Yardies, at home and a farrin'

[tenika 0]

Gotta a question for yall...and maybe ya may need to get your Jamaican man's advice for me on this one....

Here's the deal....Kirk calls me right...so we chatting a likkle bit, just small talk, no "hot topics" right??

So then he starts talking to me about sex. So...its been a while for the girl...so I go along with it.

Anywho...the conversation lasted about and hour about many different things pertaining to sex. (no more details...just use your imagination.) I'm curious...where was he going with this? Why the hour long conversation about sex? And if he's got this new girl why is he still even calling me?

Would you please get your JA man's opinion on where he meet be going with this?

I am pretty sure Rohan would tell me that he is being a genile (Hypocrite) and dont know what he wants, I think he just likes playing the field and was probable seeing where he could go with you.

[Jonesie 1]

Hi Ladies,

Just checking in to say hi. I just now realized I am a VJ junkie. I'm on a mini-getaway here in NYC and I STILL have to find a computer to check emails and VJ. That is str8 CRAZYINESS!!!

(waving) Hey

Henry loves his JA food and is still adjusting to American food. He had pizza for the 1st time some weeks ago. I was shocked!

He is the better cook for everything JA. I am better for US and Guyanese food.

He likes mac and cheese too and he likes vegetable lo mein (But only home made...hates chinese food).

But mostly he sticks to caribbean cooking.

Speaking of which, I am off to the grocery store. We have no food and - heaven forbid - no JUICE in the house. He will perish, so I better git before he gets home from class all thirsty and what.

I'm the better foreign food cook (everything except JA), he's great w/ JA food

He loves mac and cheese too

Girl we down to one gallon left (remember yesterday I told you we had two?)

Gotta a question for yall...and maybe ya may need to get your Jamaican man's advice for me on this one....

Here's the deal....Kirk calls me right...so we chatting a likkle bit, just small talk, no "hot topics" right??

So then he starts talking to me about sex. So...its been a while for the girl...so I go along with it.

Anywho...the conversation lasted about and hour about many different things pertaining to sex. (no more details...just use your imagination.) I'm curious...where was he going with this? Why the hour long conversation about sex? And if he's got this new girl why is he still even calling me?

Would you please get your JA man's opinion on where he meet be going with this?

He tryna reel you back in - and since the whole situation with ol girl hurt your feelings EMOTIONALLY, he wants to remind you of the good times you two had SEXUALLY and see if you give in

My two cents

good morning vj fam. I didn't get a chance to catch up I just wanted to say hello and Happy Friday

I'm off today

Cho!

Have a good weekend sweets

one more thing, our aos case got touched again today

YAY!

WILLIE BOUNCIN

Congrats Rohan on the temp work

[tenika 0]

That's wonderful news Tenika!! Do they need any more people? Squito need a link

Yeah . they need people to fill that job bad, Rohan went in today and filled out the application, and was hired today. Their office is in the Bronx, but the have another affiliate in NYC, Let me know if u wanna call and I will sent u a PM with the info. I hope he likes it

[Minfay 0]

He tryna reel you back in - and since the whole situation with ol girl hurt your feelings EMOTIONALLY, he wants to remind you of the good times you two had SEXUALLY and see if you give inMy two cents

Add my two cents and make it four.....that's a good point...

[phatmadame81 0]

But the question is really why?? why bother?

....because he can......and you picked up the phone and played along. I will talk to Roy when I get home and see what he has to say.

one more thing, our aos case got touched again today

Yeah!!

And as long as you answer he will continue to call...I don't need To ask David...I was a door mat for long enought to know. .....when someones being used:blush:

How exaclty am I being used??? All it was was a phone call. And you all never picked up and spoke to an ex after yall broke up?

IMO, no offense to you or anyone, but he is still trying to find out how you feel about him, if you indulge in a sexual conversation with a guy that can be a little misleading ( he might be thinking that you would get sexual with him if was close).

Personally the only ex I pick up the phone fo ris my son's father and when he starts asking those questions I always hang up the phone on him but not before I tell him that he lost the privalge when he decided to go. I am one of those girls who think if you do me wrong once you will do it again so there is no second chances ( I learned that the hard way).

[Jonesie 1]

He tryna reel you back in - and since the whole situation with ol girl hurt your feelings EMOTIONALLY, he wants to remind you of the good times you two had SEXUALLY and see if you give in My two cents

Add my two cents and make it four.....that's a good point...

I'll ask D about it and try to post his reply before I leave from work today.

[ricardoswife 0]

christine James- I already know what Ricardo would say...He is just obviously one of "those guys" He is use to doing whatever he wants and getting away with it. The fact that he can have is new girl in Ja and still call you on the phone talkin bout sex is just a boost to his ego. If you are going to talk to him he is going to continue to call and push further and further.....and why are all his girlfriends from the US? That just seems like a red flag to me....just my two cents too

[ChristineJames 0]

christine James- I already know what Ricardo would say...He is just obviously one of "those guys" He is use to doing whatever he wants and getting away with it. The fact that he can have is new girl in Ja and still call you on the phone talkin bout sex is just a boost to his ego. If you are going to talk to him he is going to continue to call and push further and further.....and why are all his girlfriends from the US? That just seems like a red flag to me....just my two cents too

Yep!! You got it. Sounds about right. (The ego comment).

Also, I don't think ALL his GF's are from JA. I think he has one (or 2) down there too. This is from what I have heard and discussed either with him or with people I know down there.

[brownnskinn 0]

But the question is really why?? why bother?

....because he can......and you picked up the phone and played along. I will talk to Roy when I get home and see what he has to say.

one more thing, our aos case got touched again today

Yeah!!

And as long as you answer he will continue to call...I don't need To ask David...I was a door mat for long enought to know. .....when someones being used:blush:

How exaclty am I being used??? All it was was a phone call. And you all never picked up and spoke to an ex after yall broke up?

Satta.......don't take it personal. I did not mean to offend you by anymeans ..I knew that didn't come out the right... anyways ...I've been used before...Is what I was trying to say, but why ??would you talk about sex with someone you would never want to see or be with again.?? I'm sure if he thinks he can get you to talk about it wit him he can get it in your pants again...just my personal experience and opinion. Yes have have picked put he phone and called an x, or had a conversation with an x...when I was confused about wether or not I wanted to be with him.... but when I was done I was done. Seen..... New lesson learned keep mi opinions ta mi sef

[Minfay 0]

He is just obviously one of "those guys" He is use to doing whatever he wants and getting away with it. The fact that he can have is new girl in Ja and still call you on the phone talkin bout sex is just a boost to his ego. If you are going to talk to him he is going to continue to call and push further and further

I agree. He is probably trying to see how much he can get away with. He's also probably pretty happy that after what he did to you that you still take his calls.

[Ms Squitto 0]

there's mad people in the yardie thread right now

[brownnskinn 0]

there's mad people in the yardie thread right now

[ChristineJames 0]

there's mad people in the yardie thread right now

Jilly Thug aint mad!! Not at all. Some of you know me personally...and you know I'm a tuff cookie. I'm too damn cute to have a mad or sad look on this face!

[phatmadame81 0]

there's mad people in the yardie thread right now

Edited May 26, 2006 by desperatewife

[Jonesie 1]

He is just obviously one of "those guys" He is use to doing whatever he wants and getting away with it. The fact that he can have is new girl in Ja and still call you on the phone talkin bout sex is just a boost to his ego. If you are going to talk to him he is going to continue to call and push further and further

I agree. He is probably trying to see how much he can get away with. He's also probably pretty happy that after what he did to you that you still take his calls.

I agree on that too.