I got a call from consulate

[Tough_Era 71]

Take a look around you --- how many Moroccan grandmoms with kids are hooking up with Moroccan guys your age in your town/city/country?

If it's not socially acceptable in the country of the beneficiary, and in fact frowned upon in the beneficiary's country, it's a reason for refusal.

I don't care for society, society is

Don't ever let the society control you, there are wrong and bad things out there, Never allow yourself to be a victim by the society.

I don't accept no one's definition of my short life or their criticism.

The reason of my refusal is ME being here in this forum.

The reason of my behavior are some weird people here.

Don't let Society force us to choose who we love and marry, but society definitely influences who we feel comfortable choosing and that's enough to make us run from the person who may bring us the most happiness.. does anybody here want me to give up on this love and relationship?

[Tough_Era 71]

Alas, it's the CO that judged you. That judgement, by that person, is ultimately the one that counts.

We did make attempts to bring many things to your attention, in the prior months.

Nothings changed, those things still exist.

What those things still exist??

I'm here in this forum to ask for help and guidance, i get help and guidance, i appreciate that and i can't deny who help me, and i thank everybody, But Sometimes there are some weird people that show up and talk craps to me, mock etc.. and i can't just read post.. i love to write but i don't say bad things anymore, I did some mistakes in past.. i moved on and learnt some things but there are weirdos out there that bring past and keep blaming me for saying them.. like they're gonna change the fact i'm facing with consulate.. They only making it worst for me.. that's all i know.

[Peace.... 281]

Why do you copy and paste ####### on the Internet....seriously.

It is my belief that our restrictive, narrow-minded and heteronormative modern-western civilization is the LARGEST hindrance to human beings pursuit of TRUE love. As I sit back and think about my own life, I sometimes realize that I could EASILY be married with children right now – if we lived in a society that wasn’t so socially-restrictive when it comes to choosing a partner to be with. Now I’m NOT stating that society FORCES us to choose who we love and marry, but society DEFINITELY influences who we feel comfortable choosing, and THAT’S enough to make us run FROM the person who may bring us the most happiness.

[Tough_Era 71]

The fact that you are calling them and seem more eager for the visa than your fiance seems for you to have the visa, isn't a good sign for them, I'm sure.

Hmmmm? it's not good sign when you keep analyzing the situation when you don't know I and fiancees situation.

Hmmmm I think you didn't understand what i wrote in this topic.

Hmmm I tried but you didn't.

I'm sorry.

Why do you copy and paste ####### on the Internet....seriously.

It is my belief that our restrictive, narrow-minded and heteronormative modern-western civilization is the LARGEST hindrance to human beings pursuit of TRUE love. As I sit back and think about my own life, I sometimes realize that I could EASILY be married with children right now – if we lived in a society that wasn’t so socially-restrictive when it comes to choosing a partner to be with. Now I’m NOT stating that society FORCES us to choose who we love and marry, but society DEFINITELY influences who we feel comfortable choosing, and THAT’S enough to make us run FROM the person who may bring us the most happiness.

Hmmm you got me again. dang!

[Peace.... 281]

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Hmmmm? it's not good sign when you keep analyzing the situation when you don't know I and fiancees situation.

Hmmmm I think you didn't understand what i wrote in this topic.

Hmmm I tried but you didn't.

I'm sorry.

Hmmm you got me again. dang!

YEP I GOT YOU AGAIN.

[Tough_Era 71]

YEP I GOT YOU AGAIN.

I remembered the song of THE KINKS - You really got me girl. hahaha.

[sandinista! 1,816]

Well, I don't like to bring religion in any kind of subject but i think it's time to

So, In my religion it's not dam forbidden to marry an older woman.

And the Prophet Mohamed married a woman much older than himself, So, if age mattered really then why would Prophet Mohamed marries Khadija.. what are you gonna tell me, would you ever try to change my beliefs?

Unfortunately some people have forgotten that and some never heard of it at all.

None of you has any reason or right to create confusion and mayhem in my thoughts and what i believe and want in this life.. just stop trying make me feel bad or ashamed of something that's not wrong at all ok?

For who that keeps mocking at me, remember that you're doing something wrong here by mocking at others, cause it's none of your business, neither your problem.

I don't have to explain why i'm wanting kids or not, this is my business.

Loving someone or Being with whoever i want is not your dam problem.

I don't even talk about your life or criticize you, I don't waste time and put my nose into others life, choices and decision they took.

if you care of what society thinks about you through a decision you made that's your problem if you believe that's wrong and ashamed thing to marry someone older than you.

