he cancel my interview and visa

[gerlie dela cruz 0]

i know,my 3 of friends here and most of them saying to fight for us,i try all my best but he live on his anger and giving up on us.il be go home when im already heal by being brokenhearted.i know its done to him i still contnue my life.this is a big lesson that dont believe easy to a sweet word in the frst and give ur whole urself without doubtng,its verry simple fight but he made it big and give up evrything.i fight for us now its not worth anymore he should know that,all i did i love a wrong person that causes my pain and hurts in my life.we been fight for almst 1 1/2 yrs only days was closer we will be togther again.maybe he already found some1 thats why he decide to give up all.im okay right now.il stay here in manila till i move on,il work here again.life must go on i have a child who needs me.

[rlogan 2,036]

My God how horrible for you. He must not have been the one. Despite how awful it is, the problems may have been worse if you married him. I hope that you find the strength to go on. That'w right your child is the most important thing to take care of. It sounds like the fight was an excuse to leave you.

[gerlie dela cruz 0]

there were times its time to be tired to fight some1 u love that u dont want to give up,even i try my best to save it will nver be worth if he is the 1 giving up.i thank his family who tried their best to help me to save our relationship but its never work it,his family verry nice treating me.they are sad for what happen what can we do if he doesnt want anymore to fixed i should live in pains and hurts being brokenhearted.its not not easy to heal and trust again.if he realy love me he will fight for us.never give up.thats life i should learn on it brave to face my new life.he hurt me so much that can never be heal by some1 anymore.i will stop loving,takes long time to be heal.its not worth for him i try my best to save it.maybe he will realized it soon when im gone in his life.we did all sacrifice to finshed our papers but he throw all what we plan for us.the best i will do was to walkaway and leave him in peace.i dont wnt to chase it.if he realy love me he will comeback.im loosing hope already to fixed of us.i did try my best but it was not worth to him.i thanks all the concern and advice to all fellow here in vjs.he was not his fault it was not my fault too we are just destiny to be hurt forever.even how much we love each other.wish all of vjs here get some tip for my trials now.if ever u love some1 whatever happens no matter what happens how complicated it is never never give up the 1 u love,regret is the most hardest feeling when u lose it some1 u love.and never compromise too ur woman it will be hurt to them to be hope and u will leave.dont worry fellow il be fine.i just need more confidence.i appreciate this posting in vjs.to all i meet in st lukes last oct16 its sad i can longer see u in embassy on nov2 my interview was cancel by my fiance i should respect it.thank u for evrything and to my fiance i wish u the best.i dont hate u for being hurt me.i need to accept it.for the 1 1/2 yrs we been togther its been a nice part of my life.u are nice its not my fault if u change ur mind im not holding whats ur hearts truly feelings if ever u inlove already im happy for u.i learned it.life must go on.i will send what u want just send my things comeback here.godbless is with me always he wont leave me in my struggles in life.

[aamirpearl 47]

Sorry to hear your situation

[gerlie dela cruz 0]

thank u for all the concern fellow vjs im doin fine now.im alright now.i accept it will never fixed it.im already keeping all the papers and our rings wedding dress.so i dont see any memories of him,he is a weak person he never fight for us,he give up easily.its fine now.im alright.i accept it.he need to move on too.i try my best i chase him.he knows it how i try to save us.

[VirtualLee 12]

thank u for ur concerned im now totaly try to move on and forget him i tried my best to save us but he never listen maybe he used me after he give me hope and leave me in the verry final days our visa interview.my father want me stay here in manila they think what happen in me now i feel ashame on it.i will move on i wont chase him he will realized it soon that he did made a wrong decision.im the 1 was the most affected cause we both finaly ready for our wedding and he decide leave it was only his reason theres a big reason for that why he cancel all,i want him to be honest with me tell me the truth that he found already.im done now im goin to move on its not only 1 man on this earth he hurt me he leave me he made me brokenhearted and hope for nothing all the effort i did and my daughter was not worth it.i learned on this lesson not to believe easy and give urself easily because of their sweet words,i did love him but he hurt me too much now.evrything happens in a reason theres more deserving man for me,more than him.he will realized it soon how much he lose me,.thank u fellow vj.the verry soon i will meet the better than him.he need gods he was not religious person.i wish him the best luck he need to learn to pray and go church and put god in his heart.

