DIVORCE 6 times.

[pieroot 43]

I'm not saying that people can't change, but the best predictor for future behavior is past behavior. Think about this long and hard.

[Filipinalover21 5]

Darling, if you love him and you trust that he loves you, his past or your past should not be an issue. Trust me, maybe he has finally found the right person for him. Check your heart. Check your trust in him.

I know..Thank You.

[Jahwaree 83]

Go for it. If he was widowed 6 times there would be concerns and of course immigration would definately

question it, how many here have had more than 6 relationships, how many can garantee their marriage will work?

just be truthful both of you , get your ducks in row if its real there should be no fear.

[Filipinalover21 5]

Go for it. If he was widowed 6 times there would be concerns and of course immigration would definately

question it, how many here have had more than 6 relationships, how many can garantee their marriage will work?

just be truthful both of you , get your ducks in row if its real there should be no fear.

one of his ex wives passed away.

yes i definitely want to know who have been here in this situation. Thanks.

[mamaSue 38]

one of his ex wives passed away.

yes i definitely want to know who have been here in this situation. Thanks.

Does that mean he's been married 7 times before, then!!???

[Filipinalover21 5]

Does that mean he's been married 7 times before, then!!???

no..6.

[waiting_for_aos 11]

no..6.

Getting divorced six times is definitely a red flag. Expect a lot of scrutiny from USCIS. Even though viability of marriage is not required by law, USCIS does look at it. They might also wonder if you want to marry such an unstable man for immigration benefits. Having said that, each case is unique. A lot will depend on other details such as age difference between you and your partner, education, finances, background, time spent together, how you met, pictures etc. You have to prove that your relationship is based on love.

Finally, I know its your personal business, but be very very careful marrying a person who has been divorced six times. These kind of people are really unstable and they move on or find someone else as soon as they get bored. They often end up hurting their spouses and children. But then again, I neither know you nor your partner so my advise is just based on a very limited information. You are the best judge of this situation.

[Scott and Mhay 57]

no..6.

If he was widowed, that would not count as a "divorce." So how many true divorces did he have?

You will have to have a talk with him and hopefully he will be honest with you. You will need to know about his ex-wives for the interview anyway. your petition would be a nightmare on getting all the divorce decrees together to submit with the application. Hopefully he tells the truth in the petition.

[Filipinalover21 5]

If he was widowed, that would not count as a "divorce." So how many true divorces did he have?

You will have to have a talk with him and hopefully he will be honest with you. You will need to know about his ex-wives for the interview anyway. your petition would be a nightmare on getting all the divorce decrees together to submit with the application. Hopefully he tells the truth in the petition.

He been divorce for 6 times but since one of his EX wife is passed away already so that mean 5.

Yeah absolutely i told him we need to discuss it about all his ex wives and there's no need to hide on me as is this will come out on the day of my interview...since he coming next month it will be more proper to discuss face to face. I been upset with this situation but keep praying everything will be ok.

[Filipinalover21 5]

The fact that he wasn't the one who wanted the divorces is a GIANT flag that there could be some deep seeded issues/negative behaviors he's harboring. I would genuinely question him on all of the marriages, as you will need to know about them at the interview, and as this is the man you're intending to marry and spend the rest of your life with, you should know every detail about him.

Who knows, maybe he was just unlucky in love....or maybe there is something you should watch out for?

Yes i know..Absolutely we will talked and discuss all about his ex wives since he coming this next month it will be properly to discuss face to face.

[Nick + Elizabeth 54]

The question is, what did he do that made the first 6 want to divorce him?

[Owen_London 65]

Yes i know..Absolutely we will talked and discuss all about his ex wives since he coming this next month it will be properly to discuss face to face.

It strikes me, and probably most of the people in this thread, that he probably has a personal problem or problems that have caused six different women to divorce him, be that wanting too much control, infidelity, unpleasant personal habits, or whatever. If he isn't able to be honest about it to himself to resolve that problem previously, then he is very unlikely to be honest about it to you. In that situation, talking about it with him will not solve your problem, particularly if you could be blinded by loving him.

Honestly, if I was your close friend or relative, I would be shaking you by the shoulders and asking you "What are you thinking?"

[sjr09 155]

I think everyone, or most are attempting the impossible our life experience, commonsense and logic can't penetrate the thick skin of ignorance. The OP seem to think everything is okay with her SO past marriages, according to what 'he's' told her. Young and naive she is but I feel we are whipping a dead horse.

[Love's JAA 100]

The trend is your friend. When the insiders have been selling his stock on six consecutive occasions, you the relative outsider might want to consider not making that purchase.

[Its Ok 2]

Yes i know..Absolutely we will talked and discuss all about his ex wives since he coming this next month it will be properly to discuss face to face.

Have you met this person " In Person " ?