Yardies, at home and a farrin'

[Yaads 0]

OMG, I am really going ot have to go without a husband.

That hard headed red skin s*&* head just screwed us over. I can't believe this. I just wish I could back to last week and change certain things. He is so immatureand stupid. How you gonna see sucha bright futre and mess things up because another person offended you, walk away, there is nothing to that. srry just venting........

Is there anyway that you can go there to be with him??

Yeah would that be an option? I don't know if it was shared and I missed it somehow but what happened? Have you actually talked to him or just his sister? Sorry I am so lost

[Ms Squitto 0]

DW, you never offended me at all. I was just venting, as you put it, and I know were I in your shoes I would be WISHING I could be arguing with my honey. I understand completely and my prayers have been with you. I feel like this board is my venting place, as I dont really have any friends to discuss these things with and you certainly cant do it with family, they just dont understand. We most of us on here seem to be puzzled by the fact that our husbands dont actually SAY they want this or that when given a choice, so I vented here about it. I have read it on other boards too, the ones from S. Africa anyway...

I hear you girl I come here and let all my frustrations out and all my crazy thoughts and feelings. I don't have anyone "in real life" that I can do that with. I have gotten burned by people so many times by sharing my struggles that I really don't have a lot of trust for very many people. To me it just seems "safer" to talk to you all who know what I am going through and have experienced similar things. It is a wonderful place to vent and I hope that I have never upset or offended anyone by my venting

I am post hoe fa tru

That could be our new club We already have plenty of members

My name is Ms Squitto and I'm a Post Ho

Admission of guilt is the first step to recovery

[brownnskinn 0]

Hey did anyone here watch the finale of Top Chef? That show is my guilty pleasure

Not I

[phatmadame81 0]

heart ho!

She's a heart ho, mighty mighty

just posting all over the place (sing to the tune of brick house oh yes, I sure do need Jesus. Help me Lord)

! you already have your second heart

Yes you do! I need about 350+ posts for my next Anyone else close?

How many do you need again? I have 1428 so fa.

Good morning everyone,

I am so out of it today, yesterday after everything a convesation I had with Lee was the only that cheered me up.

I am slowly falling ain a state of depression and I am withdrawing form everyone, but i can't help but to come here.

Maybe one of you ladies can help me out.

1) If I was to stop teh petition know, can I go back and reenter it ata later date? Say in about a year or 2.

2) Can you tell me what would cause a denial of visa ?, I tried using the USCIS and the State site but everyting was coming out in gibberish.

thanks

If I am not mistaken, after your I-130 is approved and you complete the visa bill portion (ie you pay the immigration fee - $485 or whatever), you have two years to file the I-485 (AOS) to move the case forward to Kingston. I will look for my cover letter but I believe it said that. You may want to post this question outside this thread and have somone more knowlegdgeable answer.

As for cause of visa denials, it varies, but among the reasons listed by folks on visa journey were:

1. USC not having enough money to be above required poverty level and needing a cosponsor
   
2. Not showing enough evidence of having a real relationship
   
3. Consular Officer not believing the couple despite evidence
   
4. Testing positive for drugs or admitting to recent drug use
   
5. Immigrant not being able to prove you are divorced or otherwise eligible to marry (we had one case recently where it was the embassy that informed the USC that dude was married already)
   
6. Unable to clear criminal background check - not receiving a clean police report from every place you lived for more than six months
   
7. Consular officer is simply in a bad mood (just kidding)
   

OMG, I am really going ot have to go without a husband.

That hard headed red skin s*&* head just screwed us over. I can't believe this. I just wish I could back to last week and change certain things. He is so immatureand stupid. How you gonna see sucha bright futre and mess things up because another person offended you, walk away, there is nothing to that. srry just venting........

Is there anyway that you can go there to be with him??

It would be hard I really would love to but I am not financially stable enough to go there and live with my son, unsure of a job etc.. an dthen there would be the baby daddy drama he was acting up when he found out I was married so can you imagine what would happen if I was to move to another country with my son so we could be with my husband.

I just got it #7 is

[Ms Squitto 0]

Paying bills- well as some of you know i am a SAHM ( stay at home mom) so Ricardo techinically pays all the bills..crazy to think about that....HE is the immigrant and ends up being the sole financial provider...only been in the US a few years...just shows that it is possible and how good God is.

