i need answer for my question please

[Sarah Elle-Même 660]

NVC folk don't care - it's the IV Unit that cares. The IV Unit adjudicates yer visa petition.

So when they see the prior 2 attempts and no explanation given with the casefile, they are going to dig deep, find all about you. It appears you have been 'visa-shopping', in their eyes.

'Calling NVC' is useless, they don't care about extra documents sent in to their office during NVC doc intake. YOU should care, however, as you have one chance to get some written stuff in your casefile. The Vice Consuls will read this extra written stuff that you've submitted, and maybe, just maybe, that one big letter of attestation that you submitted with NVC will trump the visual that you've been visa shopping. Maybe.

That's the best hope you have, for now.

It's ok to talk with NVC and any other federal agency - they won't have the answer for you, that I've just given you. Is impossible to talk with the Vice Consuls, prior, so do what you want, plan as you might, aye?

Tebessa - you need to copy & paste Darnell's post into a word document and email it to your wife. Or send her the link to this thread (though I imagine you won't want her to read ALL of our responses). Your English is terribly lacking and you are missing out on very good advice if you don't share this information with her. Unless of course her English is as poor as yours which I doubt but one never knows. In my opinion, if it's allowed she should attend the interview or at least show up at the Embassy with you. It can only help a case like yours.

You need to offer up a very strong explanation for your past attempts to obtain a visa and produce as much evidence of a bonafide marriage to your wife as possible. You need your wife's assistance on this and to listen to the advice given here.

Edited February 5, 2013 by Sarah and Adnan

[kristen_maroc 126]

Hi.

It is likely (probable/possible) that you may not get your visa because:

- You have sent other petitions to come to the US and dated other Americans before. Sometimes, the US government sees this as a problem and thinks that you are committing fraud: pretending to be in love with someone to get a visa.

(Just because I say this does not mean that I believe you are not in love. It's just common that the government will see it this way).

- Your written English is not great. I do not say this to be mean or rude. It can cause a problem because the government may wonder how you are able to talk about important things with your wife. If you talk online a lot, for example, how do you talk about things like money, religion, politics, or what you want in life that is complicated if she doesn't speak Arabic/Kabayle/French and your English is not great?

- Your age difference. This is maybe not a problem for everyone, but because you have other "red flags" (red flag = things that make the government question your goal), it is more likely that this may be a problem for you.

Advice:

- Please have your wife come here to talk to us. Some of this is complicated even for Americans to understand in English! It will be easier to talk to someone who speaks English as a first or fluent language.

Good luck.

[nurse1967 287]

Pleaseeee people...who are we kidding? Even the scammiest scammers make it here eventually if their SO is persisent enough.

[SarAyouBliss 38]

Sounds good.

Do you and your wife share another language besides English? For example, emoticonese.

omg im laughing hard, sorry , gd luck to everyone

[tebessa16 3]

Jeg taler fransk tysk arabisk og dit sprog

[LaL 418]

Dude, your going to give yourself an aneurysm! Chill the eff out!

[tebessa16 3]

så fortvivl ikke jeg nogensinde kan lære dig så godt velkommen

[N-o-l-a 7,167]

så fortvivl ikke jeg nogensinde kan lære dig så godt velkommen

Virkelig?

Lay off the google translate. Danish is my third best language and even I could see that.

[Darnell 8,478]

hey - look above - there's a little icon resembling a piece of postal mail.

That's the EMAIL link.

CLICK it.

put in yer wife's email address, and send it off.

Good Luck to you !

[N-o-l-a 7,167]

Rofl! It's like he finally woke up and now he's PISSED!

Well at least he didn't say "engelsk". I'd like to see a demonstration of the "tysk" (German) though.

I think the question still remains about what language he speaks to his spouse in. I don't want to jump on you OP, but people here do want to help you.

[Krikit 1,164]

Jeg taler fransk tysk arabisk og dit sprog

This is going to be your one and only freebie. Some of your posts have been removed for personal attacks and other Terms of Service violations. Any further such violations will earn you a suspension and a thread ban.

Any further posts not pertaining to the topic at hand will be removed and may also result in a thread ban. Thank you for your cooperation.

Please let me know if I have missed any posts which should be removed. Thank you.

[Krikit 1,164]

Hello Please i do have Question and i hope ill find a good answer to my situation in 2008 i was married and my wife she is american from Texas and she did filed for me I_130 and after that she passt way in jun 2009 i got approved but i cancel it anyway this is life i did try to move on after while and also i meet my ex girl friend she was from usa and she filed for me an application I129f but also i cancel it because we didnt get along this is was in 2010 here it gose my question i'm married againe my wife she is pregannt and she send our application I130 it has been over 90 days now at nbc so when i have my interview date is that gona be any problem like denied my visa cuse i was married before to american thank you

One additional thing. Please correct your country flag and visa type. Responses to questions are country and visa specific. Thank you.

[bt1 42]

I truly have a problem with this members (tebessa16) attitude: yesterday, he stated he is from Algeria seeking a K1 visa: today he is from Belarus with F1 visa. People have taken their precious time to answer his questions, then he makes a mockery out of it! Please don't use this site for your entertainment!!

[BeauteDLaVie 3]

hello! This same person posted a few months ago with the same problem...so many people tried to help & explain to him but he just was not understanding or he was not paying attention and would repeat himself. I felt so sorry for him that I tried to communicate with him with as much French as I knew but he still was not understanding. Now, I see he has come again asking the same question...seems a little frustrating. Hopefully, someone could get him settled down so that he can finally get it!

[Sarah Elle-Même 660]

hello! This same person posted a few months ago with the same problem...so many people tried to help & explain to him but he just was not understanding or he was not paying attention and would repeat himself. I felt so sorry for him that I tried to communicate with him with as much French as I knew but he still was not understanding. Now, I see he has come again asking the same question...seems a little frustrating. Hopefully, someone could get him settled down so that he can finally get it!

That was nice of you to try so hard to help this guy. His story seemed a bit sketchy to me but I'm not a sunshine, roses, and optimism sort of person. Then again, the fact that he wouldn't take anyone's advice spoke volumes about his intentions. He made his bed, time to lie down in it.

Edited February 25, 2013 by Sarah and Adnan