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[tenika 0]

I am going to research this on the internet, but I still would like to see if you ladies have any advice.

After being abstinent (Christian & Single) for so long, I have no idea of the newest trends in birth control. I dont want to get pregnant right away even though Rohan doesnt believe in birthcontrol. sooo. I am looking for method of birth control with no hormones in them (like the pill) and not so noticable to the guy. Maybe something I could do before sex. I only got 2 weeks to go so I am bout to do some major research...any suggestions would be appreciated

[Elizabethnhenry 0]

Kim what name are you going to give your new fish? Have you gals ever discussed why they have such werid nicknames for people in JA? I think some off them are so silly. I go for Ray Rey for the name

That's a good topic - what are your man's nicknames in Jamaica?? Tony (aka: Anthony) has at least 3 that I can think of: Dread, Matterhorn, and Franklin Don't ask me how they came up with them. The only one I understand is Dread because he was very bad when he was a kid and always getting in trouble. I guess it's short for dreadful? His parents and certain family members call him Franklin. How the heck did they get that out of the name Anthony?

I think we did this question last year sometime in the old thread...who's man's name was "#######"??

oh man. I was hoping we'd all have amnesia on that one! Was it Dave or Damien?

[phatmadame81 0]

I am going to research this on the internet, but I still would like to see if you ladies have any advice.

After being abstinent (Christian & Single) for so long, I have no idea of the newest trends in birth control. I dont want to get pregnant right away even though Rohan doesnt believe in birthcontrol. sooo. I am looking for method of birth control with no hormones in them (like the pill) and not so noticable to the guy. Maybe something I could do before sex. I only got 2 weeks to go so I am bout to do some major research...any suggestions would be appreciated

The injection is great -you only have to worry about it every 3 months.

If you are interested in the pill there is a new one that only makes you have your cycle 3-4 times a year. I will try and find the name for you.

The patch works but you said you don't want it to be visible.

Barrier Contraceptives

Sponge

Male Condoms Non-Latex Condoms

Female Condoms

FemCap

Lea's Shield

Prentif Cap Ne

Diaphragm

Oves Cervical Cap

then you have teh :

Hormonal Birth Control

Birth Control Pill

Emergency Contraception

Ortho Evra Patch

Depo-Provera Injection

Nuva Ring

Male Pill

Progestin

Implanon Implant

Mirena Intrauterine

Edited May 31, 2006 by desperatewife

[Elizabethnhenry 0]

I am going to research this on the internet, but I still would like to see if you ladies have any advice.

After being abstinent (Christian & Single) for so long, I have no idea of the newest trends in birth control. I dont want to get pregnant right away even though Rohan doesnt believe in birthcontrol. sooo. I am looking for method of birth control with no hormones in them (like the pill) and not so noticable to the guy. Maybe something I could do before sex. I only got 2 weeks to go so I am bout to do some major research...any suggestions would be appreciated

See Mindy's all natural prescription in earlier post.

Sorry - I don't have any helpful answer.

[popcorn1012 0]

EAD APPROVED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Maybe we wont be arguing as much now!

[Elizabethnhenry 0]

EAD APPROVED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

EAD APPROVED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Maybe we wont be arguing as much now!

Congrats!!! Good luck to Richie now that he can begin his search. Yeah it does help the arguing, I think. They are less cranky once they know they can get out there and hustle.

[tenika 0]

The injection is great -you only have to worry about it every 3 months.

If you are interested in the pill there is a new one that only makes you have your cycle 3-4 times a year. I will try and find the name for you.

Thanks for your help. The shot I know is called Depo-Provera, I was on back when I was active, and it made me gain a whole bunch of weight, and it made my cycles completely stop. I enojoyed that part, but got worried after over a year and no cycle. I stoped the injections but did the weight dropp off , i didnt get periods either for a year after I stopped taking it. I am scared of that one, but I will do a seach on the other ones you mentioned. My main concern is that it prevents the sperm from reaching the egg, but not stop a egg already fertilized from implanting itself in the uterus, like many birth control pills, that I beleive is wrong.

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Congratulations on the EAD! wooohooo..I am sure things would be a little less stresssful now.

Tenika

[Shemmy 4]

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[Jonesie 1]

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CONGRATS!!

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[Ms Squitto 0]

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oh my CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! I HOPE IT HELPS HUN

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WELCOME BACK!!! HOW WAS YOUR TRIP?

[Shemmy 4]

Kim what name are you going to give your new fish? Have you gals ever discussed why they have such werid nicknames for people in JA? I think some off them are so silly. I go for Ray Rey for the name

That's a good topic - what are your man's nicknames in Jamaica?? Tony (aka: Anthony) has at least 3 that I can think of: Dread, Matterhorn, and Franklin Don't ask me how they came up with them. The only one I understand is Dread because he was very bad when he was a kid and always getting in trouble. I guess it's short for dreadful? His parents and certain family members call him Franklin. How the heck did they get that out of the name Anthony?