You know what, when my faith wanes, I often think of you and Ricardo and it really picks up my spirit. I see what you two have been able to accomplish in the past few years and it strenghtens my faith! Thanks for sharing your story with us.

Agreed I have been encouraged many times by your family Myisha and your strength and walk with the Lord. You are a great inspiration

Just coming in this thread encourages me. To see how the Lord is blessing us all, we pray for one another, and just stay positive - hard to find that these days with people. I pray for you all every night

Same here, I usually say a blanket prayer for our entire VJ family and I really get to prayin' when someone has a particular situation.

[thndrdancr 0]

Oh yea, Jamie, you asked bout the trailer mural. My sis an I had tried to paint it. We stupidly listened to everyone that said..."oh yea, you can use regular house paint"...NOT! We worked on it two weeks and it looked like #######! A great big white beached whale inthe middle of a field...so ugly. Then we went out to eat in this lil bar and there was this gorgeous mural on the wall, happened to be the guy that worked there that is super talented (but hard to get him goin if you know what I mean) He has been working on it three years and is still not finished but what he did in 3 hours looked so much better than what we had accomplished in 2 weeks! Sigh...wished I was that talented.

And yes, Elizabeth, he ALWAYS tries to please me, but one of these days, I am afraid he will get totally burnt out doing that. Its not good to ALWAYS defer to the spouse. And he does. It makes ME frustrated and I am sure it makes him that way as well. So funny, I bet a lot of gals would be WISHING for my problem!!!

[Ms Squitto 0]

I don't recall reading the post where Jamie asked about favorite Scriptures.......

Found it May 11th 2:24 post number 2728 Thought I had lost my mind. I'm the post hoe in cognito(spelling)

:lol:

you good to have found that!

I wonder how many pages our old thread was...were we past 1000 in that forum?

Well, no one answered it, I wanted to make sure I wasn't crazy

You are crazy, Dee. I answered it. Remeber I babbled on about putting scripture on mothers day candles and I posted the pic and you said it was cute.....remember...

Speaking of remember - y'all I have memory issues - I now have to use the kitchen clock timer when I cook....I go away and forget I am baking or cooking.

I never stay in the kitchen when I'm cooking and Squito always get bex and seh him nuh waan him bun him him food. I always run betwixt the kitchen and the pc or the TV

[brownnskinn 0]

DW, you never offended me at all. I was just venting, as you put it, and I know were I in your shoes I would be WISHING I could be arguing with my honey. I understand completely and my prayers have been with you. I feel like this board is my venting place, as I dont really have any friends to discuss these things with and you certainly cant do it with family, they just dont understand. We most of us on here seem to be puzzled by the fact that our husbands dont actually SAY they want this or that when given a choice, so I vented here about it. I have read it on other boards too, the ones from S. Africa anyway...

I hear you girl I come here and let all my frustrations out and all my crazy thoughts and feelings. I don't have anyone "in real life" that I can do that with. I have gotten burned by people so many times by sharing my struggles that I really don't have a lot of trust for very many people. To me it just seems "safer" to talk to you all who know what I am going through and have experienced similar things. It is a wonderful place to vent and I hope that I have never upset or offended anyone by my venting

I am post hoe fa tru

That could be our new club We already have plenty of members

My name is Ms Squitto and I'm a Post Ho

Admission of guilt is the first step to recovery

[Ms Squitto 0]

I am post hoe fa tru

That could be our new club We already have plenty of members

Sign me up! Working on second heart now

heart ho!

She's a heart ho, mighty mighty

just posting all over the place (sing to the tune of brick house oh yes, I sure do need Jesus. Help me Lord)

Yes you do

Agreed

I am post hoe fa tru

That could be our new club We already have plenty of members

Sign me up! Working on second heart now

heart ho!

She's a heart ho, mighty mighty

just posting all over the place (sing to the tune of brick house oh yes, I sure do need Jesus. Help me Lord)

ROTFLOL til mi panti wet

Woyeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee I have to meet you in person, I swear

[nannygirl82 0]

Name? SO's Name?

Shauna....Mike

Your age? Your SO's age? (we'll understand if you don't want to share)

24 23

Where are you from?