I will not allow a society of brain-farts to cloud who I am.

you left out those of us who know enough to realize that the likes of you and your fiancee have NOTHING to do with two of the greatest individuals that have ever walked this earth. and those of us who want to throw up at the very thought of you dragging their names into any discussion of your hot mess of a "relationship". just don't. go there. at all.

[Tough_Era 71]

you left out those of us who know enough to realize that the likes of you and your fiancee have NOTHING to do with two of the greatest individuals that have ever walked this earth. and those of us who want to throw up at the very thought of you dragging their names into any discussion of your hot mess of a "relationship". just don't. go there. at all.

Please don't tell me where to go and where not.

I was trying to remind some people that i'm not doing anything wrong. and that i don't care about this weird society or new way of thinking of things are not wrong.

why you called it YOUR HOT MESS OF A RELATIONSHIP? what do you want from me here??

Edited November 5, 2012 by zagray

[Mithra 1,185]

By talking ####### do you mean telling you that you are the problem in this situation? If so, I guess I'm talking #######. Report me. I don't need any immigration help as my husband has been in this country for 5 yrs, has had his permanent residency for over 4. Mostly due to the fact that both of us took the visa and our life together seriously and my husband wasn't dumb enough to go to public forums to talk about peeping out COs' breasts and post perverted, amateur "poetry". So report me, I'm not around here enough to notice or give a #######, frankly. PS: no amount of "help" from ppl on this forum is going to get you your visa until you and your "fiancee" help yourselves and take life seriously.

I will figure out why i got denied ok?

I'm who i'm, Born this way, You don't have to LIKE me ok?

You help i say thank you.

You talk ####### i will push the button Report.

Edited November 5, 2012 by Mithra

[Mithra 1,185]

No kidding. Comparing this "relationship" to the Prophet and his wife is a sacrilege IMO and I'm not even religious.

you left out those of us who know enough to realize that the likes of you and your fiancee have NOTHING to do with two of the greatest individuals that have ever walked this earth. and those of us who want to throw up at the very thought of you dragging their names into any discussion of your hot mess of a "relationship". just don't. go there. at all.

[Tough_Era 71]

By talking ####### do you mean telling you that you are the problem in this situation? If so, I guess I'm talking #######. Report me. I don't need any immigration help as my husband has been in this country for 5 yrs, has had his permanent residency for over 4. Mostly due to the fact that both of us took the visa and our life together seriously and my husband wasn't dumb enough to go to public forums to talk about peeping out COs' breasts and post perverted, amateur "poetry". So report me, I'm not around here enough to notice or give a #######, frankly. PS: no amount of "help" from ppl on this forum is going to get you your visa until you and your "fiancee" help yourselves and take life seriously.

I'm so sorry.

[Tough_Era 71]

No kidding. Comparing this "relationship" to the Prophet and his wife is a sacrilege IMO and I'm not even religious.

DOn't ever compare someone with prophets.. that's not good at all.

i wanted to tell people that it's not about society for me it's about what my religion said.. I don't listen to none of you or whoever who believe i'm doing something wrong.. Only god knows my intention and the situation i'm in and what we're going though with fiancee.

[khwaidee1 196]

I don't care for society, society is

Don't ever let the society control you, there are wrong and bad things out there, Never allow yourself to be a victim by the society.

I don't accept no one's definition of my short life or their criticism.

The reason of my refusal is ME being here in this forum.

The reason of my behavior are some weird people here.[[/b]u][/u]

Don't let Society force us to choose who we love and marry, but society definitely influences who we feel comfortable choosing and that's enough to make us run from the person who may bring us the most happiness.. does anybody here want me to give up on this love and relationship?

You do know there is a very simple solution to the above problems, right?

Edited November 5, 2012 by khwaidee1

[Harpa Timsah 13,258]

You copy/pasted AGAIN? Aren't you ashamed of yourself? Can you think for yourself?

I also recall your thread titled something like "older women are the hottest," a declaration to cougar-love.

You and your copy/paste are PHONY.

Also, you don't speak English, you admitted that you and your fiance just communicate on chat. I bet you copy/paste your declarations of love. That is another reason for denial.

In short, you were denied because this relationship and so many other things are FAKE.

[Peace.... 281]

1352156553[/url]' post='5803194']

DOn't ever compare someone with prophets.. that's not good at all.

i wanted to tell people that it's not about society for me it's about what my religion said.. I don't listen to none of you or whoever who believe i'm doing something wrong.. Only god knows my intention and the situation i'm in and what we're going though with fiancee.

I have a question for you zagray....Why are you here? You said before you don't have a religion nor pray, so why speak of the Prophet Mohammed if you have no religion?