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sjr09   155

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This is not just being enjoy but there is love.. i love him..now i am confuse. :crying:

In my opinion, anyone who has been divorced six times has a problem which love won't solve.

What you mean?

The above in bold, is what 'Tahoma' means!

Has nothing to do with love. Now you understand why he has been divorced six times before?

'PAU' both wife and daughter in the U.S. 08/25/2009

Daughter's' CRBA Manila Embassy 08/07/2008 dual citizenship

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The CO may want to see evidence of a strong relationship to be sure that you will not soon be ex spouse #7 and become a public charge. Your other post talks about a pre-nup, so don't expect any sor

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Not a all... It's absolutely normal... Seriously ?

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In my opinion, anyone who has been divorced six times has a problem which love won't solve.

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I had a friend who have an identical situation where her husband the US citizen was married 5 times, (3 of them to foreigners which one of them obtained GC ), if you still waiting for your interview at the embassy, I would recommend the US citizen to be present because most likely this will come up in the interview. No law is against multiple marriages even from foreigners as long as every marriage started with a divorce decree from the prior marriage and was entered in good faith and not to help anyone stay in the US. My friend passed her interview because the US husband was present to answer about all these marriages.

Good luck

Thank You..Surely he would be here.

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Sounds like either he picked the wrong girls or has commitment issues. Do you know for a fact that he didnt have any other foreign spouses or is that what he is telling you. Me personally I dont think I could get divorced 6 times. I would have hung it up and not worried about getting married again after the second time. How old is your husband/fiance? (I am guessing you guys are already married or thinking of getting married...your timeline isnt filled in and it just shows that you guys are applying for CR-1/IR-1 visa)

That would be too much of a red flag for me to even have interest of being with that person. If you both stay together and apply for the visa, best of luck to you.

He was not the one who starting divorce that what he told me.

The above in bold, is what 'Tahoma' means!

Has nothing to do with love. Now you understand why he has been divorced six times before?

Yes and beside he was not the one starting divorce.

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In my opinion, anyone who has been divorced six times has a problem which love won't solve.

i agree :yes:

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He was not the one who starting divorce that what he told me.

Yes and beside he was not the one starting divorce.

You seem to think everything is okay because he wasn't the one who filed for divorce. For me, it's a huge red flag.

By the way, it takes more than love to make a marriage work.

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Divorce in America happens, is 6 times more than normal? Yes, but there are many factors to consider. First and foremost is his age? How long was he married to each? Did he father any children? What type of employement does he or did he do?

My brother was married 7 times, in most cases, his job and child was the main reason for his failed marriges. Is he a bad man, no, if I was woman would I marry him, no.

You need to do a further back ground check on his past to make sure he is legit, I know that you do not have a lot of money, but being resourceful can be very helpful.

Best of luck on your journey.

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Divorce in America happens, is 6 times more than normal? Yes, but there are many factors to consider. First and foremost is his age? How long was he married to each? Did he father any children? What type of employement does he or did he do?

My brother was married 7 times, in most cases, his job and child was the main reason for his failed marriges. Is he a bad man, no, if I was woman would I marry him, no.

You need to do a further back ground check on his past to make sure he is legit, I know that you do not have a lot of money, but being resourceful can be very helpful.

Best of luck on your journey.

Yes thanks and i am doing background check as i can.

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This is not just being enjoy but there is love.. i love him..now i am confuse. :crying:

Darling, if you love him and you trust that he loves you, his past or your past should not be an issue. Trust me, maybe he has finally found the right person for him. Check your heart. Check your trust in him.

NOA 1 November 15, 2010

NOA 2 August 25, 2011

Closed NVC Ocotber 11, 2011

Interview Date: January 12,2012

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My husband's grandfather had 6 divorces under his belt.

There was a catch tho - they were all from the same woman :whistle:


USCIS [*] 22 Nov. 2011 - I-129 package sent; [*] 25 Nov. 2011 - Package delivered; [*] 25 Nov. 2011 - NOA1/petition received and routed to the California Service Center; [*] 30 Nov. 2011 - Touched/confirmation though text message and email; [*] 03 Dec. 2011 - Hard copy received; [*]24 April 2012 - NOA2 (no RFEs)/text message/email/USCIS account updated; [*] 27 April 2012 - NOA2 hard copy received.

NVC [*] 14 May 2012 - Petition received by NVC ; [*] 16 May 2012 - Petition left NVC.

EMBASSY [*] 18 May 2012 - Petition arrived at the US Embassy in Bucharest; [*] 22 May 2012 - Package 3 received; [*] 24 May 2012 - Package sent to the consulate, interview date set; [*] 14 June 2012 - Interview date, approved.

POE [*] 04 July 2012 - Minneapolis/St.Paul. [*] 16 September 2012 - Wedding Day!

AOS/EAD/AP [*] 04 February 2013 - AOS/EAD/AP package sent; [*] 07 February 2013 - AOS/EAD/AP package delivered; [*] 12 February 2013 - NOA1 text messages/emails; [*] 16 February 2013 - NOA1 received in the regular mail; [*] 28 February 2013 - Biometrics letter received (appointment date, March 8th); [*] 04 March 2013 - Biometrics walk-in completed (9 out of 10 fingerprints taken, pinky would not give in); [*] 04 April 2013 - EAD/AP card approved; [*] 11 April 2013 - Combo card sent/tracking number obtained; [*] 15 April 2013 - Card delivered.

