NEED ADVICE! EX-GF THREATS TO RUIN THEIR LIVES!

[JimVaPhuong 4,863]

She really isn't worried about USCIS doing another investigation because I told her that she has all the evidences that there marriage is real. She's just stressed out having gone all the preparations and now that it's all over, here comes the ex stirring the pot and giving her things to think about. She told me that her only concern is that even though their marriage is real, if the ex pursues to call USCIS, their names might get tainted and might cause them some problems when they apply to remove the conditions 2 years from now.

Neither USCIS nor ICE care about anyone's suspicions, personal opinions, or gut feelings except for their own. They get accusatory letters from bitter ex-boyfriends/girlfriends/spouses all the time. They don't take them seriously unless they are accompanied by verifiable evidence. If the ex-girlfriend doesn't have any evidence of fraud then any correspondence from her will go into a file and promptly be forgotten.

[rlogan 2,036]

Neither USCIS nor ICE care about anyone's suspicions, personal opinions, or gut feelings except for their own. They get accusatory letters from bitter ex-boyfriends/girlfriends/spouses all the time. They don't take them seriously unless they are accompanied by verifiable evidence. If the ex-girlfriend doesn't have any evidence of fraud then any correspondence from her will go into a file and promptly be forgotten.

We had malicious internet stalkers who tried making silly complaints. Although the "crime" was marrying someone 30 years younger, they spiced it up with lies about buying her as a "child" from her parents against her wlll. It wasn't just USCIS. It was a concerted campaign with numerous agencies spanning years.

The agency with the most experience in this kind of malicious attack is USCIS. They didn't give them the slightest credence.

[JimVaPhuong 4,863]

We had malicious internet stalkers who tried making silly complaints. Although the "crime" was marrying someone 30 years younger, they spiced it up with lies about buying her as a "child" from her parents against her wlll. It wasn't just USCIS. It was a concerted campaign with numerous agencies spanning years.

The agency with the most experience in this kind of malicious attack is USCIS. They didn't give them the slightest credence.

Wow! I'm glad I don't have any enemies like that!

[jaycali 415]

We had malicious internet stalkers who tried making silly complaints. Although the "crime" was marrying someone 30 years younger, they spiced it up with lies about buying her as a "child" from her parents against her wlll. It wasn't just USCIS. It was a concerted campaign with numerous agencies spanning years.The agency with the most experience in this kind of malicious attack is USCIS. They didn't give them the slightest credence.

Kudos to our friend over at USCIS!

[Darnell 8,478]

I showed this thread to my friend last night and she is gathering evidences to file a restraining order against the bitter ex.

see if her county or state has laws on the books about cyber bullying. If so, then it's a different world, for the ex-girlfriend.

Neither USCIS nor ICE care about anyone's suspicions, personal opinions, or gut feelings except for their own. They get accusatory letters from bitter ex-boyfriends/girlfriends/spouses all the time. They don't take them seriously unless they are accompanied by verifiable evidence. If the ex-girlfriend doesn't have any evidence of fraud then any correspondence from her will go into a file and promptly be forgotten.

ya, there's that realm of 'third-party-correspondence' but my knowledge of it is at the Consulate level, not the USCIS level.

[seth2013 39]

Instead of the restraining order, I would have an attorney write a cease and desist letter. That usually takes care of it, without having to go to court. If she still continues, then take it to court because she is obviously unstable.

Like everyone has said, I doubt USCIS would care about an ex-girlfriend.

Edited November 26, 2012 by sethless