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Hello. Some background, I am American living and working in China. I desire to marry my chinese girlfriend preferably this year 2013. We are planning on staying in China for three years after we are married. She has a great job working for the canadian trade office here, which is a great job for a Chinese national. I am teaching in China and will continue to do so as she works here. But eventually after kids will want to move to the states. So what is the quickest and easiest method to get a marriage that is recognized in the states? She does not really want to marry in China because she is divorced and her hakou is still with her ex. The hakou is her residence permit. It would be akward to marry me in China but her residence is still with her ex. We have talked about trying to get married in Thailand. But I do not know if that will lead to more suspicion once we get ready to move to the states in several years. Will she receive a green card if she marries me in China or Thailand. If we get married in America is the K 1 visa or the spousal visa easier? Help us please as we have been together for over half a year and are in love and wanting to get married and start a family and future of our own!!

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Australia
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Hello. Some background, I am American living and working in China. I desire to marry my chinese girlfriend preferably this year 2013. We are planning on staying in China for three years after we are married. She has a great job working for the canadian trade office here, which is a great job for a Chinese national. I am teaching in China and will continue to do so as she works here. But eventually after kids will want to move to the states. So what is the quickest and easiest method to get a marriage that is recognized in the states? She does not really want to marry in China because she is divorced and her hakou is still with her ex. The hakou is her residence permit. It would be akward to marry me in China but her residence is still with her ex. We have talked about trying to get married in Thailand. But I do not know if that will lead to more suspicion once we get ready to move to the states in several years. 1) Will she receive a green card if she marries me in China or Thailand. 2) If we get married in America is the K 1 visa or the spousal visa easier? Help us please as we have been together for over half a year and are in love and wanting to get married and start a family and future of our own!!

Firstly, as you do not plan to immigrate for some time, these are things you won't need to worry about until around a year before you are looking to move, if you applied now any visa you had would expire or become voided before you relocated.

1) It does not matter where you get married, a destination wedding is fine.

2) Once married you cannot apply for a fiance(e) (k-1) visa only the CR-1/IR-1 spousal visa. The k-1 visa can only be used by 2 people who are unmarried , the beneficiary (your fiancee) would get her visa and then come to the US and marry you (witin 90 days of her USA entry date), then apply for AOS (adjustment of status) to a legal permanent resident. If you file the CR-1/IR-1 visa depending on the length of your marriage once your wife enters the USA she will receive either a 2 year conditional greencard or a 10 year greencard.

You will want to check if direct consular filing is available at your consulate also, that generally speeds up the process when you are ready to proceed.

We became a couple : 2011-05-29
I visited him : 2011-10-28 - 2011-11-17
He visited me (and my crazy family) : 2012-02-05 - 2012-02-17
I-129F Sent : 2012-02-05
I-129F NOA1 : 2012-02-14
I entered on VWP to stay 3 months: 2012-04-11 - 2012-07-03
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Went to get my medical done for interview in Australia (much cheaper in the US and I was already here):2012-05-20
Medical issue diagnosed
K-1 petition cancellation request sent to CSC : 2012-06-01
Married: 2012-06-21
Filed for AOS : 2012-08-08
NOA1 : 2012-08-10
Biometrics : 2012-09-14
EAD approved : 2012-10-16
Applied for SSN : 2012-11-01
Received SSN : 2012-11-13
Received interview notice :2012-12-27
Interview- APPROVED :2013-01-28
Green card received :2013-02-04
Baby girl born :2013-03-09

Filed for ROC :2014-12-05
NOA :2014-12-11
Biometrics : 2015-01-15

ROC Approval : 2015-05-14

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Australia
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Can she get k 1 visa and marry me in the us and then the two of us return to the us to work?

She would get a K-1, come to the US, marry you within 90 days and then adjust status to an LPR (legal permanent resident) and then can start working, she can also apply for a work permit while waiting for her adjustment to go through but that generally takes about a month and the adjustment generally takes 1-3 so most people wait.

