Expedite K-1 Visa based on severe stress\depression

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

My fiancee has been showing signs of stress and depression. She hasn't seen a doctor yet but I will convince her to go soon. I was just wondering if it is possible to expedite the visa process if the doctor discovers she is becoming depressed. I believe she is dealing with a lot of stress because of all her responsibilities at home and the poor conditions that she lives in. I believe because of this stress she could be developing depression. If that is the case I foresee extreme hardships on our relationship. I support her financially but if she develops a mental illness such a depression I think it would be hard to pay for those medical costs. But if she was here it would be much easier for me to care for her. I have medical insurance and when we are married it can cover her as well. So I was just wondering what is required to expedite the visa process?

If it matters, I'm from the USA and she is from the Philippines.

Thank you

NO. You can, of course, request an expedite for any reason. It will be denied.

Any medically diagnosed mental problems in an intending immigrant will usually result in her being not admitted until a doctor determines her mental issues are stable and there may even be further treatment required as a condition of visa issuance.

Tell her to "buck up", it will happen soon enough. Also remind her, the visa is the easy part.

[QueenOfBlades 224]

Can I just clarify with regard to the other posts here - so if the USC was suffering from stress and depression missing their partner, it'd be considered, but not if it were the beneficiary?

[Penny Lane 8,159]

Can I just clarify with regard to the other posts here - so if the USC was suffering from stress and depression missing their partner, it'd be considered, but not if it were the beneficiary?

No. Stress and depression isn't a valid reason for expedite no matter who suffers from it. But in general, it seems that expedites get granted more often when the USC has the issue. But again, this isn't an issue that would qualify either way.

[QueenOfBlades 224]

Thanks for clarifying. Understandable. They'd get a lot otherwise. The process is very stressful for anyone and people are bound to get depressed at some point, but we just have to get through it. Worth it in the end.

[san diego 407]

Request to expedite will be denied and only will cause them to be more rigorous during medical exam. I wouldn't do it. I would say everyone going through this process is depressed at some point. They can't grant expedite to everyone based on these grounds.

[N-o-l-a 7,167]

No. Stress and depression isn't a valid reason for expedite no matter who suffers from it. But in general, it seems that expedites get granted more often when the USC has the issue. But again, this isn't an issue that would qualify either way.

I wouldn't say that. Stress and depression if at clinical levels are a medical issue and are a valid reason, in my opinion. Yes, normal people can get a little stressed and a little depressed and that is healthy. However, if you get a case like mine where I haven't been out of my apartment in over a week, I can't make phone calls, and my USC daughter is locked in the house with me day after day - I'd call that a medical emergency. It effects both of us very deeply. I haven't been out of bed yet today save to walk to the kitchen and go pee. Imagine how that is affecting the 4 year old in my house who can't go to school here.

IMO, it is a valid reason.

[LSnBigBear 61]

I would stay away from this topic or even submitting with a 10 foot pole or longer. One does not want to place any negative health related concerns as others mentioned in her permanent file. I lived in the Philippines and understand some of the living conditions. Keep in mind chances are the process being expedited will not help her emotions IMO. Her living conditions I am assuming are the same as when she met you so this should not be an issue unless there is some sort of abuse there.

I suggest some sort of help for her there to deal with her emotions as possibly she will bring those same emotions to you which is okay if you are able to work through it. Keep in mind the separation anxiety she will have from her family when she arrives will be emotional as well.

Find on line hobbies for you and her. My fiancee and I watched Grumpy Old Men last night as I just turn my lap top to my tv and we watch together. There are many ways to make this process more enjoyable.

Good luck to you. Tough position you are in.

Request to expedite will be denied and only will cause them to be more rigorous during medical exam. I wouldn't do it. I would say everyone going through this process is depressed at some point. They can't grant expedite to everyone based on these grounds.

[Krikit 1,164]

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[CanadiaGirl 10]

I'm not up to snuff on these 'requests' as I never filed one. So take my impression of all of this with a grain of salt.

It's a fact that many of us experienced/ are experiencing some form of stress and depression. For many of us that comes from us having to be away from the person we love for so long. The longing to be with them can get to many and make them feel hopeless/ helpless. In truth we are rather helpless in speeding the process along. I think given the nature of the visa process many looking at our cases will already understand this fact. So with that I don't now how in my personal opinion an expidte could be grated based off of something that a ton of filers go through. If you did get approved in my mind I'd be a bit miffed because from my standpoint what makes her depression more then what I experienced when I had to wait to be with my husband? It will bring many questions from even those petitioning why something like that would be approved when it's logical that almost everyone in some way suffers from the stress and depression of this journey to be with those we love. I guess for me I don't have as much sympathy (I do but not to have someone get privileges such as an expedite) because many if not most have felt this way at one point or another.

If her situation has been that way for a long time then I know this will sound bad but she needs to pull it together. One quote that got me through all of it was. This is a year for the rest of my life. Meaning when you compare being apart one year in order to be together for a life time, it makes it worth it. If this is a new occurrence of her living conditions I still don't know what can be done or how you could get approved for an expedite (again my knowledge on it is slim to none so I can't speak to that)

Try also to see if you can do video chats, and if your into games try to find an online game that both of you can participate in to feel that 'togetherness'. Things that will make her feel like while you're miles away you're still able to enjoy each others company to different extents.

If there's any way for you to go see your SO then perhaps that can help with the depression. I know it's hard, and funds aren't always available, but perhaps it will help to see you?

The journey sucks but the 'beginning' of your life together will be all worth it when you look back on it. Have her try to keep herself busy with little projects, going out with friends, something she can work on for when you get to finally be together. Best of luck but just from an outsider perspective I don't see how it could be accepted on the grounds your proposing, but then again you never know.

I'd also heed the advice of those who are mentioning how this will be viewed by those viewing your case. If your SO seems mentally unstable, how would that reflect on your case? Could it be more of a hindrance and cause you more pain = more waiting, or will it truly help expedite the process? This is something you should research first before proceeding further.

I'm not familiar with the K1 process. Can someone tell me how long it typically takes (now) to have a case approved completely?

Edited February 7, 2013 by CanadiaGirl

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