Sorry to hear about your relationship... We have no idea what really happened but seems you two got problems way back... Your fiance's post > http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/364544-how-to-cancel-k-1-visa-process/page__p__5770048__fromsearch__1#entry5770048

Edited October 28, 2012 by VirtualLee

[gerlie dela cruz 0]

salamat po sa mga concern nyo,god will make a way.ayoko po umwi po kc po khhyan lng po ng pmlya ko inaalala ko like my dad say stay manila it means he wanted me not to see anyone of my relatives il be burden only to them ayoko nmn po idamay anak ko sa kahhyan.lhat po nlng ng kaibgan ko d2 s mnla hlos mnghina ko sa mga cnsbi nla ultimo yaya ng anak ko cnb skn hnd dw b ko mhhya umwi at ttwanan lng ko nga mga kmganak ko at iniwan nya ako at pinaasa.pra po ngunaw ang mundo ko s tuwing my comment cla nghhnyang cla lhat,kht ano gwn ko hnd n maibblik pa wla ko ngwang mali nanwala agad ko ksalan ko ba mgmhal at umasa at humantong sa gntong situasyon,hind ko po ineexpect.at pti anak ko ngsacifice nrn.hnd ko mbnggit sknya kc bta pa anak ko mg 4yrs old plng xa.pero alm nya na ppnta km states na ksma daddy nya at ssunduin km.ni hlos wla km dla gmit kc naipdla lhat sa america ayw nya ipdla smn un gmt nmn dito.snod snod p nmn un mga vaccine nmn dlwa mula last mnth till last oct16 to 19.anlki po ng damages sa buhay s ngyri awang awa ko sa anak ko.kc nkkta nya ako 3 days nko hnd mktulog mkkain umiiyak nyyakap nlng nya ko cnsbi nlng mama ilove u and hugs kiss nya ako.plg nya nbbngit un daddy nya at mameet un mga lola at lolo nya.kso wla n po km mggwa dhl xa ang gmve up pglban ko mn d n xa mkkng.kht hlos mgmkaawa ko sknya.hnd ko na po alm if ittpon ko nlng wedding dress ko wedding ring nmn 2.umasa km ng anak ko drtng xa sa nov7 sa isng iglab nglaho lhat.15 hrs km ngbyhe ng anak ko ngrent aprt d2 till dmtng xa.prayers nlng need ko sa lhat.

[Loolie 56]

Felt so sorry for what happened. Felt so sorry for your kid too. I can understand why you dont want to go back to your province. Just always be strong. Just look at it like this... That its good that your still in the philippines because you have the support of your family and its easy for you and your kid to move on. Unlike if youre already here in the US and your fiance decide to leave you it will be much harder for you and your kid to move on because your family wont be there for you. God bless you.

[gerlie dela cruz 0]

until now when i see those memories its flashed all the pains and hurts kasi ang hirap imove on un ganitong situation,try ko ang best ko,pra s anak mrming mrming salamat po sainyong lahat na nagppalakas ng loob ko kahit npksakit man ngyri tntry ko mgng strong for my daughter.memories that he gives to me hard to heal and no can ever heal and no can ever change his position to my heart he knows it how much i love him i know how much he love me.what comes all pains hurts he gave to me what comes all the tears he gave to me i just let him know he was still there in my heart no 1 can change it.

[Pinay_ako052327 0]

Im so sorry . I couldn't imagine myself to be in ur shoes right now. . Sana maayos pa. Keep urself busy and iuwi mo muna yung anak mo para makapag work ka pansamantala.. I know mahirap maka pagmove on, pero trust me u eventually will. Im hoping and praying na sana magimg strong ka para sa baby mo. If you need someone to take to im just here. message me anytime.

[gerlie dela cruz 0]

salamat po sa mga concern,masakit till now iniiyak ko nlng sa loob kc nkkta ko ng ank ko umiiyak like kanna mama bkt po hnd na mtuloy kasal mo.iniwas ko nlng at ngmall km 2 pra maaliw xa,mahal na mahal ko anak ko ayw ko mrmdmn nya nrrmdmn ko.mahal n mahal ko parin daddy niya kya ko pa rin xa tnggapin.kht nsktan nya ako.

[CatSam 0]

Sorry to hear that gerlie. We dont know what happened with your relationship but please move on and u don't have to beg him. Be strong for ur kiddo, God has plans for you. Don't mind your neighbors/relatives in the province, go back home and pretend nothing happened. It will take time to heal. Godbless.

[gerlie dela cruz 0]

it will be okay,il stay here in city for awhile so i can have time to heal for those pains,its hard cause i love him so much,but i respect his decision,until now im still crying my child asking why i dont get married.its so hard to explain,evryone asking me and i cnt stop crying insde of my hearts the pains was hard to heal.all i wanted is he will comeback and hug me again say never leave me again,but its not will happen,

[Removed-02242014 19]

In as much as I feel for your situation Gerlie -- this is why it is called and engagement. One sentence stuck out in your paragraph and that you were arguing for a year and a half. Marriage does not solve problems, in fact it just makes things more difficult.

I once witnessed a groom cancel a wedding at the alter with 3/4 of the ceremony completed. The officiating pastor reminded us that while it was a tragedy, the couple were lucky that they didn't marry and have children. This marriage would have been doomed from the start. Whenever a door is closed another one opens. Maybe not right now -- but soon.

Remember that unlike traditional relationships all of us here get to spend little time actually with our fiancee - making relationships go the distance. Some people here have one visit to their fiancee's country. How many of you would marry traditionally with only a week or two of actual time together. You are lucky (it doesn't feel like it right now) to have these events happen while still in your home country.

[gerlie dela cruz 0]

thank u mam,for evrything makes me strong,god will always there for me.