approved it..

they approved my removing of conditions ...no RFE, nothing...I received the mail today that they mailed my card ...

I believe in God, a lot...and I know I left a lot of things to be with my husband and he failed me..and it was not my fault...

dont stay in a relationship only for a green card...don't get complicated sending millions of papers but little or much that you send, send it pretty organized..I make sure to make my packet look nice, clean and neat ....send only what you have and pray for what's better for you...

hope my story brings hope for some of you that are in the same situation

PD. I already filed for divorce..

[Marleny 1]

2009* NOT 2019 LOL

[TimeTravel 78]

Why didnt you file for divorce before ROC? I understand you asked him for divorce, he said No, then you guys filed jointly for ROC even you guys knew you guys are not together, and hardly spent any time in those 2 yrs. This may bite you later at citizenship interview.

[Marleny 1]

When I decided to finally finish my marriage it was already past the time of the removing condition...you just don't get unattached of someone that you spend 8 years together so easily ..the last thing that I was thinking was about the green card...citizenship is nothing that has to do with this as I don't plan to apply while married..I will wait the 5 years a "legal" resident..Anyway I just shared my story..