I think we did this question last year sometime in the old thread...who's man's name was "#######"??

oh man. I was hoping we'd all have amnesia on that one! Was it Dave or Damien?

It was Dave

[Minfay 0]

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Welcome home!! We want to hear all about the wonderful time you and the girls had!!!

[brownnskinn 0]

Start walking! You dont have to be a gymrat

eat lots of fruits and veggies and legumes

Stop all caffeine (fine), alcohol (dont do it anyway) and sugar (sweet mother of moses! how? )

You have to learn to know when you ovulate

No cleaning up afterwards - eeew and kind of TMI

Let's see.....notes to self.....

Sit on your butt as much as possible -- NO EXERCISE AT ALL!!

No fruits, veggies or beans - or for that matter, anything that is good for me

Drink lots of Diet Coke, Vodka and don't forget the chocolate. Throw in some Red Bull just for kicks

Learning when I ovulate -- just to make sure I double the above during "that time"

Clean up with bleach, ammonia AND Pine-Sol

....there, now I feel so much better. Thanks Elizabeth!!

Mindy you are craaazzzzzy. Hey good afternoon......where were all when I needed to vent I felt a cold chill when I couldn't get on the site this morning as well. Shamonya's in Ja, I would have noone to talk to eeeeewwwah at not cleaning up afterward

[Shemmy 4]

EAD APPROVED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Congratulations to you and Richie!!!

I'm back

Welcome home!! We want to hear all about the wonderful time you and the girls had!!!

We had a wonderful time. I spent time with Damien's family while he spent time with mine. It felt strange but good because we are both loved by each others family .

We stayed at an inclusive resort so I ate myself to and had a massage on the beach. The kids played until they passed out every night. We managed to get off the resort so they can see JA but it wasn't enough time so we have to plan a non all-inclusive trip next summer.

Thanks for asking.

Edited May 31, 2006 by sjb1221

[brownnskinn 0]

Well, I need to vent about Lake's classes again. His last class in next week before they let out for the summer. The prob is...and I didnt really realize this until I read up on things ...those darn timing tests. Lake is up to the point where he I am SURE he could pass the test...IF he had all the time in the world. When he does the pre tests..he gets 100% correct..UP to the point he finishes....or around 98% at the worst. Problem...he takes TIME...so he only finishes about 30 out of 50 questions.

I am kinda confounded, cuz I KNOW it will take quite a bit of time to build up speed for him, (like 6 months???)and I am also completely aggravated becuz I think if one KNOWS the material and can pass, to he!! with the time thing. In high school we never really had a time test, just had to finish by the end of class kind of thing. So thats my current frustration..and he has such a good job waiting for him if he would get the GED but they arent HOLDING the position, thats only if he gets it while there are still openings.

Sorry to hear that he has a job pending his passing the test. That has to be pressure. This is D's prob as well. He can do if he takes his time. You only have 4 hours to take the GED test here in Mo. So I know this will be an issue for us.I say if he really want it ans you guys can handle him not working. Let him take his time and do it.

No cleaning up afterwards

YUCK!

But not cleaning up...nuh sah mi cyaan hangle dat!

Yuck is right! How will I be able to sleep?? Henry always says to me :where are you going????"

Where do you think I'm going??

I am going to research this on the internet, but I still would like to see if you ladies have any advice.

After being abstinent (Christian & Single) for so long, I have no idea of the newest trends in birth control. I dont want to get pregnant right away even though Rohan doesnt believe in birthcontrol. sooo. I am looking for method of birth control with no hormones in them (like the pill) and not so noticable to the guy. Maybe something I could do before sex. I only got 2 weeks to go so I am bout to do some major research...any suggestions would be appreciated

Abstinence. Most, if not all have some bit of hormone. I am happy with my IUD.Most of the time D cannot fell it. You could try a female condom, but try asking a man to use a condom witem wife. that would not make it

Kim what name are you going to give your new fish? Have you gals ever discussed why they have such werid nicknames for people in JA? I think some off them are so silly. I go for Ray Rey for the name

That's a good topic - what are your man's nicknames in Jamaica?? Tony (aka: Anthony) has at least 3 that I can think of: Dread, Matterhorn, and Franklin Don't ask me how they came up with them. The only one I understand is Dread because he was very bad when he was a kid and always getting in trouble. I guess it's short for dreadful? His parents and certain family members call him Franklin. How the heck did they get that out of the name Anthony?

I think we did this question last year sometime in the old thread...who's man's name was "#######"??

oh man. I was hoping we'd all have amnesia on that one! Was it Dave or Damien?

Not David...should be but nope