Jaded I-130 Waiters

[Novembro 1,763]

Why was it denied?

It was my fault. I forgot to include some information (ie: G-325a). Instead of sending an RFE, they flat-out denied it. I think it's partly because I got my senator involved. I can see some pudgy adjudicator getting the call and being like "welp that was annoying...DENIED".

However, when I made the thread about it on here, some VJ members went to great lengths to make sure I knew that it was my #### up and I shouldn't be upset. Come on guys, I just wanted some hugs and they gave me daggers. Whatever though, we spent ten months apart last year. What's a few more to slowly strain our relationship?!

[N-o-l-a 7,167]

It was my fault. I forgot to include some information (ie: G-325a). Instead of sending an RFE, they flat-out denied it. I think it's partly because I got my senator involved. I can see some pudgy adjudicator getting the call and being like "welp that was annoying...DENIED".

However, when I made the thread about it on here, some VJ members went to great lengths to make sure I knew that it was my #### up and I shouldn't be upset. Come on guys, I just wanted some hugs and they gave me daggers. Whatever though, we spent ten months apart last year. What's a few more to slowly strain our relationship?!

Was it the thread that a long time poster here said it was more forgiveable for a spouse to cheat than forget the G-325a?

I seriously facepalmed on that one. People are human and make mistakes.

I happen to wonder how people correctly assemble the package without VJ, it is really hard and not easily outlined by USCIS. I'm still not sure I understand what to include in the DS230 package even after reading the guides and posts on it.

[Novembro 1,763]

Was it the thread that a long time poster here said it was more forgiveable for a spouse to cheat than forget the G-325a?

I seriously facepalmed on that one. People are human and make mistakes.

I happen to wonder how people correctly assemble the package without VJ, it is really hard and not easily outlined by USCIS. I'm still not sure I understand what to include in the DS230 package even after reading the guides and posts on it.

I would have been in a murderous rage if someone said that to me!

I'm definitely thankful for VJ and the guides/wikis and some of the friendships I've made, but some of the members here are less than pleasant.

[jackie n alex 6]

We are also waiting it's being 5 MONTHS AND 5 DAYS!! Our case is sitting at the Chicago local office! This is very frustrating, USCIS is def not doing their job the way they should!! We try to get answers and no one knows nothing!! GRRRRR.

[myimmhelp 1]

As a spin off from the other thread...I thought we could talk about, well, being jaded and how frustrating this random processing times are rather than grumble in the other threads.

:thumbs:

Today is 88 days for us, what is it for you? How are you coping?

Also, cookies are appreciated.

Applied in Nov 2012

PD : Dec 5 2013

No news .... after that ... waited entire Dec 2012 / Jan 2013 and NOW FEB 2013.......................LETS SEE WHAT HAPPENDS. ..........It sucks checking case on USCIS website.

[Ms Hogan 295]

Yeah! Anger!!! RAWR RAWR RAWR

I'm angry because I could have put my Canadian address and been approved by now.

Everyone's advice was incorrect.

My spouse is in the US. I don't understand why you think it would be different if you had put a Canadian address on. You and I had almost the same timing for submission.

ETA: I have nothing to be angry about as I am one of the "lucky ones" so I'm sorry to hijack the post for a moment, I just know KDH and I were close filers and it seems completely random that we're so far apart in the process.

Edited February 4, 2013 by MsHogan

[Treva 3]

hahaha, that made me laugh. for a moment i had a break from the anguish, thank you, Nola, lol!

i'm approaching SIX MONTHS... and i'm not mentally prepared to last another week or so without an NOA2 i need to know when i'm going to see my husband again.

[The Mean Lady 604]

My spouse is in the US. I don't understand why you think it would be different if you had put a Canadian address on. You and I had almost the same timing for submission.

ETA: I have nothing to be angry about as I am one of the "lucky ones" so I'm sorry to hijack the post for a moment, I just know KDH and I were close filers and it seems completely random that we're so far apart in the process.

auto expedite for living abroad.

[Teague 6]

Today is day 179 for me. You 200+ day waiters are seriously my heroes!

You give me hope when facing USCIS' totally unfair (random?) processing order.

Thank you sure 10 months and 10 days is long wait for me.. 11 month bring it on! lol

[bsd058 296]

Thank you sure 10 months and 10 days is long wait for me.. 11 month bring it on! lol

Don't worry Teague..."Based on timeline data, your I130 may be adjudicated between November 3, 2012 and November 23, 2012."

Edited February 5, 2013 by bsd058

[The Mean Lady 604]

auto expedite for living abroad.

clarification*

for anyone not named NOLA

Don't worry Teague..."Based on timeline data, your I130 may be adjudicated between November 3, 2012 and November 23, 2012."

typo *2013

[bsd058 296]

typo *2013

Or 2014. Whichever suits USCIS's fancy.

[Novembro 1,763]

Thank you sure 10 months and 10 days is long wait for me.. 11 month bring it on! lol

Ughhhhh I'm sorry.

[The Mean Lady 604]

Or 2014. Whichever suits USCIS's fancy.

yes 2014 sounds like a good year for apprvals!

[Teague 6]

OMG what about 2015?

Don't worry Teague..."Based on timeline data, your I130 may be adjudicated between November 3, 2012 and November 23, 2012."