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Hello everyone...just wanted to say hey before I start catching up..

Well I am home now, I was supposed to leave Thur. but yesterday I got sick and was not feeling well so I decied to come home early. Adrian should be here Friday.

Let me ask this, I got a little stressed while I was there and started thinking a whole lot about what the next few months is going to be like, with Adrian coming here, no job, never been here before and then the wedding....I got real stressed thinking about things...Did this happen to any of you???

My mom keeps asking me if I am having second thoughts...I dont think I am I am just a little over whelmed right now.

Joanna

Joanna,

Welcome Back! I declare thee NORMAL!!!!

I think the stress is the same for all of us...I still feel slighted by folks who think all I did was fill out a few forms and Henry was here. This whole thing messed up my skin, my cycle :angry: BUT if you can spare some cash - get a PROFESSIONAL massage as often as you can and get pedicures and manicures...they take some of the edge off.

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Hello everyone...just wanted to say hey before I start catching up..

Well I am home now, I was supposed to leave Thur. but yesterday I got sick and was not feeling well so I decied to come home early. Adrian should be here Friday.

Let me ask this, I got a little stressed while I was there and started thinking a whole lot about what the next few months is going to be like, with Adrian coming here, no job, never been here before and then the wedding....I got real stressed thinking about things...Did this happen to any of you???

My mom keeps asking me if I am having second thoughts...I dont think I am I am just a little over whelmed right now.

Joanna

Joanna,

Welcome Back! I declare thee NORMAL!!!!

I think the stress is the same for all of us...I still feel slighted by folks who think all I did was fill out a few forms and Henry was here. This whole thing messed up my skin, my cycle :angry: BUT if you can spare some cash - get a PROFESSIONAL massage as often as you can and get pedicures and manicures...they take some of the edge off.

I agree you are NORMAL! :thumbs:

You might not want to catch all the way up on the posts :unsure: We had a few pages of massive venting and it definitely won't help your feelings right now :blush: or maybe it will help you feel "normal" :yes:

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Hello everyone...just wanted to say hey before I start catching up..

Well I am home now, I was supposed to leave Thur. but yesterday I got sick and was not feeling well so I decied to come home early. Adrian should be here Friday.

Let me ask this, I got a little stressed while I was there and started thinking a whole lot about what the next few months is going to be like, with Adrian coming here, no job, never been here before and then the wedding....I got real stressed thinking about things...Did this happen to any of you???

My mom keeps asking me if I am having second thoughts...I dont think I am I am just a little over whelmed right now.

Joanna

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Welcome Back :)

You are feeling exaclty what I am now. I am soooooo overwhelmed, I got way too much on my mind and going on. Thankfully Rohan is very understanding, and he is trying to do what he could to help. When he sees I am stressed, He holds me and say usssshhh ussssh baby. He shows concern and wished to help more, it really helps. We are getting married in a few weeks , every Bride goes through stress before this moment. It is an exciting time, and a stressful time also.

My advice, treat yourself well, give your self some alone and quiet time now before he gets here to sort things out in your head, journal, and what burden you dont have to bear..dont Delegate responsibility.

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Hello everyone...just wanted to say hey before I start catching up..

Well I am home now, I was supposed to leave Thur. but yesterday I got sick and was not feeling well so I decied to come home early. Adrian should be here Friday.

Let me ask this, I got a little stressed while I was there and started thinking a whole lot about what the next few months is going to be like, with Adrian coming here, no job, never been here before and then the wedding....I got real stressed thinking about things...Did this happen to any of you???

My mom keeps asking me if I am having second thoughts...I dont think I am I am just a little over whelmed right now.

Joanna

Joanna,

Welcome Back! I declare thee NORMAL!!!!

I think the stress is the same for all of us...I still feel slighted by folks who think all I did was fill out a few forms and Henry was here. This whole thing messed up my skin, my cycle :angry: BUT if you can spare some cash - get a PROFESSIONAL massage as often as you can and get pedicures and manicures...they take some of the edge off.

I agree you are NORMAL! :thumbs:

You might not want to catch all the way up on the posts :unsure: We had a few pages of massive venting and it definitely won't help your feelings right now :blush: or maybe it will help you feel "normal" :yes:

:lol: Welcome back Joanna. It's normal. I was a complete nut case before Damien came. Everything will come together. We are all here for you :luv: .

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Welcome back (F)

Take these days and treat yourself...I know you can't wait for him to be here with you but enjoy your last days of freedon :lol:

Go get that mani and pedi, and definitely get the massage.

No you don't sound crazy...we've all been there.

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I got a little stressed while I was there and started thinking a whole lot about what the next few months is going to be like, with Adrian coming here, no job, never been here before and then the wedding....I got real stressed thinking about things...Did this happen to any of you???

No Joanna -- YOU ARE CRAZY!!! :lol: Welcome home.....we missed you soooooo much!!!!!!

Seriously, you just need to learn how to take really, really deep breaths (without making yourself pass out!) That helps alot. I know everyone else has been saying massages.....I say VODKA!!!

We're here for you babe!! Don't worry about a thing. Try to take the next few days to do things for yourself....and don't forget the vodka :yes:

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I got a little stressed while I was there and started thinking a whole lot about what the next few months is going to be like, with Adrian coming here, no job, never been here before and then the wedding....I got real stressed thinking about things...Did this happen to any of you???