Lebanon, Pennsylvania....moving to Wilington Delaware

What part of JA is your SO from?

Oracabessa

What's your Connection to JA - How/Where/When did you meet?

I met mike on vacation april 2004..he worked at Beaches

What are you filing for? When did you file? What's your case status?

K-1...might take longer then expected

Are your pics posted on yahoo? (Mindy devil.gif )

Tell us a little about you: (You are free to answer this as you see fit)

working as a nanny for the past 5 years....moving into my own place for mike and i to start our lives together

[phatmadame81 0]

I am post hoe fa tru

That could be our new club We already have plenty of members

My name is Ms Squitto and I'm a Post Ho

Admission of guilt is the first step to recovery

[brownnskinn 0]

I don't recall reading the post where Jamie asked about favorite Scriptures.......

Found it May 11th 2:24 post number 2728 Thought I had lost my mind. I'm the post hoe in cognito(spelling)

:lol:

you good to have found that!

I wonder how many pages our old thread was...were we past 1000 in that forum?

Well, no one answered it, I wanted to make sure I wasn't crazy

You are crazy, Dee. I answered it. Remeber I babbled on about putting scripture on mothers day candles and I posted the pic and you said it was cute.....remember...

Speaking of remember - y'all I have memory issues - I now have to use the kitchen clock timer when I cook....I go away and forget I am baking or cooking.

I never stay in the kitchen when I'm cooking and Squito always get bex and seh him nuh waan him bun him him food. I always run betwixt the kitchen and the pc or the TV

David wanted me to watch some movie, from the middle by the way so Iwasn't interested, He smurked and said but ya watch da compuda.

[phatmadame81 0]

I don't recall reading the post where Jamie asked about favorite Scriptures.......

Found it May 11th 2:24 post number 2728 Thought I had lost my mind. I'm the post hoe in cognito(spelling)

:lol:

you good to have found that!

I wonder how many pages our old thread was...were we past 1000 in that forum?

Well, no one answered it, I wanted to make sure I wasn't crazy

You are crazy, Dee. I answered it. Remeber I babbled on about putting scripture on mothers day candles and I posted the pic and you said it was cute.....remember...

Speaking of remember - y'all I have memory issues - I now have to use the kitchen clock timer when I cook....I go away and forget I am baking or cooking.

I never stay in the kitchen when I'm cooking and Squito always get bex and seh him nuh waan him bun him him food. I always run betwixt the kitchen and the pc or the TV

I remeber when Paul was here and I would be cooking after teh first 5 mins he would give up and just finish hisself. I think it is something with Jamaican and you having to stay in teh kitchen for hours while you cook.

[Sbys 0]

On the days when I get all stressed over this whole baby thing, I realize that I really, really want to be a mom. Before I was just afraid, but now I know for sure that I want to have a little girl.

Hang in there- it will happen when it's time. A friend of mine just found out she's pregnant after trying for 1.5 years! No drugs, no doctors, it just wasn't their time before. Yours will come soon

[brownnskinn 0]

Name? SO's Name?

Shauna....Mike

Your age? Your SO's age? (we'll understand if you don't want to share)

24 23

Where are you from?

Lebanon, Pennsylvania....moving to Wilington Delaware

What part of JA is your SO from?

Oracabessa

What's your Connection to JA - How/Where/When did you meet?

I met mike on vacation april 2004..he worked at Beaches

What are you filing for? When did you file? What's your case status?

K-1...might take longer then expected

Are your pics posted on yahoo? (Mindy devil.gif )

Tell us a little about you: (You are free to answer this as you see fit)

working as a nanny for the past 5 years....moving into my own place for mike and i to start our lives together

I don't mind posting....but I think it may become a bit cumbersome......but most of that info is on the yahoo site, I think,....I read over very few days to make sure i didn't miss anything. you might check it out. Some don't like to put personal info here on this site.

Denise, David both 31, met a Riu Negril 2004 while on vacation, hubby lived in the hill's near Lucy, I'm a nurse, waiting on AOS approval It is speeding by... Why ?I ask not, God knows we need to get back there to whipp D's babe mama's %#%, (he know's I have fallen short...) She got it comin Pictures are on yahoo check'em out

Edited May 25, 2006 by Dee&Dav