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please be aware of the more modern usage of that word:

"Oriental" is believed by some to be antiquated, pejorative, and disparaging due to its Eurocentric usage in the United States.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orient

Urban Dictionary: oriental

1. oriental Politically incorrect term used in place of "Asian." Correct usage should be an adjective for things like inanimate objects, not humans.

In academia, when one reads books written centuries ago, one does not judge their use of language we'd today consider inappropriate or derogatory. We understand that the authors who wrote those books are writing them using the language of their era.

Why don't posters give Gary the same courtesy? Why not let relics of a past era use language of their time without judging them for it?

It's quite unfair. If I'm 70 and "bling" has turned into yet another pejorative for #######, I hope people won't mind if I continue to use it the way it was in 2013.

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Good that Brother Mox is back, see/si man!

I don't mind being called a bolillo (Hispanic term for "white bread," meaning a gringo), no man. It's rather a compliment, si man.

On a happier note: They found these near Mrs. T-B.'s hometown in a river where she had planned to take me swimming, see man:

http://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn1/37084_10200373949861027_2146895249_n.jpg

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06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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I will repost without "bad language"

This kid just sounds lazy to me

Sounds like a smart kid to me....having his hot girlfriend make him hamburgers while wearing heels and a short skirt.

Doesn't your husband do that for you?

Phil (Lockport, near Chicago) and Alla (Lobnya, near Moscow)

As of Dec 7, 2009, now Zero miles apart (literally)!

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Sounds like a smart kid to me....having his hot girlfriend make him hamburgers while wearing heels and a short skirt.

Doesn't your husband do that for you?

Does my husband allow me to make him hamburger? We don't actually eat burgers so the answer to that is no.

Life is a ticket to the greatest show on earth.

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Sounds like a smart kid to me....having his hot girlfriend make him hamburgers while wearing heels and a short skirt.

She looks like a Russian Taylor Swift. :whistle:

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VERMONT! I Reject Your Reality...and Substitute My Own!

Gary And Alla

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She looks like a Russian Taylor Swift. :whistle:

Maybe the one poster needs to talk to her husband. Couple should be open and honest....any couple should want to bring their relationship to new explorations and excitations !!!

Phil (Lockport, near Chicago) and Alla (Lobnya, near Moscow)

As of Dec 7, 2009, now Zero miles apart (literally)!

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[quote name=^_^' timestamp='1360350520' post='5968370]

In academia, when one reads books written centuries ago, one does not judge their use of language we'd today consider inappropriate or derogatory. We understand that the authors who wrote those books are writing them using the language of their era.

Why don't posters give Gary the same courtesy? Why not let relics of a past era use language of their time without judging them for it?

It's quite unfair. If I'm 70 and "bling" has turned into yet another pejorative for #######, I hope people won't mind if I continue to use it the way it was in 2013.

Nothing against Gary, but I think that if someone is with it enough to drop Taylor Swift references, no need to treat them like a doddering old fool who can't adjust their language to suit the current time. I, personally, would never use the word "bling" in the first place, but when I'm 70, I hope that someone lets me know if I am accidentally saying something that means "#######" when I don't intend to, or if, say, "Asian" is now considered offensive.

I also don't see anything wrong with someone doing nice things for their partner. Having someone make you hamburgers does not make you lazy. What, is the new relationship model never doing nice things for the other person?

Первый блин комом.

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I think that we've begun to forget the elegant expressiveness of Gary's original intent in this thread (refer to the earliest posts). I, for one, am quite willing to forgive someone a few missteps when he's able to pen such touching words, see man.

And no one has commented on the content of the links in my thread just above, no man.

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06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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