I wanna take the risk....

[shin shin 3]

I really wanna visit my family back home but the problem is my husband sent message to my sister that he called the immigration saying that I just used him to have GC...he made this accusation after i report him to Military Police because of kicking me out of the house....The thins is he dont have my A#,my SS# and eveb passport#....can he make a report without any info from me???

He filed divorce already but i filed for response because he put the incorrect date of marriage..

Also I'm communicating with Jag lawyer,and his Commander...

I really wanna take the risk to visit my family back home for 3-4weeks next month..do you think I will have a problem coming back?? I'm not guilty of what he's accusing me but my concern is does USCIS will believe him without any proof???

[johna1 4]

If I were you, I would wait till all the problem is solved. UCIS can be very crazy, and they are cracking on a lot of immigration fraud. If they see that you married to the person for immigration benefits. I would say hang tight, you came to America and I guess at this point of time staying here is your priority more than the family home. Weigh your options!!!

[angel7407 33]

A lot of people already gave you good advices about this both about going home or staying here and wait. In my opinion being a Filipina (of course we are two different people in handling situations) I will stay first and wait until everything's final. Divorce final and immigration stuff is cleared. I know how hard you are feeling right now and you need your family. But as you stated you have no money, no nothing...so how can you go home? I think it's better to settle everything here first before you go home. Wouldn't it be better if you have nothing to worry while you are with your family back home? You can think better without anxiety and apprehensions, you can plan better on how to start back with your life when yo come back here. No fears, no worries. Taking risks is not always for a better result. Sometimes it's better to look at future consequences before deciding on something. Goodluck!

[kzielu 1,149]

I really wanna visit my family back home but the problem is my husband sent message to my sister that he called the immigration saying that I just used him to have GC...he made this accusation after i report him to Military Police because of kicking me out of the house....The thins is he dont have my A#,my SS# and eveb passport#....can he make a report without any info from me???

He filed divorce already but i filed for response because he put the incorrect date of marriage..

Also I'm communicating with Jag lawyer,and his Commander...

I really wanna take the risk to visit my family back home for 3-4weeks next month..do you think I will have a problem coming back?? I'm not guilty of what he's accusing me but my concern is does USCIS will believe him without any proof???

Sorry for asking dumb question but if you came to live with your husband, why so desperately you want to stay here ?

He likely has your passport # if he has copy of petition he signed on...

[shin shin 3]

Sorry for asking dumb question but if you came to live with your husband, why so desperately you want to stay here ?

He likely has your passport # if he has copy of petition he signed on...

I live with my husband before before he kicked me out my husband has mental issues I just wanna visit my family and come back here...if marriage didn't work it doesn't mean I have to leave the country for good...

No he doesn't have any copy of it...I kept it all in one folder

[Sandra G. 5,043]

He doesn't need copy of any of your documents to report you to Uscis. It doesn't mean Uscis will believe in his side of the story, but his report will be added to your file.

[VanessaTony 3,567]

You may have a problem coming back yes. It has been seen before. I understand you WANT to see your family but you either want to see them enough to never come back to the US, or you are willing to wait until you know for sure (as sure as you can) that you won't have problems.

Can you prove he kicked you out and that you didn't just move out because you were using him for a GC? That's the problem. Even if he DID kick you out and you have proof of that, how can you prove he didn't kick you out because he found out you were using him for a GC? Until this is resolved you are guilty and so is he. You are the immigrant so more guilt is your way (it's not fair but you have more to lose).

He may have an email somewhere with the documents. I have scanned copies of ALL my documents and my husband could well have a copy somewhere as well. He doesn't need all that anyway, he only needs your name, DOB and birth country. Most likely he remembers more than you think.

[VanessaTony 3,567]

if marriage didn't work it doesn't mean I have to leave the country for good...

No it doesn't mean you have to leave for good, but most people who truly married for love and were only together for a short period of time WOULD return to their family. It is only recently, so close to the end of being done with USCIS that I might consider staying but if my husband broke my heart and did what you say your husband did, I would be on the next plane out and wouldn't look back. The US isn't important to me, being with my husband is, and save that, the rest of my loving family who live in Australia.

