Proof of Intention

[Griffon76 0]

(I copied this from my last post in another discussion)...

LOL I'm a nervous wreck and not because we did anything wrong but hoping that what we show as proof that we did not intend to marry on his last visit is enough. One...he was not legally divorced when he entered (we knew it would not be for months until he was and the fact that the proceedings were just started a week prior to his coming here) and two...he had made arrangements to live with a relative in Montreal (where his interview for the K1 visa would take place) when he returned to wait for the interview date. All of his belongings are in storage and we had intended to get it out when his K1 visa was approved and I came to help him drive his car back. One of the things that helped in the decision to marry sooner is his house, that was put up for sale in Feb '06 sold in 2 days! We thought since the house across the street was still on the market after 6 months, that we would have plenty of time while the K1 visa was being processed. He had some money to live on while he would be in Montreal but now the house was gone and he would be spending longer than we thought with the relatives.

What kind of (physical) proof can I show for these things? Or would they take our word for it when we explain the situation? The other thing is we did not start planning our wedding until a few months into his visit and put it together in a short amount of time. Because of that, not all relatives and friends could come and had a fairly small wedding. Maybe a note from the Innkeeper where we had the ceremony and reception showing when we actually booked with them? A letter from his relatives in Montreal?

I guess that is the only thing worrying me about all this. Both of us are always concerned with being totally honest about everything and doing things the RIGHT way and not having any doubts about who we are or what we are about. Hence, worrying about having to PROVE our intentions. Am I just over worrying myself about this?

[sjoefl01 1]

You gave way too many details that have nothing to do with your post. Please abreviate. We really don't have time for all of this. Ask your immigration question and it will be answered.

[kitkat1 5]

What is your question? Are you talking about questions at the POE or at the AOS interview?

[Griffon76 0]

What is your question? Are you talking about questions at the POE or at the AOS interview?

Thanks for your patient reply...It will be at the AOS interview since my husband is already here. The question I had was this

What kind of (physical) proof can I show if asked for proof of intent when he originally entered as a visitor? Or would they take our word for it when we explain the situation? Maybe a note from the Innkeeper where we had the ceremony and reception showing when we actually booked with them? A letter from his relatives in Montreal?

The reason I gave the detailed explanation was to give people here the facts about our situation so I could get the correct answer for us.

or worded this way...what kind of proof should I bring to the AOS interview that our intent was not for him to come as a visitor and marry and immigrate when here. My previous post stated that we changed our plans after he got here and we had time to reflect our options.