No Joanna -- YOU ARE CRAZY!!! :lol: Welcome home.....we missed you soooooo much!!!!!!

Seriously, you just need to learn how to take really, really deep breaths (without making yourself pass out!) That helps alot. I know everyone else has been saying massages.....I say VODKA!!!

We're here for you babe!! Don't worry about a thing. Try to take the next few days to do things for yourself....and don't forget the vodka :yes:

:lol::lol::lol:

VODKA! Mindy you are so crazy! :lol:

I can just see this thread turning into an alcoholics anonymous support group :P

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I got a little stressed while I was there and started thinking a whole lot about what the next few months is going to be like, with Adrian coming here, no job, never been here before and then the wedding....I got real stressed thinking about things...Did this happen to any of you???

No Joanna -- YOU ARE CRAZY!!! :lol: Welcome home.....we missed you soooooo much!!!!!!

Seriously, you just need to learn how to take really, really deep breaths (without making yourself pass out!) That helps alot. I know everyone else has been saying massages.....I say VODKA!!!

We're here for you babe!! Don't worry about a thing. Try to take the next few days to do things for yourself....and don't forget the vodka :yes:

:lol::lol::lol:

VODKA! Mindy you are so crazy! :lol:

I can just see this thread turning into an alcoholics anonymous support group :P

Pass that bokkle here! Classes have me stressed

is there a drinking smiley? :lol:

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751 - Removing Conditions

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I got a little stressed while I was there and started thinking a whole lot about what the next few months is going to be like, with Adrian coming here, no job, never been here before and then the wedding....I got real stressed thinking about things...Did this happen to any of you???

No Joanna -- YOU ARE CRAZY!!! :lol: Welcome home.....we missed you soooooo much!!!!!!

Seriously, you just need to learn how to take really, really deep breaths (without making yourself pass out!) That helps alot. I know everyone else has been saying massages.....I say VODKA!!!

We're here for you babe!! Don't worry about a thing. Try to take the next few days to do things for yourself....and don't forget the vodka :yes:

:lol::lol::lol:

VODKA! Mindy you are so crazy! :lol:

:lol:

I can just see this thread turning into an alcoholics anonymous support group :P

:lol::lol: Yeah and poor Axl has to go to Alateen!!! :lol::lol:

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Joel 2:25 (Amplified Bible) And I will restore or replace for you the years that the locust has eaten--the hopping locust, the stripping locust, and the crawling locust, My great army which I sent among you.

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:lol::lol: Yeah and poor Axl has to go to Alateen!!! :lol::lol:

:energetic:

Okay now, don't laugh.....Roy made "Man Juice" yesterday -- without the alcohol -- so that Axl could have some. To help her get back her strength. :wacko:

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:lol::lol: Yeah and poor Axl has to go to Alateen!!! :lol::lol:

:energetic:

Okay now, don't laugh.....Roy made "Man Juice" yesterday -- without the alcohol -- so that Axl could have some. To help her get back her strength. :wacko:

Awwww...what a good daddy. :luv: It will work you know. She'll be doing little doggie leg lifts and push ups in no time. :lol:

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06-20-09- Received 10 year Greencard

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07-09-09 - Filed N-400

Joel 2:25 (Amplified Bible) And I will restore or replace for you the years that the locust has eaten--the hopping locust, the stripping locust, and the crawling locust, My great army which I sent among you.

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:lol::lol: Yeah and poor Axl has to go to Alateen!!! :lol::lol:

:energetic:

Okay now, don't laugh.....Roy made "Man Juice" yesterday -- without the alcohol -- so that Axl could have some. To help her get back her strength. :wacko:

Awwww that is SOOO cute :luv:

And to think you were wondering if he would take to your dogs :D Before you know it he will be helping you dress them in those little sweaters :lol::lol:

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Hello everyone...just wanted to say hey before I start catching up..

Well I am home now, I was supposed to leave Thur. but yesterday I got sick and was not feeling well so I decied to come home early. Adrian should be here Friday.

Let me ask this, I got a little stressed while I was there and started thinking a whole lot about what the next few months is going to be like, with Adrian coming here, no job, never been here before and then the wedding....I got real stressed thinking about things...Did this happen to any of you???

My mom keeps asking me if I am having second thoughts...I dont think I am I am just a little over whelmed right now.

Joanna

Hi Joanna,

Sorry to hear you weren't feeling well and hope you'll feel better soon. I know I'm not at the stage you are but "pre-wedding jitters" are something else. It can affect different ppl in different ways. Just have faith and ask God to give you the strengh to make it through. You will be alright.

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I NEED 6 MORE POSTS FOR MY SECOND HEART!!! :lol: Whom can I congratulate???

AOS, EAD - 115 days from mailing AOS to conditional Green Card in Hand

06-07-08 - File to remove conditions

4/28/09 - Moved to CSC

06-20-09- Received 10 year Greencard

Citizenship

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Joel 2:25 (Amplified Bible) And I will restore or replace for you the years that the locust has eaten--the hopping locust, the stripping locust, and the crawling locust, My great army which I sent among you.

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