Dennied under 212 a 6 c 1 !! DON'T KNOW HOW TO PROVE I DIDN'T DO IT!

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Marianna, there is no need to explain the "why's', you have gotten your answer on what your next step needs to be. Consult a lawyer if the two of you wish to continue the process.

There is a report button at the bottom left of each post,use it to ask the Mod to lock this topic, there is nothing else to gain to keep going over the same story over and over again.

How you live your life is no one business.

Edited October 11, 2012 by LIFE'SJOURNEY

[Mariana17 0]

Thank you for your words : life's journey

I'm already working on it. thank you for taking the time to respond to me.. Good luck I found the answers I wanted so you are right!

[Cathi 5,769]

aiidrian: same thing to you.. how was I supposed to know that I was yelling??? I didn't know that.. I said I was sorry !!! why aren't you reading what I say?? when i send emails I always do that.. and didn't know that I was yelling.. maybe it's the same when Emailing ppl. Idk.. and I said I didnt have a life.. because I did not work, I did no have money, I did not go anywhere.. I was literally sitting at home the whole time... knowing that I was not doing the right thing. my boyfriend was gone all day at work.. that's why I meant.. why do I want to go back?? I honestly think it would be easier if he moves to my country but he has a son so that's not an option... just want to be with him... thanks.

I told you at the beginning of this thread you were yelling wiht caps on.. You are in denial, and you won;t find sympathy from those of us who did things the legal and honest way. You won;t admit the fact that living here with your boyfriend while on a visitor visa only returning to Mexico every so often to appease immigration,was and is illegal. Just because others have done it does not make it right. We all miss our significant others but we went thru the proper channels and did things legally.You also applied for employment with a SSN you were not allowed to use for that purpose. Suck it up, admit what you did was wrong, stop attacking the people here who are trying to help you and hire an attorney

[cdneh 3,112]

I agree. Enough with the caps and bold type face. Yelling at people because you don't like their honest answers to your questions will win you no sympathy here.

You are trying to justify your behavior, by whining, and complaining, and moaning about how unfairly you have been treated. Blaming everyone but the person who deserves the credit. Yourself.

"Ok I appreciate all the advices, but some of you guys are being very unfair, since you don't know the storie, first of all I'm not trying to sound like a victim here, I was just asking for your advice, I mean seriously, why would I lie to everyone on here?? I needed an advice ok??I'm not lying to anyone,I feel so frustrated. I AM NOT THE VICTIM and I'm aware of that, I chose to stay with my boyfriend but don't you get it?? I had a Tourist visa for years, and I never tried to live in the USA. I never cared abt it, but I fell in love with my boyfriend, you have any idea how It feels to be in another country, not having anyone but just the person you love."

Every last soul on this board understands who hard it is to be separated from the one they love. Some for years and years. You abused your tourist visa to get around the system, because you thought you found a loophole, and everyone does it after all, all those illegals get away with it, and you were caught. Now you get to deal with it.

[san diego 407]

SAN DIEGO??? what you mean with : " There are more decent people that chose legal route" THAT MEANS THAT IM indecent to you ?? obviously you didn't read very well did you?? I NEVER SAID THAT I WAS THE VICTIM... I CHOSE TO BE WITH MY BOYFRIEND.. BUT I WAS PLANNING ON COMMING BACK TO MY COUNUTRY... I have proof of that since they saw my ticket in hand... I was comming back to my country after Newyears.. (3 months later) I WAS GOING TO SETTLE DOWN IN MY COUNTRY..BECAUSE I KNEW IN MY HEART I DIDN'T BELONG THERE...I KNEW I DIDN'T HAVE A LIFE THERE.. SAYING AT HOME ALL DAY LONG.. NOT GOING ANYWHERE BUT JUST TO WAIT FOR MY BF TO BE HOME WITH ME.. WASN'T A LIFE...IT'S NOT THAT I WAS HAVING A GOOD TIME AND MAKING MONEY WHEN I WAS ON MY TOURIST VISA... I DID NOT WORK OR DID ANYTHING INDECENT LIKE YOU SAY... I MADE A MISTAKE AND I'M PAYING THE CONSEQUENCES! SO I WAS NOT TAKING A SHORTCUT...I'm not looking for sympathy on here either.. I found a temporary job just to make money for the holidays which was not right either. IM AWARE OF THAT. but I was not trying to take a shortcut.... if I wanted to take A shortcut then I would illegaly cross the border or would have done something else.. but I'm also waiting here... so thank you for your comment ANYWAY.. I NEVER SAID IM THE VICTIM AND I'M NOT TRYING TO EXCUSE MYSELF!!! JUST TRYING TO FIND ANSWERS!!

It is taken out of context. I did not say that you are not decent. However, I feel that people taking legal route like the ones applying for K1 and CR1 from EU and UK are more decent and honest.. yes. And what I really meant is that there are more good people that do not commit crime or immigration fraud then illegal immigrants and criminals respectively. Nobody would judge you if you didn't start by saying that you were treated unfair by USCIS. In fact you were treated fair: you got caught. This is your business how you want to carry your life but don't say this is unfair if you get caught in illegal behaviour... Just accept it and move on with doing right from now going forward per VJers advice rather then trying to defend your prior illegal behaviour...

[catknit 144]

Every last soul on this board understands who hard it is to be separated from the one they love. Some for years and years.

You have unfortunately found this sub-forum. I get that you are hurting, are frustrated, and are confused on the next steps. You've gotten great advice from many members here on what to do next. But, please keep in mind what is quoted above. We've all been there, some with much, much, much tougher hoops to jump through....

Since you found this sub-forum, take a peek around. Really. I highly recommend the Islamabad AP thread. You know what happened, how the decisions were made, and [now] what your next steps are - your hands are not tied, you have a way forward. There are people here in the hellish pit of AP with no answers, no light at the end of the tunnel, no living with their loved one for a year and a half playing house, no tourist visas to be able to visit...we get it. Get on the phone and find a good attorney - you'll be back in the US before you know it.

[Mariana17 0]

thanks catknit and good luck to you : about the other comments I have nothing to say... you don't make me feel bad at all... I know my storie and what I really did.. if you continue saying that what am going trough is what I deserve you wasting your time.I'm on this website to get answers and to support others not to attack anyone or try to make them feel bad saying things like some ppl say do.. am not even reading those comments.. Thanks a lot to those who really helped me with their answers that's all I was looking for..

[belinda63 3,038]

The problem isn't so much that YOU know what happened and YOU know what you did, it is what immigration believes you did or tried to do. You were a student and obtained a social security card. You abused the tourist visa to live in the U.S. with your boyfriend for more than a year. You now have a social security card that has been defaced to present itself as belonging to someone legally authorized to work in the U.S. You attempted to re-enter the U.S. with a pretty clear log that you were practically living here, not visiting, and possibly admitted you had a job. If you were looking at this case from the outside, what would you think?

[Ban Hammer 13,395]

closed pending review

[Ban Hammer 13,395]

i think this thread has run it's course and the op has received enough valid advice. it will remain closed.