Vawa part3

[Sandra G. 5,047]

finally26122012 I know the verysadguy story from the beginning and I can assure you that he is not an abuser, he was scammed. You are right she gave him a child, but when pregnant she was sending pictures of her pregnant belly to her lover when still married and living with him. He has full custody of his child for just one reason, she just gave birth to a baby girl,but she is not a mother.I am advocate of victims of domestic violence almost 20 years, and I would never side with abusers, but unfortunately there are fraudster/scammers and she is one of them.He is a great father, and I know his story very well.

Verysadguy you should have your own thread, because most people here don't know you or about your story.

[little_dreamer 11]

finally26122012 I know the verysadguy story from the beginning and I can assure you that he is not an abuser, he was scammed. You are right she gave him a child, but when pregnant she was sending pictures of her pregnant belly to her lover when still married and living with him. He has full custody of his child for just one reason, she just gave birth to a baby girl,but she is not a mother.I am advocate of victims of domestic violence almost 20 years, and I would never side with abusers, but unfortunately there are fraudster/scammers and she is one of them.He is a great father, and I know his story very well.

Verysadguy you should have your own thread, because most people here don't know you or about your story.

much agreed!!! He is an amazing father and I give him so much respect!!!! UGGGHHHH just hearing what happened to him just makes me so sad!!!!!

[finally26122012 20]

i applied on september 15, 2011 and sandra how do i go about the process of applying for my kids has i have no one in my country to help me all my family do is use me for money and mistreat my children can you please tell me what i have to do to start there process they are 15 and 7 years old

[finally26122012 20]

sandra my point is he is so bitter to the point where he is doing everything in his power to destroy this lady SHE GAVE HIM A CHILD SO THEY BOTH SHARE A LIFE WHY DONT HE JUST MOVE ON AND LET GO HE NEEDS TO GET OFF THE THREAD HAS I REALY DONT WANT TO HEAR HIS STORY MY HUSBAND TOLD IMMIGRATION I SCAMMED HIM AS WELL HIS KIDS AND FAMILY HAD TO STEP IN FOR ME SO HE NEEDS TO FOCUS ON HIS CHILD HAS NOW AM FEELING INSECURE ON THIS SITE HAS AN ALLEDGED ABUSER HAS FOUND HIS WAY ON HERE SO BECAUSE HE SPENDING HIS TIME ON HERE ITS NOT A SAFE PLACE TO TALK AGAIN :crying: :crying: :crying: FEELS LIKE OUR PRIVACY HAS BEEN INVADED VERY SAD GUY PLEASE MOVE ON LET US ON THIS SITE FEEL SAFE

[finally26122012 20]

sandra let me give you a insight of what i went through i met my husband in 2007 we had a relationship every year i come i would b with him work then go home to my country to my kids in 2007 he got me pregnant he beg me not to go home but i never wanted to end up out of status so i went home with the pregnancy I LOVED THIS MAN SO MUCH TO THE POINT WHERE I GOT SICK NOT BEING ABLE TO TRAVEL TO SEE HIM AND LOST OUR BABY SO WHEN I CAME BACK IN 2008 HE BEGED ME TO NOT GO HOME I TOLD HIM WHAT WOULD HAPPEN SO HE BEGGED ME FROM 2008 TO 2011 TO MARRY HIM I DID IN MAY 2011 ON THE 7TH AND HE STARTED BEATING ME ON THE EIGHT THIS IS THE LIST OF SOME WHAT HE DID TO ME RAPED ME IN MY ####### HIT MY TOOTH OUT BUSTED MY EYE STRANGLE BEAT ME IN MY HEAD I SLEPT OUTSIDE END UP HOMELESS WAS RAPED WHILE BEEN HOMELESS 3 TIMES POLICE MOVED ME FROM OUR HOME 3 TIMES AND I STILL WENT BACK TRYING TO MAKE IT WORK AS AM A CHRISTIAN AND BELEVE IN MARRIAGE GOT HIS BEST FRIEND WIFE PREGNANT AND THE LIST GOES ON NOW IT GOT THE POINT WHERE I CALLED IMMIGRATION TELLING THEM PLEASE HELP ME TO GO BACK TO MY COUNTRY HAS MY HUSBAND BEATING ME TO DEATH I WAS NOT ALLOWED TO HAVE FRIENDS NOT ALLWED TO HAVE CELL PHONE HE WAS CONTROLLING LAST THING HE DID TO ME IS AFTER HE REALIZE HOW GOOD AM DOING HE CONTACT ME TRYING TO GET BACK WITH ME I REFUSE SO HE KIDNAPP ME IN MAY 30,2012 AND WAS DRIVING TO UNKNOW LOCATION TO KILL ME PEOPLE HAD TO SAFE ME HE ALMOST BROKE MY NECK NOW HE IS CHARGED WITH DOMESTIC ABUSE BY STRANGULATION AND WE WILL HAVE THE FIRST HEARING AT THE END OG THIS MONTH SO VERY SAD GUY PLEASE JUST GO HAS AT LEAST SOMETHING GOOD CAME OUT OF YOUR MARRIAGE MY HUSBAND USED ME NEVER LOVED ME BUT I STILL HOPE HE CHANGE AND I DONT HATE HIM WOULD NOT DO NOTHING TO HARM HIM I AM JUST MOVING ON

[Sandra G. 5,047]

finally26122012 I advise you to call NVC before requiring Consular Processing for you children. I will tell you the steps the Immigration law states in order for consular processing, but as i said before do not follow what I am saying before calling and confirming with them, because I saw that some Countries have a different approach for Consular Processing.