If you plan to marry in Thailand you would have to check their requirements, I have no idea about a hakou or what that entails.

We became a couple : 2011-05-29
I visited him : 2011-10-28 - 2011-11-17
He visited me (and my crazy family) : 2012-02-05 - 2012-02-17
I-129F Sent : 2012-02-05
I-129F NOA1 : 2012-02-14
I entered on VWP to stay 3 months: 2012-04-11 - 2012-07-03
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Went to get my medical done for interview in Australia (much cheaper in the US and I was already here):2012-05-20
Medical issue diagnosed
K-1 petition cancellation request sent to CSC : 2012-06-01
Married: 2012-06-21
Filed for AOS : 2012-08-08
NOA1 : 2012-08-10
Biometrics : 2012-09-14
EAD approved : 2012-10-16
Applied for SSN : 2012-11-01
Received SSN : 2012-11-13
Received interview notice :2012-12-27
Interview- APPROVED :2013-01-28
Green card received :2013-02-04
Baby girl born :2013-03-09

Filed for ROC :2014-12-05
NOA :2014-12-11
Biometrics : 2015-01-15

ROC Approval : 2015-05-14

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Ecuador
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*** Thread moved from K-1 Process forum to General Immigration Discussion -- OP is weighing a visa path + options. ***

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Australia
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Also K-3, right?

No K-3 is an obsolete visa.

We became a couple : 2011-05-29
I visited him : 2011-10-28 - 2011-11-17
He visited me (and my crazy family) : 2012-02-05 - 2012-02-17
I-129F Sent : 2012-02-05
I-129F NOA1 : 2012-02-14
I entered on VWP to stay 3 months: 2012-04-11 - 2012-07-03
---
Went to get my medical done for interview in Australia (much cheaper in the US and I was already here):2012-05-20
Medical issue diagnosed
K-1 petition cancellation request sent to CSC : 2012-06-01
Married: 2012-06-21
Filed for AOS : 2012-08-08
NOA1 : 2012-08-10
Biometrics : 2012-09-14
EAD approved : 2012-10-16
Applied for SSN : 2012-11-01
Received SSN : 2012-11-13
Received interview notice :2012-12-27
Interview- APPROVED :2013-01-28
Green card received :2013-02-04
Baby girl born :2013-03-09

Filed for ROC :2014-12-05
NOA :2014-12-11
Biometrics : 2015-01-15

ROC Approval : 2015-05-14

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Australia
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I wonder what is the cheapest, fastest, and easiest method given there is flexibility on whatever the circumstances.

They don't need a "quick option" as they plan to move years down the line. I personally would marry and then pursue the cr-1 or ir-1 :)

We became a couple : 2011-05-29
I visited him : 2011-10-28 - 2011-11-17
He visited me (and my crazy family) : 2012-02-05 - 2012-02-17
I-129F Sent : 2012-02-05
I-129F NOA1 : 2012-02-14
I entered on VWP to stay 3 months: 2012-04-11 - 2012-07-03
---
Went to get my medical done for interview in Australia (much cheaper in the US and I was already here):2012-05-20
Medical issue diagnosed
K-1 petition cancellation request sent to CSC : 2012-06-01
Married: 2012-06-21
Filed for AOS : 2012-08-08
NOA1 : 2012-08-10
Biometrics : 2012-09-14
EAD approved : 2012-10-16
Applied for SSN : 2012-11-01
Received SSN : 2012-11-13
Received interview notice :2012-12-27
Interview- APPROVED :2013-01-28
Green card received :2013-02-04
Baby girl born :2013-03-09

Filed for ROC :2014-12-05
NOA :2014-12-11
Biometrics : 2015-01-15

ROC Approval : 2015-05-14

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: China
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changing hukuo is actually easy.

how to do?

get the divorce document in hand, go to family registry office, get a new hukuo book.

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