Gallup: 3.4% of Americans are LGBT. 8% of women aged 18-29 are LGBT.

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

But he was funny. Give him points for that.

Don't feed his ego or were all going to be in trouble.

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

BTW: When I was single, I always found it easier to seduce a woman already in a relationship, than one that was unattached. I remember one lady that was living with one of my soon to be ex-friends, came back for another visit. She told me, "You know that thing you like? Well, I started doing that to ________, and he asked me, 'Where in the hell did you learn to do that?' So, I lied."

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

I would think a lot of it depends on if the wife wanted to include her husband.

Well maybe sometimes she does and maybe sometimes she doesn't. But if she is honest and open, then what do you thik?

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

:bonk::bonk::bonk: and one more time for good measure

Opps was that a pun

Seriously Is thier a group of men in here that would be ok with their wife being with another man ???. That has to be a very small percentage that would be ok with that.

You would have to be very secure in your own relationship. But if she wants to have sex with another man, or woman, just for fun, I would rather not be lied to about it, because they WILL lie about it and do it anyway if that is what they want. But it is something that only an individul couple can decide.

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

Well maybe sometimes she does and maybe sometimes she doesn't. But if she is honest and open, then what do you thik?

Honesty only gets you so far in life. I tried it once so I can speak from experience. She would be down the road and I would be on the hunt for my future mute Ukrainian gymnast.

[decocker 7,198]

Honesty only gets you so far in life. I tried it once so I can speak from experience. She would be down the road and I would be on the hunt for my future mute Ukrainian gymnast.

holy sh*t.. haha

i know i'm probably not welcome in this conversation but, i think some people - male or female - no matter how comfortable they are in their own sexuality, or relationship - can't or don't have any desire for casual sex outside of the relationship they're in. i'm a pretty secluded person and interacting with others face to face is completely exhausting to me. even if my husband was like, have at it - do who you do - i would definitely prefer to be content with what i already have and call it a day..

and being female, i can say that girls are hot. visually it is very easy to be attracted to females. but i am completely unattracted to the thought of physically getting down with another female. and i'm pretty certain that if i ever did something like that drunk, i'd have a real hard time coming to terms with it the next day, month, years. but again, that might just be my personality.

i do find it interesting how men are okay with girl on girl - but go into full body revulsion at the thought of guy on guy and letting it slide..is it that guys don't see another girl as a threat?

[sly_wolf 199]

He is wrong. I assure you.

Trendy, hip, cool, the feeling that when WOMEN hit on you (a woman), then you are REALLY hot because "every man is just a horn-dog, what do you expect? But when a sometimes bi woman throws down on you, oh yeah...you still got it!" And if someone truly has the idea that "sex is just fun" there is not much to choose between the two sexes or why not just both at the same time? Why does one have to choose one or the other? That's called "flexible". I have also heard it called just "hyper sexual" or "try sexual" (Anything sexual, I will try it)

Sly Wolf is just a bit to insulated in his world, wherever that is (not Canada)

Insulated? It's amusing how you think you know anything about me.

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

holy sh*t.. haha

i do find it interesting how men are okay with girl on girl - but go into full body revulsion at the thought of guy on guy and letting it slide..is it that guys don't see another girl as a threat?

the gender of the other person my SO chose to have sex with would make no difference to me. It is not a matter of that. I am completely straight, but don't care what other people do. I am perfectly content with what I have, because, to be honest, there is about a 1 in 10000 chance anything else would be anything but a disappointment, and I am pretty much not guessing about that.

I just say that whatever two adults work out between themselves is, and should be, OK. It does not have to be the same as everyone else or the same as most people.

[sly_wolf 199]

So that means more beautiful, hyper sexual women for the men who can accept them and can love them enough to allow them their pleasures. More for the men that can be secure enough to not be threatened by a physical interaction, knowing that commitment is in the mind and soul.

I like your style.

I have no idea how you got to this. I was agreeing to another post.

[Danno 1,228]

I have no idea how you got to this. I was agreeing to another post.

You'll find when the topic gets close to sex..... Brother gary's posts are very agenda driven for some reason

no one knows why.

[sly_wolf 199]

You'll find when the topic gets close to sex..... Brother gary's posts are very agenda driven for some reason

no one knows why.

Yep. Sounds more like some love struck teenager.

[decocker 7,198]

the gender of the other person my SO chose to have sex with would make no difference to me. It is not a matter of that. I am completely straight, but don't care what other people do. I am perfectly content with what I have, because, to be honest, there is about a 1 in 10000 chance anything else would be anything but a disappointment, and I am pretty much not guessing about that.

I just say that whatever two adults work out between themselves is, and should be, OK. It does not have to be the same as everyone else or the same as most people.

i get you where stand and i agree, i was wondering more for the guys who blast male homosexuality (this makes them heathens, or weak for example) - but get hot and bothered and ready to rock about female homosexuality. for some reason most straight guys feel safe with one and not the other.

[OnMyWayID 1,489]

i get you where stand and i agree, i was wondering more for the guys who blast male homosexuality (this makes them heathens, or weak for example) - but get hot and bothered and ready to rock about female homosexuality. for some reason most straight guys feel safe with one and not the other.

Who is blasting male homosexuality and also hot on female homosexuality? I don't care if two guys go at it but I am not turned on by it or want any part of it. I have no problems if they feel the same about heterosexual or bisexuals. I personally find two women going at it hot, if my wife did not it would not be a deal breaker...

Edited October 19, 2012 by OnMyWayID

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

i get you where stand and i agree, i was wondering more for the guys who blast male homosexuality (this makes them heathens, or weak for example) - but get hot and bothered and ready to rock about female homosexuality. for some reason most straight guys feel safe with one and not the other.

Sorry, can't explain. I am comfortabe with whatever consenting adults want to do sexually, some of it is not for me. But I do see it as a cafeteria of sorts. Pick up and put on your tray what you like, pay for it, and enjoy. If something doesn't appea to you, let it be but who cares if someone else likes it?

As far as marriages, I think the main reason for divorce is that people are not commited to each other, they commit to a set of values someone else wrote, or THINK they did but maybe one or the other really couldn't. I think coupes just need to be up front about everything and if it is a deal breaker then break the deal before getting married and find someone that shares your lifelong values...they are out there. If you cannot promise NEVER to have sex with anyone else the rest of your life...then don't. Tell your partner..."Look, I cannot do that part, OK?" Not OK? Bye. OK? then lets go forth and stay married no matter what."

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

You'll find when the topic gets close to sex..... Brother gary's posts are very agenda driven for some reason

no one knows why.

No one needs to know.