Edited December 7, 2012 by Vanessa&Tony

[shin shin 3]

No it doesn't mean you have to leave for good, but most people who truly married for love and were only together for a short period of time WOULD return to their family. It is only recently, so close to the end of being done with USCIS that I might consider staying but if my husband broke my heart and did what you say your husband did, I would be on the next plane out and wouldn't look back. The US isn't important to me, being with my husband is, and save that, the rest of my loving family who live in Australia.

Yeah you're right thats why I wanna VISIT my family back home....I learned Also that I don't wanna make a permanent decision out of my emotion...it our choice If we wanna stay or leave for good...my husband is living here I have to admit that I'm wishing/praying that one day he'll change

[Villanelle 4,122]

As part of your AOS packet your husband filled out the 864 with his SS number. If he contacted UCIS and said 'my wife used me for a GC but I dont know her A#, passport number or ss #, but my name is XYZ and my ss# is xyz" they can look it up and cross reference it to find you. So yes, it is possible for him to contact UCIS and complain w/o having your specific info.

As was mentioned in your other threads as a GC holder you are allowed to travel freely whenever you like. Your husbands alleged complaint isnt going to restrict your travel.

However because youre in the early stages of a contested divorce leaving the country is very risky because he can take the opportunity to serve you with papers knowing youre not here to respond. Failing to respond could have devastating consequences. Not just in the financial outcome of the divorce, but in you being able to successfully remove the conditions on your GC after the divorce.

[shin shin 3]

As part of your AOS packet your husband filled out the 864 with his SS number. If he contacted UCIS and said 'my wife used me for a GC but I dont know her A#, passport number or ss #, but my name is XYZ and my ss# is xyz" they can look it up and cross reference it to find you. So yes, it is possible for him to contact UCIS and complain w/o having your specific info.

As was mentioned in your other threads as a GC holder you are allowed to travel freely whenever you like. Your husbands alleged complaint isnt going to restrict your travel.

However because youre in the early stages of a contested divorce leaving the country is very risky because he can take the opportunity to serve you with papers knowing youre not here to respond. Failing to respond could have devastating consequences. Not just in the financial outcome of the divorce, but in you being able to successfully remove the conditions on your GC after the divorce.

thank you Capri...you're answer is very helpful...

it just frustrating even though i have valid GC its hard and soo risky to travel...

[thinkerlove0212 158]

I really wanna visit my family back home but the problem is my husband sent message to my sister that he called the immigration saying that I just used him to have GC...he made this accusation after i report him to Military Police because of kicking me out of the house....The thins is he dont have my A#,my SS# and eveb passport#....can he make a report without any info from me???

He filed divorce already but i filed for response because he put the incorrect date of marriage..

Also I'm communicating with Jag lawyer,and his Commander...

I really wanna take the risk to visit my family back home for 3-4weeks next month..do you think I will have a problem coming back?? I'm not guilty of what he's accusing me but my concern is does USCIS will believe him without any proof???

Sorry to hear this to you, just be wise to your decision

[shin shin 3]

Sorry to hear this to you, just be wise to your decision

I know it just hard that i wanna see my family back in the Philippines while going all through this but I think thats too risky and still I wanna take the risk If i can't go back then I'll stay for good..

[Shiobhan 235]

If U wanna see your family that bad U can go visit, how will U find the money if he kicked U out , R U working? I would go after all family is importantdont worry about the other stuff good luck

[himher 634]

"Your honor, my client tried to file a report but every single document related to the immigration file was missing. Including my client's own support affidavit that he willingly filed for his wife. Then she foolishly posted on a public forum that she hoped that taking it would prevent him from filing a complaint to immigration authorities. Yep here it is - let's call it exhibit X"

Divorce court in the US is war and war is hell LOL

I am not judging you but your level of preparation could be interpreted even by a marginal attorney or judge as intent to obtain a green card then dissolve the marriage.

You are advised to stick around and get everything resolved before travelling

I really wanna visit my family back home but the problem is my husband sent message to my sister that he called the immigration saying that I just used him to have GC...he made this accusation after i report him to Military Police because of kicking me out of the house....The thins is he dont have my A#,my SS# and eveb passport#....can he make a report without any info from me???

He filed divorce already but i filed for response because he put the incorrect date of marriage..

Also I'm communicating with Jag lawyer,and his Commander...

I really wanna take the risk to visit my family back home for 3-4weeks next month..do you think I will have a problem coming back?? I'm not guilty of what he's accusing me but my concern is does USCIS will believe him without any proof???

Edited December 8, 2012 by himher