My Girlfriend married another man to apply for green card

[dreamwarrior 0]

Normal women do not get married just for a green card. What you have here is not a normal woman. Are you sure you want to spend the rest of your life with a ticking time bomb? Think about it. What is it that's making you feel so guilty and responsible for this non-normal woman? You have no children together. You own no property together. You do not run a business together. There are so many fish in the sea. You are giving her way too much slack. 2 years from now you'll feel either two things about her. That she was the worst person you ever dated or that marrying her was the biggest mistake of your life.

[del-2-5-2014 1,339]

"My Girlfriend married another man"?

Seriously, stop tempting The Gowon with such a bait topic, I cannot comment as voraciously as I would love to due to the risk of loosing my membership.

Man up, and I mean big time.

Edited January 23, 2013 by Gowon

[little_dreamer 11]

Op! I hope she really loves you but to me she was desperate enough to commit immigration fraud and that is a red flag for me. I would let her try to figure it out with her new husband.

[little_dreamer 11]

Normal women do not get married just for a green card. What you have here is not a normal woman. Are you sure you want to spend the rest of your life with a ticking time bomb? Think about it. What is it that's making you feel so guilty and responsible for this non-normal woman? You have no children together. You own no property together. You do not run a business together. There are so many fish in the sea. You are giving her way too much slack. 2 years from now you'll feel either two things about her. That she was the worst person you ever dated or that marrying her was the biggest mistake of your life.

exactly....let her take care of her fraudulent problem...she might get lucky and just pass with flying colors (like alot of fake marriages) and stay her boyfriend....dont take on the responsibility....if she loves you she will stay with you even if ur not doing her papers and she has a friend helping her instead.

[Darnell 8,478]

Gowon - come on !! Jump in, the water's fine!

[del-2-5-2014 1,339]

Gowon - come on !! Jump in, the water's fine!

Lol....no way Jose. I'm scared.

I can sense Charles on this thread.

[Darnell 8,478]

ok - here's something tamer.

reply only to my posts here in this topic, aye?

[Carla V 43]

The only thing i can advice you is this:

If she really love you the matter of a GC won't be an issue in your relationship, i been in visa journey for a while now and i read terrible stories and a lovely ones, for the way that you told us your story with her, it seems she is just playing with you.

Is not important if she lives with you or not, the main thing is that she want to commit a fraud with us gov and that is the part that she care about, not you or your feelings or anything that is not her...

I can tell you just one thing more... any person is valuable and no one deserve to be played or to get into a trouble because a person that will never give you what you deserve.... i bet you can find better options and real love somewhere else....

[The Mean Lady 604]

this has GREEN CARD FRAUD written all over it.

backwards. forwards. and in 20 different languages.

i feel like im being trolled.

[Gus&Cole 4]

Out of curiousity, what does this woman do from here? How does she get out of the marriage she is already in and how does the man she married divoirce her without gettng in trouble for marriage fraud?

[ppihtr123 68]

GC aside for just a second.... So did she cheat on you with her current husband the same way she cheated with you on her first prospect? Dude, I hope you see that you are a rung on a ladder to this woman and obviously not the top one!

OK GC issue back…First divorce is not that quick, 6 months minimum in most states with no kids and that is if nether fights it. When does her current visa expire? Even then…Really? Fraud all over it no matter how you look at it. If you go through with it expect what you got coming! A stokes interview would be the least of your worries!

[ecg19 7]

Haven't read all the replies but your question is really what effect this would have on an application for a green card if you made it, right?

Both couples must advise of ALL previous marriages and divorces.

So, how is it going to look if you give a year's proof of evidence of a relationship (photos, emails, testimonies etc.) and then oh look, marriage to John Doe for 2 months in the middle of it? Then they divorce/annul and you two marry?

Sorry buddy. As others have suggested in the few posts I read, she needs to go home and do this legitimately like other people do if you want a chance to not get pulled into some immigration fraud. Leave her to finish up this mess with her 'husband'.

[john gibbs 17]

So dude was this a consumated marriage ? How could she just up and marry if U both in love?

unless it was business (which is illegal& a fraud) how U know she's not wanting this GC by any means

necessary, no doubt you love her but please read some of the horror stories here, go slowly, of course

even though she did not file paper-work she still have to send in divorce papers and she will be asked

about it, good luck on this journey.

i agree 100%

she is probably just another user.

[Darnell 8,478]

alas the OP hasn't been here , logged in, since the 3rd o January.

It'd be great if'n he comes back and tells us more, aye?

[Karee 4,190]

alas the OP hasn't been here , logged in, since the 3rd o January.

It'd be great if'n he comes back and tells us more, aye?

Probably wont see him back.