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[JVMilan 0]

I have met the most wonderful and loving girl. I will be going to Cebu 12/20/06 through 1/3/07 to be with her. I will get all docs done then. As I have learned what is needed through my past expirences. So this will be my first time in the Philippines for the xmas season and I will be with a girl that will honnor me while I am there.

I am happy again!

Oh yes the last girl and family is suffering their fate for what they did to me, but I still wish them well and do not hold any anger to them.

Thanks to all of the good and caring people on this board becasue you can and do give support to us who do need it.

Joe

[heishe 2]

So, um, what fate is the last girl "suffering"?

[Kez/JWolf 6]

been shopping have you???

[JVMilan 0]

So, um, what fate is the last girl "suffering"?

I will not go into those issues.

I am only interested in moving forward.

Joe

been shopping have you???

I will be soon and we do have good plans for the time I am there.

Joe

Edited November 8, 2006 by JVMilan

[UmmSqueakster 54]

Can't access these old threads for some reason, and can't refresh my memory

http://www.visajourney.com/forums2/index.p...=80&t=46081

http://www.visajourney.com/forums2/index.p...=80&t=47934

http://www.visajourney.com/forums2/index.p...=80&t=47943

[Marilyn. 340]

Can't access these old threads for some reason, and can't refresh my memory

http://www.visajourney.com/forums2/index.p...=80&t=46081

http://www.visajourney.com/forums2/index.p...=80&t=47934

http://www.visajourney.com/forums2/index.p...=80&t=47943

the old site has been shut down....

[UmmSqueakster 54]

Can't access these old threads for some reason, and can't refresh my memory

http://www.visajourney.com/forums2/index.p...=80&t=46081

http://www.visajourney.com/forums2/index.p...=80&t=47934

http://www.visajourney.com/forums2/index.p...=80&t=47943

the old site has been shut down....

Dang, I missed it. Maybe someone copied the most interesting threads before that happened

[Mags 112]

Oh yes the last girl and family is suffering their fate for what they did to me, but I still wish them well and do not hold any anger to them.

A rather contradictory statement.

So, um, what fate is the last girl "suffering"?

I will not go into those issues.

I am only interested in moving forward.

Joe

Well, you brought those issues to the fore in the first place. Did you really think that no one would mention it?

Edited November 8, 2006 by mags

[diadromous mermaid 36]

I have met the most wonderful and loving girl. I will be going to Cebu 12/20/06 through 1/3/07 to be with her. I will get all docs done then. As I have learned what is needed through my past expirences. So this will be my first time in the Philippines for the xmas season and I will be with a girl that will honnor me while I am there.

I am happy again!

Oh yes the last girl and family is suffering their fate for what they did to me, but I still wish them well and do not hold any anger to them.

Thanks to all of the good and caring people on this board becasue you can and do give support to us who do need it.

Joe

As difficult as it was for you to go through the first process, I believe, as a result, you'll be more equipped to detect possible signs that a relationship is going wrong. Best of luck and here's hoping this time it is all that you dreamed it could be, jvmilan.

Oh yes the last girl and family is suffering their fate for what they did to me, but I still wish them well and do not hold any anger to them.

A rather contradictory statement.

Not contradictory at all. People govern their own fate, and if jvmilan's former fiancé is experiencing difficulties, then that does not necessarily have anything to do with the victim.

Please resist the cynicism.

[felnfrank 1]

oh too bad for her...well i beieve in KARMA :)she must be heading for it...or had already

good luck for ur new journey

[Mags 112]

I have met the most wonderful and loving girl. I will be going to Cebu 12/20/06 through 1/3/07 to be with her. I will get all docs done then. As I have learned what is needed through my past expirences. So this will be my first time in the Philippines for the xmas season and I will be with a girl that will honnor me while I am there.

I am happy again!

Oh yes the last girl and family is suffering their fate for what they did to me, but I still wish them well and do not hold any anger to them.

Thanks to all of the good and caring people on this board becasue you can and do give support to us who do need it.