[*] 15 May 2013 - Moved from MN to LA; [*] 17 May 2013 - Applied for a new SS card/filed an AR-11 online (unsuccessfully), therefore called and spoke to a Tier 2 and changed the address; [*] 22 May 2013 - Address updated on My Case Status (finally can see the case numbers online); [*] 28 May 2013 - Letter received in the mail confirming the change of address; [*] 31 July 2013 - Went to Romania; [*] 12 September 2013 - returned to the US using the AP, POE Houston, everything went smoothly; [*] 20 September 2013 - Spoke to a Tier2 and put in a service request; [*] 23 September 2013 - Got "Possible Interview Waiver" letter (originally sent on August, 29th to my old address, returned and re-routed to my current address); [*] 1 October 2013 - Started a new job.

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I, personally, would not feel comfortable uprooting my entire life for someone who's clearly shown that the level of commitment a marriage requires is too much for them.

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It's not a reason for denial, but of course the US Consulate will pay some "extra" attention in your case.

Did you hear about red flags? I would stay away from someone like him. In my opinion a man divorced six times or he has a serious commitment problem or he is a good actor hiding part of his story.Good luck.

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If you go ahead with it then be prepared to answer very detailed questions about all 6 ex's. Names, addresses, what was the reason for divorce

etc.etc....

Take plenty of time to observe his behavior and assess your relationship for an extended period of time before jumping into filing, to see if his true colors show.Watch for possible addictions or anger outbursts. Either all 6 women had problems that he failed to recognize before he married them, which

seems a bit odd, or he has some issues that the women discovered and said oh heck no and left.

Be careful !

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I-129F Sent : 3-31-2014, NOA2: 4-6-2014

NVC Received : some dinkelsberry yehoo in the house of clingons send our petition to the wrong consulate.

Consulate Received : July 30,2014 Transfer to right embassy complete.

Interview Date : Oct 22, 2014

Interview Result : AP , requesting another PC (not expired) and certified divorce decree (was submitted)Stokes interview via phone for petitioner 4 hrs after interview.

Oct 23 email notification visa approved.
Visa Received : Nov. 3 , 2014 VISA IN HAND.

US Entry : Nov. 21, 2014

Marriage : Dec 27, 2014

AOS send : May 12, 2015, received May 14, 2015 USPS priority

Email &text : May 18, 2015, check cashed May 19,2015, return receipt May 21, 2015 stamped USCIS Lockbox, NOA1 (3x) May 22,2015

Biometrics : June 1, 2015 letter received for appointment June 8, 2015, successful walk-in June 1, 2015

RFE : June 12, 2015 for income not meeting guideline. Income does ( ! ) exceed guideline.

RFE response : June 26, 2015 returned with a boat load full of financial evidence.

UPDATE: July 5, 2015 updated on all 3 cases, RFE received June 30, 2015.

Service request : Aug 12, 2015, letter received that it will be processed within 90 days from receipt of RFE.

UPDATE: Aug 24, 2015, EAD card being produced/ordered. ( 102 days from AOS receipt day and 55 days from RFE response received.) Thank you Jesus !

Emails : Aug 24, 2015, EAD approved, EAD card ordered.

I-797 EAD/AP approval notice received : Aug 27, 2015

EAD/AP combo card mailed : Aug 27, 2015, EAD/AP combo card received: Aug 31, 2015

Renewal application send for EAD/AP : May 31,2016 (AOS pending over 1 year). Received June 2, 2016,Notice date June7, 2016, emails,texts, NOA1 hard copy

Service request for pending AOS April 21, 2016, case not assigned yet.
Service request for pending AOS June 14, 2016, tier 2 said performing background checks.
Expedite request for EAD/AP Aug 3, 2016, Aug10 notification >request was received, assigned, completed. RFE letter requesting evidence for expedite, docs faxed Aug18

*Service request for I-485 Aug 3, 2016, Aug11 notification> request was assigned. Service request Dec 2, 2016.
AOS Interview letter received Aug 12, 2016

AOS Interview September 21, 2016.

Second Biometrics appointment letters received for EAD and AOS on Aug 15, 2016 for Aug 17 ( 2 day notice).

Second Biometrics completed Aug 17, 2016

Third Biometrics appointment letter received Aug 19, 2016 for Sept. 1, 2016. WTH ?!

EAD/AP (renewal) approval Aug 22, 2016, NOA2 received Aug 25, 2016

Renewal EAD in production notification text and online, expedite successful 4 days after RFE request response was faxed, Aug25mailed,Aug29received.

Sept. 21 Interview, 2 hour interview, we were separated and asked about 50 questions each for an hour each. IO was firm but professional, some smiles.
Several service requests made, contacted Senator and Ombudsman. Background checks still pending.
July 21, 2017 HOME VISIT.  Went well. Topic thread in AOS forum.
Waiting to skip ROC and get 10 yr GC due to over 2 year while pending AOS
AOS APPROVED Oct. 4, 2017 * Green card in hand Oct 13, 2017 !!!!!

First K1 denied after 16 month of AP. Refiled. We are a couple since 2009. Not a sprint but a matter of endurance.

 

 
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