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[Jenn! 918]

I think this is the first time EVER I've agreed with Charles.

[tmma 467]

I think this is the first time EVER I've agreed with Charles.

It's impossible not to agree with him on this one-he is debating BOTH sides of the arguement.

Plus he said Lisa was right. He is correct.

Edited November 1, 2006 by tmma

[Jenn! 918]

I think this is the first time EVER I've agreed with Charles.

It's impossible not to agree with him on this one-he is arguing both sides of the arguement.

Plus he said Lisa was right. He is correct.

No, it's just some people like to tell others how they should/shouldn't feel about things. I.e. You shouldn't be offended by something someone says on a msg board because if you are you're just a big loser.

Whatever, I'm so tired of the same old same old. LisaD is right my ###.

Edited November 1, 2006 by jenn3539

[Fandango 1,439]

I think this is the first time EVER I've agreed with Charles.

Aww TY Jenn I'm all warm inside from your love

But Charles...again, I am not bickering with you. Why can't you see that? I think you're being a bit beligerant here because you have nothing else to say.

i don't believe anyone here makes the choice in a SO to please someone else, do they? it's to make themself happy and certainly not you.

if you believe this, then why does Sarah's comment upset you?

I think this is the first time EVER I've agreed with Charles.

It's impossible not to agree with him on this one-he is arguing both sides of the arguement.

Plus he said Lisa was right. He is correct.

No, it's just some people like to tell others how they should/shouldn't feel about things. I.e. You shouldn't be offended by something someone says on a msg board because if you are you're just a big loser.

Charles is the one who said what I quoted about making yourself happy and not worrying about others....if he truly believes this, then where is the issue???

Whatever, I'm so tired of the same old same old. LisaD is right my ###.

Careful, you might upset me

[Jenn! 918]

Charles is the one who said what I quoted about making yourself happy and not worrying about others....if he truly believes this, then where is the issue???

Whatever, I'm so tired of the same old same old. LisaD is right my ###.

Careful, you might upset me

Well, I guess I don't agree with Charles about everything then. I'll back up, I agree with Stina way back when.

[morocco4ever 63]

I think this is the first time EVER I've agreed with Charles.

Aww TY Jenn I'm all warm inside from your love

But Charles...again, I am not bickering with you. Why can't you see that? I think you're being a bit beligerant here because you have nothing else to say.

i don't believe anyone here makes the choice in a SO to please someone else, do they? it's to make themself happy and certainly not you.

if you believe this, then why does Sarah's comment upset you?

I think this is the first time EVER I've agreed with Charles.

It's impossible not to agree with him on this one-he is arguing both sides of the arguement.

Plus he said Lisa was right. He is correct.

No, it's just some people like to tell others how they should/shouldn't feel about things. I.e. You shouldn't be offended by something someone says on a msg board because if you are you're just a big loser.

Charles is the one who said what I quoted about making yourself happy and not worrying about others....if he truly believes this, then where is the issue???

Possibly it hurts someone who is more sensitive than others of us.

[Ban Hammer 13,346]

I think this is the first time EVER I've agreed with Charles.

I think this is the first time EVER I've agreed with Charles.

It's impossible not to agree with him on this one-he is debating BOTH sides of the arguement.

Plus he said Lisa was right. He is correct.

no, i'm not debating both sides.

[Jenn! 918]

Possibly it hurts someone who is more sensitive than others of us.

Yeah, I'm really having a hard time understanding the whole mentailty, "I would not be offended if someone said xyz to me, therefore if you are offended by it, you are being overly sensitive."

[Together4ever 1]

When the only respect an individual carries is for his own opinion/space, its likely to come back around to haunt him/her.

[Ban Hammer 13,346]

i don't believe anyone here makes the choice in a SO to please someone else, do they? it's to make themself happy and certainly not you.

if you believe this, then why does Sarah's comment upset you?

the comment above was in regards to her mother picking someone younger, and given that, there is no need for a person need to make comments about who a person chooses.

you're hardly one to not take offense about things, lisa. it seems you've taken offense with just about everyone on this board at one time or another, including me. one day we hear you remark negatively about the snowflakes, gumdrops and unicorn brigade and now i'm hearing i should not be offended when someone makes a comment which directly includes my relationship with nessa as being "gross" and 'abnormal" due to her and my age difference. i'm certain that such a remark, if floated in certain regional rooms, would generate an uproar.

[Fandango 1,439]

Possibly it hurts someone who is more sensitive than others of us.

I'm not addressing everyone with what I'm talking to Charles about. But I can't understand how people straddle both sides

for example:

x: you're young and inexperienced (alluding to the fact that her opinion isn't valid)

x again: you've offended me with your opinion!!!

scenario #2:

X: I am in a relationship for myself and our happiness and couldn't care less about pleasing you

X again: your opinion of my relationship offends me!

These two scenarios straddle both sides of the argument...either her opinion is meaningless or it's valid, but it can't be both.

[Kez/JWolf 6]

Wow its so good to see you girls at at your usual standard.... topics are closed and you just move it on to the next and continue as if nothing should change....

You amaze me....

Kezzie

[Jenn! 918]

One thing that has always bothered me is when people tell me that what I'm about to eat looks gross. I used to eat some funky ethnic foods and I would get, "OMG, you're actually gonna eat that? That looks nasty." I can't imagine saying that to someone as they're about to put the food in their mouth. Does it ultimately matter whether you think what I'm eating is gross? No. But would I prefer not to hear it? Yes.

Now if I feel this way about someone telling me what I'm eating is gross...you fill in the rest.

[Bosco 1]

I am not trying to stir up a new debate.... but I am curious as to how everyone is defining abnormal.

[Jenn! 918]

I am not trying to stir up a new debate.... but I am curious as to how everyone is defining abnormal.

I think there's a big difference between abnormal and gross. Abnormal to me means, "out of the norm" or "not common". Not an insult in itself, IMO.