I am denied

[Dana and Divine 61]

So sorry! I know what you mean about marrying just to prove you love him. You want your wedding day to be special and you want to have it where you want to have it. I pray all works out well for you and Kingsley. God is able to supply your every need.

[jenniferjones101 19]

So sorry Where there's a will, there's a way and I hope you find your way together soon!

[2HeartsR1 1]

Sorry for the wait.. but it's a no for us... Yes.. my kingsley is highly upset. I can't get through to him bad connection.. but what he managed to say before breaking down on the phone. Was everything was fine then she kept going back to the file, and focusing on my sons father. She was trying to get him t believe that we are still together.. That the reason I never took the job in Qatar(how kingsley and I meet) Is because I must still be in love with my son's father. Even though, though I included a copy of my promotion and promotion pay in the file as to why I turned down the job. and even though My sons father is engaged and slated to be married in the spring.. I'm hurt the most because of all the things the could have flagged me for me being older, a short window to have more kids, or etc. The trumphed up some bullshit excuse... Sooo I'm not sure what to do know.. I have no problem marrying him now, but feel that it won't be the same..Like I'm doing it to prove to "them" we love each other.. Not sure if I can appeal, or write to congressman, or what.. Sooo goodluck to the next ones in line... By the way my school blocks face book so please feel free to post in the African married groups we are a part of..

Peace,

Chi

I know the disappointment must feel overwhelming right now, but this is only a temporary delay. God has the final say! I know you will process what happened and bounce back into action and will overcome the second round. It is never over until God says it is over. God will lead you and your husband in the next steps to take. Many prayers are with you. Waiting on good news very soon! God bless.

[mz.t 1]

So sorry to hear this! I hope somethings opens up for you guys, so that you can be together. I will be praying for you both.

[Dazzie 1]

Sorry for the wait.. but it's a no for us... Yes.. my kingsley is highly upset. I can't get through to him bad connection.. but what he managed to say before breaking down on the phone. Was everything was fine then she kept going back to the file, and focusing on my sons father. She was trying to get him t believe that we are still together.. That the reason I never took the job in Qatar(how kingsley and I meet) Is because I must still be in love with my son's father. Even though, though I included a copy of my promotion and promotion pay in the file as to why I turned down the job. and even though My sons father is engaged and slated to be married in the spring.. I'm hurt the most because of all the things the could have flagged me for me being older, a short window to have more kids, or etc. The trumphed up some bullshit excuse... Sooo I'm not sure what to do know.. I have no problem marrying him now, but feel that it won't be the same..Like I'm doing it to prove to "them" we love each other.. Not sure if I can appeal, or write to congressman, or what.. Sooo goodluck to the next ones in line... By the way my school blocks face book so please feel free to post in the African married groups we are a part of..

Peace,

Chi

I am sorry for what happened to you and your loved ones. but dont give up. last year in semptember, My husband was denied the fiance visa, so I went home the same month and we did the court marriage, I came back and reapplied, and by the grace of God was approved for the CR-1 visa yesterday. It can be done, all hope is not lost. I know its not fair but if you go the fiance way again, it could turned downed again. So just calm down, it will be fine. Get legal advice or hire an attorney to help this time, Go back home as soon as you can, do the court marriage and reapply. I know it looks like a long time, I felt that way too last year, but before you know it, hes here. Please dont give up.

[BrockUK 26]

I am so sorry that you are going through this. It must be painful enough to prove to a complete stranger that you love your partner, but then for it to be thrown back in your face is a nothing thing.

Don't give up! Your love will prevail! If you cannot wait to refile (which I am sure you can't, and I don't blame you!) then just get married and go down the other path to happiness!

Good Luck!!

[chikings 27]

I am sorry for what happened to you and your loved ones. but dont give up. last year in semptember, My husband was denied the fiance visa, so I went home the same month and we did the court marriage, I came back and reapplied, and by the grace of God was approved for the CR-1 visa yesterday. It can be done, all hope is not lost. I know its not fair but if you go the fiance way again, it could turned downed again. So just calm down, it will be fine. Get legal advice or hire an attorney to help this time, Go back home as soon as you can, do the court marriage and reapply. I know it looks like a long time, I felt that way too last year, but before you know it, hes here. Please dont give up.

Dazzie , I was hoping I can discuss with you your refiling process. I plan to be married in Nov. would love to hear how your complied all your evidence and other important documents..

Chi

[ujunnanna 2]

So sorry to hear that, I can understand how you feel. My case is at NVC undergoing administravive processing now and I feel like #######...I can understand how you feel. Cant the denial be appealed?

[Dazzie 1]

Definitely, I would love to help, in any way I can. Just send me a message. I am glad, that u have made up your mind on what to do.. It is well. God will make a way. So pls feel free to ask as many question as you want, I will be very happy to help. Take care.