whats the deal with refusals if you had nikkah and nor rukhsati and walima?

[Chocohazel 2]

okay so heres the thing.. i got married and had our nikkah since hsi family came from US and UK and hes from different city whereas i live in islamabad .. we had our nikkah and decided to have a big reception in US where most of his family and tons of friends are waiting.. and since my family siblings are there too its not easy to come to pakistan .. leave work and spend so much money just for rukhsati and valime.. but our marriage is in godo faith and wer totally in love lol so whats the deal with this no rukhsati .. and u get a refusal? :| my hubby is a super guy he came for only 10 days since hes a lawyer and bombarded with work and even worked here in pak while visiting for our marriage.. lol

[Mohsin786 23]

to answer your question i have read someone she was a wife of a US citizen she is from Pakistan, what she mentioned her post that when she had interview she told the CO she did her Nikkah and Valima is suppose to held in USA, she got 221G

CO asked her to do Valima and submit more evidence so before you get in to Lengthy AP accumulate more documents to Avoid giving CO a chance to put you in Administrator Processing, which is somehow Mandatory for most of Males in Pakistan. to better be well equipped even if you haven't done your Valima fly to Pak arrange a small valima show picture then subsequently accordingly you may plan your reception in US,

[Peace_Seeker 1]

Well I only say one thing in reply that it totally depends on case to case & CO at the interview window

I saw many ..& many means seriously a lot who have not been asked this Rukhsati & Valima question at all

but to be honest now you have no choice other than to complete all rituals here in Pak

Make him agree on it.. Make him spare some time for you.. without the rituals you are standing no where unfortunately

[Chocohazel 2]

Well I only say one thing in reply that it totally depends on case to case & CO at the interview window

I saw many ..& many means seriously a lot who have not been asked this Rukhsati & Valima question at all

but to be honest now you have no choice other than to complete all rituals here in Pak

Make him agree on it.. Make him spare some time for you.. without the rituals you are standing no where unfortunately

well he is going to be here for my interview btw we had our mehndi and barat etc so not that we didnt have our rukhsati i meant by since he didn live for many days

how can u have a proper rukhsati im here n hes there llol the only thing we hve is reception n thts frm guy side not girls.. all the rituals have been done frm my family side now its his turn n obvious his family dsnt live here they all r in Usa so he wud like to do reception for tons of friends n family he got there

[Chocohazel 2]

well he is going to be here for my interview btw we had our mehndi and barat etc so not that we didnt have our rukhsati i meant by since he didn live for many days

how can u have a proper rukhsati im here n hes there llol the only thing we hve is reception n thts frm guy side not girls.. all the rituals have been done frm my family side now its his turn n obvious his family dsnt live here they all r in Usa so he wud like to do reception for tons of friends n family he got there

and u r soooo right!!!! i have two girls in my own family who had only nikkah first and had rukhsati after visaa and they were not asking ANYTHING got the visa in one go.. n tht just happened recently few mnths ago.. i think CO asks it if he there is a red flag or sth

btw they had a reallly simple nikkahh and mine ws really nice and decent we exchanged rings signed nikkah, and even had cake cuttin ceremony n hold handing n hes takin me out wid him lol in the end

[Ihavequestions 419]

Embassies know all of the the religious and cultural necessities for a couple to be married in any given country.

It's not the embassy's fault you were time-limited to complete everything.

[IT_1 0]

Things need to be in order to get visa, you need to have rukhsati in proper way no just for visa. Remember reading someone post from a girl she had problem as someone said in above reply. Doesn't matter how many days you live together after rukhsati, ou can tell reason to co if you ever asked question about short time. Also remember truth is best always.

[Peace_Seeker 1]

and u r soooo right!!!! i have two girls in my own family who had only nikkah first and had rukhsati after visaa and they were not asking ANYTHING got the visa in one go.. n tht just happened recently few mnths ago.. i think CO asks it if he there is a red flag or sth

btw they had a reallly simple nikkahh and mine ws really nice and decent we exchanged rings signed nikkah, and even had cake cuttin ceremony n hold handing n hes takin me out wid him lol in the end

Rings exchanged..Cake cutting..holding hands taking you out..

well seems natural but yet you can not be sure of what going on in CO's mind

He's accompanying you at interview...well huge bonus i would say..

Wish you all the best

[JBoss 12]

I would absolutely recommend to do a little ruksati over there before showing up on the interview date. I heard someone was put on hold for exactly the same reason. Also my friend told me that it's actually a "requirement" in I-130 to consummate the marriage. I'm in the same boat as you and I'm planning to get this taken care of before my spouse goes for the interview.

[IT_1 0]

I would absolutely recommend to do a little ruksati over there before showing up on the interview date. I heard someone was put on hold for exactly the same reason. Also my friend told me that it's actually a "requirement" in I-130 to consummate the marriage. I'm in the same boat as you and I'm planning to get this taken care of before my spouse goes for the interview.

Guys, so if you didnt have your rukhsati, why you guys field for 130? thats not truth then.. honesty is best always.

[Chocohazel 2]

Guys, so if you didnt have your rukhsati, why you guys field for 130? thats not truth then.. honesty is best always.

What do u mean why u applied lol they had a legal binding a marriage a romantic bonafide relationship and people have situation when they have no residence and cant live for long in pak due to work .. My husband is a lawyer in US and he took hardly 10 days off thanksgiving holidays..and in those 10 days he had to do alot of work of his colleagues he ws working for them in xmas n new yrs holidays lol hes been t he only one in the office alone . N he was still working from pakistan remotely.

[Emran+Farah 4]

For males from Pakistan being the applicant of IR1-CR1 visas, they will ask for Rukhsati and most probably Valima. But for female applicants only Rukhsati is important and since you have done your Baraat has taken place you should be fine. However if the CO specifically asks you if you have completed the rukhsati and you tell him yes and when in reality you haven't; then it would be lying and could be a problem.

[Chocohazel 2]

For males from Pakistan being the applicant of IR1-CR1 visas, they will ask for Rukhsati and most probably Valima. But for female applicants only Rukhsati is important and since you have done your Baraat has taken place you should be fine. However if the CO specifically asks you if you have completed the rukhsati and you tell him yes and when in reality you haven't; then it would be lying and could be a problem.

You are right cus wer gona have only a reception in US and no rukhsati as my family have completed and done all the rituals from our side..

[Cathi 5,748]

What do u mean why u applied lol they had a legal binding a marriage a romantic bonafide relationship and people have situation when they have no residence and cant live for long in pak due to work .. My husband is a lawyer in US and he took hardly 10 days off thanksgiving holidays..and in those 10 days he had to do alot of work of his colleagues he ws working for them in xmas n new yrs holidays lol hes been t he only one in the office alone . N he was still working from pakistan remotely.

the embassy doesn't care about that your husband is a lawyer and didn't have time. They know about what is customary and needed for marriage in Pakistan, not their problem if you didn;t do things the way it was supposed to be done. Lying will only cause problems