Feminism’s Ultimate Betrayal – The Madonna Syndrome

[TracyTN 237]

Take the Mormon's for example...

Ok, Mitt.

Oh - uh, er...

[Trompe le Monde 1,107]

Take the Mormon's for example...

So we should be more like the Mormons? No coffee or booze for you then.

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

So we should be more like the Mormons? No coffee or booze for you then.

Here's a stallion watching over his herd of mares and foals. The stallion makes the decisions for that herd along with being the protector.

Edited November 6, 2012 by Bad_Daddy

[Trompe le Monde 1,107]

Farm animals? I'll try and reserve my judgement, different strokes and all that.

Edited November 6, 2012 by Trompe le Monde

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

Farm animals? I'll try and reserve my judgement, different strokes and all that.

Who knows if the guy in this pic is a Mormon or not.

[Trompe le Monde 1,107]

You know - if you want to join the mormons they have armies of recruiters just waiting to sign you up

[scotinmass 588]

Here's a stallion watching over his herd of mares and foals. The stallion makes the decisions for that herd along with being the protector.

And he protects them without using a weapon of any kind.

[Darnell 8,478]

For the playwright back in Post #1 - if'n she wanted to have a child, there's nothing preventing her from so doing.

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

For the playwright back in Post #1 - if'n she wanted to have a child, there's nothing preventing her from so doing.

Children should be raised in a two parent environment . Preferably with their biological father and mother. That means male father and female mother. Child rearing is in the mothers sphere.

[Darnell 8,478]

It's easy for her to get a man for coitus and subsequent cohabitation. Choices are easy to make, she's at a cusp at the moment to make a new choice.

Agree?

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

It's easy for her to get a man for coitus and subsequent cohabitation. Choices are easy to make, she's at a cusp at the moment to make a new choice.

Agree?

It's also proven that kids that are raised in that messed up kind of situation end up being basket cases more times than naught.

[Penny Lane 8,159]

Children should be raised in a two parent environment . Preferably with their biological father and mother. That means male father and female mother. Child rearing is in the mothers sphere.

Says you. Luckily, you don't make the "rules" for everyone and people do just fine without following them or living their lives to meet your standards. Live and let live, I promise you'll be much happier.

Edited November 6, 2012 by Evylin

[Darnell 8,478]

It's also proven that kids that are raised in that messed up kind of situation end up being basket cases more times than naught.

From what I read, the playwright really intends to change her situation and NOT raise children the way her mother did.

Perhaps I'm wrong?

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2151842/Sorry-sisters--women-DO-want-men-providers.html

Sorry sisters - women DO want men to be providers

By SANDRA PARSONS

PUBLISHED: 17:55 EST, 29 May 2012 | UPDATED: 18:04 EST, 29 May 2012

Well, I could have saved them the trouble, but research from America claims that most women instinctively want a man who will provide for them.

Evolutionary biologists have discovered, it seems, that the nuclear family evolved when men discovered women preferred males who provided for them and their children to those who were constantly clubbing each other in a battle for supremacy.

For thousands of years, this model of two parents, with the male looking after the female, proved successful — but new figures released by the Office of National Statistics to mark the Diamond Jubilee reveal that husband-providers have become an endangered species.

There are fewer marriages and four times more divorces today than in 1952, when the Queen acceded to the throne.

In 2012, a third of Britons live alone and the traditional nuclear family seems set to become almost as outdated as the Morris Minor (1952’s most popular car).

So what is going wrong? One factor, I suspect, is the rise of the career woman. In many ways, I’m all for this: after all, I am one myself, and I would certainly want my daughter to have a career and to be capable of providing for herself. But it’s had an undeniably emasculating effect on some men.

This, combined with the trend of more and more men staying at home to bring up the children while their high-earning wives go out to work, has changed the whole order of family life in many households — and placed an immense strain on many marriages.

Is this progress? Do we really want a world in which wives routinely make the money while their husbands become adept at managing the home, children and the supermarket shop?

When I married my husband, he was a junior doctor earning considerably less than me. For several years, I was the breadwinner — and when you know the mortgage is dependent on your salary, it gives you a different perspective on life.

It didn’t affect our marriage because I always knew the day would come when, as a consultant, my husband would earn more than me.

But a friend who is a mother of three recently went back to work full-time because her husband, a graphic designer, decided he’d rather work for himself than have his creativity compromised by working for a company.

She finds she can’t forgive him for failing to be the main provider, when he could be if he chose.

Of course, life is complicated, and a successful marriage is based on supporting each other through the bad times as well as the good. If a man’s been made redundant or has lost his job through ill-health, then it’s not only understandable but right that his wife take over the breadwinner’s role, if at all possible. But nothing will persuade me that men are better equipped than women to take on childcare — or that most men really want to. My husband is a loving father who was desperate to have children. He’s also a workaholic who’s never happier than when he’s working six days a week.

When I tell him that (like every working mother I know) I’m racked with guilt and worry endlessly about our children’s wellbeing, he’s genuinely amazed.

He never gives a second’s thought to  whether they’re eating enough fruit, getting enough sleep or have made enough friends.

He worries only when there’s something major to worry about, such as when they’re ill or unhappy. This is normal. A good father should have implacable determination to provide, the strength to protect and the stamina to survive.

I couldn’t care less how he manages in the supermarket (I already know the answer: barely). Because what’s far more important than being a good role model in the supermarket is to be a good role model as a man.

Edited November 6, 2012 by Bad_Daddy

[Darnell 8,478]

Says you. Luckily, you don't make the "rules" for everyone and people do just fine without following them or living their lives to meet your standards. Live and let live, I promise you'll be much happier.

Huh? Bad_Daddy (pbmh) makes the rules for everyone, it says so, right there on the label.

Of course, the onus is on everyone to follow His Rules , right ?