The first thing to do after I-360 approval you have to send to Vermont form I-824( request for action on an approved petition)requesting them to forward the approval referent the children to the NVC. BE CAREFUL NOT TO ASK OR TO LIST YOUR NAME ON IT,otherwise they will forward you case to have interview abroad and you don't want that,list JUST your children. The Uscis will forward the approved I-360 after your request to the NVC and then NVC will forward to the us Consulate in your home Country .The Us Consulate will issue the immigrant visa for your children. You need to have someone smart and that you can trust in your home country to provide the documents that the US Consulate will ask regarding your children, the Us Consulate will send packet 3 and 4 with the instructions in your home Country and there are several forms they have to file out. I repeat myself CALL NVC first and make sure that in your home Country they use this kind of Consular Processing.Tell your children are living abroad and they are "derivative beneficiary" of your I-360, and your petition was approved. Ask if you should send form I-824 to Vermont asking them to send the case to the NVC, do not forget to inform that YOU ARE adjusting status in the USA, but your children will get their Green card abroad.

Disclaimer: The information provide here for me is educational only and should not be construed as legal advice.

Edited January 25, 2013 by sandranj

[rolin123 0]

Hello?

I haven't got any update such as notice of action for my VAWA case.

How do I withdrawal my case?

Anyone please advice

[finally26122012 20]

finally26122012 I advise you to call NVC before requiring Consular Processing for you children. I will tell you the steps the Immigration law states in order for consular processing, but as i said before do not follow what I am saying before calling and confirming with them, because I saw that some Countries have a different approach for Consular Processing.

The first thing to do after I-360 approval you have to send to Vermont form I-824( request for action on an approved petition)requesting them to forward the approval referent the children to the NVC. BE CAREFUL NOT TO ASK OR TO LIST YOUR NAME ON IT,otherwise they will forward you case to have interview abroad and you don't want that,list JUST your children. The Uscis will forward the approved I-360 after your request to the NVC and then NVC will forward to the us Consulate in your home Country .The Us Consulate will issue the immigrant visa for your children. You need to have someone smart and that you can trust in your home country to provide the documents that the US Consulate will ask regarding your children, the Us Consulate will send packet 3 and 4 with the instructions in your home Country and there are several forms they have to file out. I repeat myself CALL NVC first and make sure that in your home Country they use this kind of Consular Processing.Tell your children are living abroad and they are "derivative beneficiary" of your I-360, and your petition was approved. Ask if you should send form I-824 to Vermont asking them to send the case to the NVC, do not forget to inform that YOU ARE adjusting status in the USA, but your children will get their Green card abroad.

Disclaimer: The information provide here for me is educational only and should not be construed as legal advice.

thanks a lot sandra i will do as you advice me to cant wait to see my kids its been 4 + years getting ready for work now thanks again sandra :thumbs:

[Sandra G. 5,047]

jesse007 you don't have a case number yet then to send a request withdrawing without a case number will be a big problem, because they won't be able to match your request to your case. Set up an appointment with infopass to figure out your situation.Good luck.

[Sandra G. 5,047]

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Edited January 26, 2013 by sandranj

[nids 0]

HI everyone ..

I sent my petition on 1/22 rcvd at vermont 1/24. wish me luck

[Bless_me 1]

Hi Everyone!! I am new here in Visa Journey. Ive been reading all the post here and i realize i am not alone. I Just started my Journey, I want to share my Timeline i recently Applied VAWA November 27, 2012 same as with my i-485 and i-765 I use Category©(31) and I havent receive my Biometric appointment just wondering if any one here who have the same timeline?

[lorphelpme 9]

Hi everyone hope you guys have been getting good news I have been so caught up with finding my evidence for my RFE I received. Am taking my time to do a thorough job. I will be back more frequent when I send my response to vsc but you guys are forever on my mind. Loveme,liveurlife, sisi, butterflies. Etc. (cant remember everyones name but you know yourselves) how's everything going with your case.

Sandranj hope everything is great and keep up the good work of helping us out here with information.

Dominique congrats with approval. 2013 is our year guys more approvals to come and I will be back like I use to be soon by February keep me in ur prayers likewise I will do the same.

Good luck guys Lordhelpme

Edited January 26, 2013 by lorphelpme

[Brian1967## 119]

Sandra, need you help my soon to be ex immigrant wife assaulted me ) I have police report) she has removed all paperwork from home filed a false VAWA claim, I have much proof of fraud and abuse on her part. How can I get all this Papeete in her immigration file since I do not have her a#? Will you help a battered USC? Thanks

[rolin123 0]

I'm getting married in march. Doesn't getting married automatically end your vawa case?

Or do we need to write a letter and tell them?

jesse007 you don't have a case number yet then to send a request withdrawing without a case number will be a big problem, because they won't be able to match your request to your case. Set up an appointment with infopass to figure out your situation.Good luck.