"When it comes to adultery, it's 90% the womans fault"

[Veiled Princess 1]

If your husband cheated on you, it's only 10% his fault?

and a side comment...before you start waxing lyrical about the days gone by when girls were virgins....keep in mind that years ago, a divorced woman with children was looked down upon.

How fortunate for you that times have changed!

Not in Islam.

My husband wouldn't cheat on me because he fears his creator. He also wouldn't put himself in a postition of being alone with a non-related woman to be tempted in the first place.

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

He also wouldn't put himself in a postition of being alone with a non-related woman ...

There's always incest B)

[sarah and hicham 3]

In Saudi......[snip] ... women are respected, honored and protected and when a rape does occur the man is punished severly.

is the following link is one example of how women in saudi arabia are "respected and protected". the woman in this article was found guilty of adultery because she did not have the required 4 male witnesses to disprove the charges. there is no mention of the punishment the man participating in the " adultery" received.

warning-this is a graphic description of a public stoning in riyadh witnessed by an american. not for the faint of heart. do not say i did not warn you.

http://www.liddyshow.us/liddyfile35.php

Someone has a vivid imagination....

are you trying to tell me you do not believe this? are you saudi as you seem to spend a lot of your time defending saudis and the sharia (?spelling) law. have you even been to saudi? ( i am asking because it is difficult to get a visa there ) i work for a major oil company, i've been there numerous times as well as all over the world ( including some real shi+ places) i can tell you that even though i am a man and afforded many more priviliges ( compared to women) in saudi ( like driving), i thought that saudi arabia, despite being the wealthiest oil producing country had the poorest display of human rights in regards to women i have ever seen. you appear slightly misogynistic.. maybe you belong in saudi.

It's called being selective as to what she wants to hear or see and what she doesn't want to. The thing I think it funny is that VP I believe you were a Christian before or maybe a wiccan I can't remember now but how long have you been a Muslim? Why do you follow Saudi so much? Does your fiance? I find it hard to believe that your fiance has nothing to do with your beliefs and how strict you say you are.

I really feel sorry for you and I think you have been brainwashed. Good luck to you.

[Veiled Princess 1]

There's always incest B)

You're a sick #######. I'm glad you're not my kids' dad Does your wife know you have disgusting thoughts like this? Does she have any children she should hide from you?

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

There's always incest B)

You're a sick #######. I'm glad you're not my kids' dad Does your wife know you have disgusting thoughts like this? Does she have any children she should hide from you?

Relax, it was a joke. As in if your husband is a perv, not being around non-related women won't be enough. Get it now?

[Peikko 1,575]

What women wear has never to my knowledge been used as the reason/excuse for adultary.

There is no causality between what women wear and how likely it is that adultary will be prevelant in society.

[Fandango 1,439]

If your husband cheated on you, it's only 10% his fault?

and a side comment...before you start waxing lyrical about the days gone by when girls were virgins....keep in mind that years ago, a divorced woman with children was looked down upon.

How fortunate for you that times have changed!

Not in Islam.

My husband wouldn't cheat on me because he fears his creator. He also wouldn't put himself in a postition of being alone with a non-related woman to be tempted in the first place.

So your husband, as well as his creator, would feel it was his fault for cheating?

[sarah and hicham 3]

I think it sucks for those who are with VP that feel like they have to cover themselves up completely because men can't control themselves. I think the reason she is so strong in her beliefs is that she just converted not long ago, and her fiance is apparently very strict which has a large influence on her. You guys know how the new converts are, always very eager to share their "knowledge".

[Mr. Big Dog 10,747]

If your husband cheated on you, it's only 10% his fault?

and a side comment...before you start waxing lyrical about the days gone by when girls were virgins....keep in mind that years ago, a divorced woman with children was looked down upon.

How fortunate for you that times have changed!

Not in Islam.

My husband wouldn't cheat on me because he fears his creator. He also wouldn't put himself in a postition of being alone with a non-related woman to be tempted in the first place.

So your husband, as well as his creator, would feel it was his fault for cheating?

He just don't have to "cheat". He can just marry another woman when the other one get's too old or whatever. And another one after that. That is not cheating. You see, it's all build into the system. The creator takes care of the created like that.

Edited October 28, 2006 by ET-US2004

[mybackpages 0]

I wouldn't travel around alone like that because I wouldn't want to find myself in that kind of situation. I have no shame in allowing my husband to protect me.

BUT the whole rational for dressing modestly in Islam is that it allow womento go out alone and participate in society unharmed. Now you are saying even dressed modestly (as you defined it) you wouldn't travel alone?

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

You guys know how the new converts are, always very eager to share their "knowledge".

naya mullah zyada adrak khata hai

He just don't have to "cheat". He can just mary another woman when the other one get's too old or whatever. That is not cheating. You see, it's all build into the system. The creator takes care of the created like that.

They even have "temporary marriages" - http://www.library.cornell.edu/colldev/mideast/tmpmrig.htm

[Peikko 1,575]

My husband wouldn't cheat on me because he fears his creator. He also wouldn't put himself in a postition of being alone with a non-related woman to be tempted in the first place.

Hardly funny, but the point is that I prefer to have a husband who can control his biological functions whether he's in the company of women he is related to or not, than one who is allowed to cheat if the temptation is great enough.

[sarah and hicham 3]

You guys know how the new converts are, always very eager to share their "knowledge".

naya mullah zyada adrak khata hai

what

[Fandango 1,439]

If your husband cheated on you, it's only 10% his fault?

and a side comment...before you start waxing lyrical about the days gone by when girls were virgins....keep in mind that years ago, a divorced woman with children was looked down upon.

How fortunate for you that times have changed!

Not in Islam.

My husband wouldn't cheat on me because he fears his creator. He also wouldn't put himself in a postition of being alone with a non-related woman to be tempted in the first place.

So your husband, as well as his creator, would feel it was his fault for cheating?

He just don't have to "cheat". He can just mary another woman when the other one get's too old or whatever. That is not cheating. You see, it's all build into the system. The creator takes care of the created like that.

Well I wanna know why VP's hubby 'fears his creator' if he's not the one to blame should there be an affair.

Gotcha!

[Veiled Princess 1]

What women wear has never to my knowledge been used as the reason/excuse for adultary.

There is no causality between what women wear and how likely it is that adultary will be prevelant in society.

I don't agree.