Joe

As difficult as it was for you to go through the first process, I believe, as a result, you'll be more equipped to detect possible signs that a relationship is going wrong. Best of luck and here's hoping this time it is all that you dreamed it could be, jvmilan.

Oh yes the last girl and family is suffering their fate for what they did to me, but I still wish them well and do not hold any anger to them.

A rather contradictory statement.

Not contradictory at all. People govern their own fate, and if jvmilan's former fiancé is experiencing difficulties, then that does not necessarily have anything to do with the victim.

Please resist the cynicism.

It isn't cynicism, not really, I was remarking on the way he brings up the fact his previous fiancee and her family are suffering, almost revelling in it, and then finished off his statement with the "oh but I wish her well" comment. Seems a bit odd really for someone who is has no residual bitterness.

But, I wish him well for his future endeavors of course. I hope he is very happy.

Edited November 8, 2006 by mags

[Jasman0717 9]

Good luck! Claudeth and I hope this will be good for you both.

[Ken_Maria 0]

I have met the most wonderful and loving girl. I will be going to Cebu 12/20/06 through 1/3/07 to be with her. I will get all docs done then. As I have learned what is needed through my past expirences. So this will be my first time in the Philippines for the xmas season and I will be with a girl that will honnor me while I am there.

I am happy again!

Oh yes the last girl and family is suffering their fate for what they did to me, but I still wish them well and do not hold any anger to them.

Thanks to all of the good and caring people on this board becasue you can and do give support to us who do need it.

Joe

Joe if this is your first time in the Philippines, we shoudl warn you that all government agencies will be closed for the holidays and you will have a hard time getting the documents you require during that stay. Have a good time and enjoy the Philippine culture and food. Good luck, Payato

[diadromous mermaid 36]

I have met the most wonderful and loving girl. I will be going to Cebu 12/20/06 through 1/3/07 to be with her. I will get all docs done then. As I have learned what is needed through my past expirences. So this will be my first time in the Philippines for the xmas season and I will be with a girl that will honnor me while I am there.

I am happy again!

Oh yes the last girl and family is suffering their fate for what they did to me, but I still wish them well and do not hold any anger to them.

Thanks to all of the good and caring people on this board becasue you can and do give support to us who do need it.

Joe

As difficult as it was for you to go through the first process, I believe, as a result, you'll be more equipped to detect possible signs that a relationship is going wrong. Best of luck and here's hoping this time it is all that you dreamed it could be, jvmilan.

Oh yes the last girl and family is suffering their fate for what they did to me, but I still wish them well and do not hold any anger to them.

A rather contradictory statement.

Not contradictory at all. People govern their own fate, and if jvmilan's former fiancé is experiencing difficulties, then that does not necessarily have anything to do with the victim.

Please resist the cynicism.

It isn't cynicism, not really, I was remarking on the way he brings up the fact his previous fiancee and her family are suffering, almost revelling in it, and then finished off his statement with the "oh but I wish her well" comment. Seems a bit odd really for someone who is has no residual bitterness.

But, I wish him well for his future endeavors of course. I hope he is very happy.

I think jvmilan crafted this post in such a way that it was acknowledging that some might recall that he had submitted a K-1 in the past. Therefore, mention of his former fiancée is not at all out of line. Furthermore, while I can't speak specifically for jvmilan, one can wish someone well, and not harbour bitterness. Additionally, after having been used by someone, in my opinion, there's nothing wrong with feeling bitter, either ~ there is something wrong with acting on the bitterness, with revenge as a motivation. In point of fact, I suppose I would like to make the distinction that the two (bitterness and wishing another well) are not necessarily mutually exclusive.

[JVMilan 0]

Joe if this is your first time in the Philippines, we shoudl warn you that all government agencies will be closed for the holidays and you will have a hard time getting the documents you require during that stay. Have a good time and enjoy the Philippine culture and food. Good luck, Payato

I will get the I-129F and the bio, the letter of intent and the proper photos. I will get all of the necessary correspondance and proof of ongoing relationship while I am there.

Joe

Edited November 9, 2006 by JVMilan