How can I tell if my fiance really loves me?

[Donna A 4]

has there been any red flag raised that u have doubts in her?

[charlie_brown 0]

If you're asking this question, then it's the wrong question. The correct question is: "Do I love my fiancee?" If you doubt her sincerity, then the answer is no.

Not really. There are plenty of prople on here and other sites who love their spouses and get fooled.

[PlatyPius 5]

Read my post again. I wasn't saying anything about whether she was "fooling" you or not. I was saying that if you doubt her sincerity, then YOU don't love HER.

[Cristy 4]

Buy a box of doughnuts. Give them to her. See how many she shares with you. If it is less than half she does not love you.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Buy a box of doughnuts. Give them to her. See how many she shares with you. If it is less than half she does not love you.

What if she purges them afterwards? ...that's gotta mean something.

[Fandango 1,439]

Read my post again. I wasn't saying anything about whether she was "fooling" you or not. I was saying that if you doubt her sincerity, then YOU don't love HER.

Gotta say, PP, that I completely disagree with this.

[PlatyPius 5]

*shrugs*

That's fine.

I just don't see how a person could love someone if they don't trust them.

[Fandango 1,439]

*shrugs*

That's fine.

I just don't see how a person could love someone if they don't trust them.

Love and trust are two different things, yes they work well together, but they're not mutually exclusive.

You could love a junkie who does nothing but steal from you. You won't trust that person a lick, yet you can love them from here til whenever.

Oops, fone...bbiaf

[one...two...tree 2,762]

*shrugs*

That's fine.

I just don't see how a person could love someone if they don't trust them.

Love and trust are two different things, yes they work well together, but they're not mutually exclusive.

You could love a junkie who does nothing but steal from you. You won't trust that person a lick, yet you can love them from here til whenever.

Oops, fone...bbiaf

Good point, Lisa. Look for flying pigs in the sky. Lisa and I agree on this rare occasion.

[I'm Gone 60]

has there been any red flag raised that u have doubts in her?

She bought him socks on his birthday. LOL

[sakurasama 0]

The test of time!!! The best way to test if your fiancee really loves you is if the visa process takes far longer than either of you imagined it would and she sticks with you.

[Fandango 1,439]

*shrugs*

That's fine.

I just don't see how a person could love someone if they don't trust them.

Love and trust are two different things, yes they work well together, but they're not mutually exclusive.

You could love a junkie who does nothing but steal from you. You won't trust that person a lick, yet you can love them from here til whenever.

Oops, fone...bbiaf

Good point, Lisa. Look for flying pigs in the sky. Lisa and I agree on this rare occasion.

There's hope for you yet

[PlatyPius 5]

*shrugs*

That's fine.

I just don't see how a person could love someone if they don't trust them.

Love and trust are two different things, yes they work well together, but they're not mutually exclusive.

You could love a junkie who does nothing but steal from you. You won't trust that person a lick, yet you can love them from here til whenever.

Oops, fone...bbiaf

Maybe so, for some people. I could not love (as in be IN love with) someone whom I didn't trust. It could just be me.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

*shrugs*

That's fine.

I just don't see how a person could love someone if they don't trust them.

Love and trust are two different things, yes they work well together, but they're not mutually exclusive.

You could love a junkie who does nothing but steal from you. You won't trust that person a lick, yet you can love them from here til whenever.

Oops, fone...bbiaf

Maybe so, for some people. I could not love (as in be IN love with) someone whom I didn't trust. It could just be me.

Larry, I understand personally your point. I was married to someone who had such a dark past with all the significant men in her life, she could never shake off her distrust. The relationship was not what I'd call real love. Of course I loved her, but without mutual trust the relationship never grew. Trust or lack of it takes on many forms - like driving. Some couples nag each other over the way they drive. With us, it seemed to permeate in everything - even questioning my motives when I'd tell her she was beautiful. I couldn't go through that again.

[charlie_brown 0]

Read my post again. I wasn't saying anything about whether she was "fooling" you or not. I was saying that if you doubt her sincerity, then YOU don't love HER.

Gotta say, PP, that I completely disagree with this.

*shrugs*

That's fine.

I just don't see how a person could love someone if they don't trust them.

Love and trust are two different things, yes they work well together, but they're not mutually exclusive.

You could love a junkie who does nothing but steal from you. You won't trust that person a lick, yet you can love them from here til whenever.

Oops, fone...bbiaf

Exactly.

I don't don't where this idea came from, that you can't love someone without trusting them.

*shrugs*

That's fine.

I just don't see how a person could love someone if they don't trust them.

Why not?