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1) Missing the point, Gowon...2) Are you reading what I wrote, or 3)is your understanding of sex something that men just do to women? 4)If so, I feel sorry for your wife/fiancee...

1) No I'm not. You're either too dense or just pretending to be.

2) I did.

3) Did I say that?

4) No need to feel sorry for us, we're good. You see my Fiancee isn't a controlling person (there's a word I want to use but I am afraid of the wrath of Charles) that use sex as a bargaining chip or a reward.

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Someone is going out of their way to make a straw-man rape accusation against a man who used perfectly reasonable wording to express a wife's refusal to consummate the marriage. He obviously knows he is not entitled to have sex against her will, because he didn't. So why are you pretending he needs to be told that? He is choosing to separate from her.

Actually, the law is clear that neither man nor woman is entitled to marriage without consummating it, all over the world. The irony is that YOU are the one who needs to be told that sex is an integral part of marriage, actually a formal part of the definition. That is why an annullment rather than divorce can be based upon a refusal to consummate.

So now to pre-empt what is obviously going to be your pet response: didn't you know that sex is something men and women share mutually? I am tired of your attitude that it is something women just do to men against their will.

I agree.

You would have thought that OP wrote that he forces himself on his Wife nightly as a duty.