My Fiancee Has a Serious Health Issue

[MuDelphi 159]

The way things are going in this country, China is looking better every day! Except for learning that impossible language...

That's ridiculous.

[unlockingsky 94]

learning takes time. thats why language is a skill

[Bumbero 131]

Glad to hear it was nothing serious! Good luck on the rest of your journey!

[MuDelphi 159]

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Edited November 21, 2012 by MuDelphi

[Ban Hammer 13,970]

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[Ontarkie 14,785]

Off topic post removed, you have been told to stay on topic or not post, One member thread banned.

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[Darnell 8,479]

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nottoomuchtosay88 - I feel for ya, brother, I really do.. With some luck, she can make a decision quickly on 'what's next' .

[notmuch88tosay 21]

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nottoomuchtosay88 - I feel for ya, brother, I really do.. With some luck, she can make a decision quickly on 'what's next' .

Hi Darnell,

Thanks for your support. I appreciate it very much.

My latest trip to China really, helped, I think. The last week that I was there helped especially, I think. It was just me and her together and we got along really well, laughing alot (and had wild sex often also, of course).

Now that I am home, she seems to be opening up more and talks about being with me fairly often. She also apologized to me for what happened when I went there. So I think the next time I go to China, she will marry me at that time.

Of course I will try to get some cooperation and a commitment from her before I go to China again.

There are no guarantees in relationships or in life so all I can do is try and keep my fingers crossed.

Thanks again,

notmuch88tosay

Edited November 27, 2012 by notmuch88tosay

[Ryan H 3,854]

so all I can do is try and keep my fingers crossed.

Good luck to you.

From a process standpoint, the more time you can spend together, the better your case when the time comes for review (to paraphrase Pushbrk, time spent together in person is the best evidence of a legitimate relationship).

[notmuch88tosay 21]

Good luck to you.

From a process standpoint, the more time you can spend together, the better your case when the time comes for review (to paraphrase Pushbrk, time spent together in person is the best evidence of a legitimate relationship).

Hi Ryan H,

Thanks for your reply and support. Thanks also for the info. I do appreciate it.

Take care,

notmuch88tosay